Gender Matters: Insights from a Physician

What makes sports fair? Is it about leveling the playing field or ensuring everyone has a shot, no matter their unique advantages? In this episode, I explore the complex and often unexamined concept of fairness in sports. We’ll explore different perspectives on fairness. You'll hear how our personal biases and experiences shape our views on what’s fair—and why these views might need rethinkin...

This week, Dr. Shannon, a retired Ob/Gyn and gender educator, explores the multifaceted question: What makes a person a woman? This episode is inspired by the multiple comments online regarding Algerian women's Olympic boxer, Imane Khelif, discussing her gender and attempting to define it. Host Dr. Shannon delves into various definitions circulating on social media, from chromosomes to physic...

In this episode, we dissect the controversial statement that gender-affirming surgeries are performed on children. We clarify the definitions of surgery, the ages of patients involved, and the standards of care required. We also explore the misconceptions and facts surrounding gender-affirming care, focusing on what is truly being done and its implications for both transgender and cisgender indivi...

Today's episode is a heartfelt tribute to the legendary Dr. Ruth Westheimer, who passed away last weekend. Reflecting on Dr. Ruth's profound impact, we'll explore how her groundbreaking work in sexual education challenged taboos and empowered countless individuals. But you might wonder, what does Dr. Ruth have to do with healthcare for transgender and non-binary patients? Stay with...

In today's episode, we tackle a common misconception that frequently appears on social media: the belief that transgender and non-binary identities are mental health disorders. We'll dive deep into the history of how the medical community has evolved in its understanding and classification of gender diversity, discuss how to examine and challenge our own inherent biases and explore the i...

Today’s episode is all about a crucial rule I picked up during my medical school years—a rule that has significantly shaped how I provide care and build trust with my patients. In this episode, I’ll dive into this golden rule. I'll share how implementing this rule not only ensures purposeful and intentional patient interviews but also fosters a nurturing and empowering environment, particular...

In today's episode, "Understanding Patients Through the Lens of Gender Experience in Healthcare," we discuss the often overlooked but crucial intersection of gender identity and healthcare. I recently spoke with a remarkable physician who shared a powerful story about the impact of recognizing and using a patient's pronouns. This small act of affirmation highlights the importan...

In today's episode, we examine the urgency, or lack thereof, that people feel toward learning about gender inclusivity. Sharing an anecdote from a friend who described gender inclusivity as "not a bleeding neck issue," we explore why waiting until it's an urgent problem could lead to missed opportunities and deeper, more meaningful connections. We'll discuss the importance...

Today, we're diving into a heartfelt conversation about Pride. In this episode, we celebrate the joy of Pride festivals, reflect on the historical significance of the Stonewall Uprising, and discuss the ongoing fight for equality and visibility for the LGBTQ+ community. We’ll explore personal stories, like that of Dr. Shannon's friend, who became an advocate after facing homelessness for...

In this episode of the Engender Love Podcast, Dr. Shannon Panszi introduces her groundbreaking initiative, the School for Engendering Inclusivity. Designed for supportive individuals who feel hesitant to discuss gender issues due to a lack of confidence or fear of making mistakes, this program aims to make you feel comfortable and knowledgeable in just three months. Dr. Shannon shares how the scho...

Happy Pride Month, everyone! This week on Engender Love, we're revisiting one of our foundational episodes — the second ever released. In this special replay, we'll dive deep into the essential concepts of gender identity, gender expression, and biological sex. These three terms are often confused or thought to be synonymous, but understanding their differences is crucial for better conn...

In this episode of Engender Love, Dr. Shannon Panszi addresses the importance of empowering patients, especially transgender and non-binary individuals, in healthcare settings. She shares valuable insights on how healthcare providers can enhance patient empowerment through effective communication and respectful practices. Dr. Panszi emphasizes the significance of providing patients with informatio...

In today's episode, we tackle the urgent need for better healthcare training around gender diversity. I recently spoke with a healthcare provider who, like many others, felt embarrassed and unprepared when treating transgender or nonbinary patients. This episode explores why this knowledge gap exists and how medical education is beginning to address it. We’ll discuss the historical context of...

In today's episode, we delve into the prevalent yet challenging topic of fear in pursuing gender inclusivity within businesses and organizations. Dr. Shannon discusses how fear, whether due to potential backlash or the anxiety of making mistakes, can deter individuals and businesses from embracing inclusion. Throughout the episode, we explore practical ways to navigate these fears, the import...

Today, Dr. Shannon, dives deep into the common misconceptions surrounding gender identity, emphasizing the crucial understanding that gender identity is not a choice. Shannon challenges outdated terms and expressions, such as "preferred pronouns," and addresses how language can unintentionally imply choice in gender identity. She shares poignant examples from her experiences, shedding li...

Today, our host, Dr. Shannon Panszi, delves into the intricate and ever-evolving world of gender terminology. Often, many of us find ourselves unsure of how to address or refer to someone who has transitioned. Dr. Shannon provides insight not just into the 'how' but, importantly, into the 'why' behind the terms we use, especially why they matter in respecting others' ident...

In this episode, we dive into the foundational actions businesses must undertake before claiming the title of a gender-inclusive organization. Today, we dissect the importance of going beyond surface-level changes and delve into the necessity of a deep understanding of gender that transcends outdated perceptions. We'll tackle the key steps required to become a gender-inclusive business and un...

Dr. Shannon Panszi examines the delicate interplay between creating exclusive spaces for safety and fostering inclusivity. Shannon invites listeners to question the rationale behind gendered business practices and the impact on achieving their intended goals. Through personal stories and critical questioning, the discussion emphasizes the impact of gender intentionality, the use of inclusive langu...

In episode #11 of Engender Love, host Dr. Shannon Panszi dives into the important topic of asking for pronouns. Shannon shares personal experiences and insights on when and how to ask for somebody's pronouns. She discusses her journey of assuming pronouns, learning from experiences, and evolving. Shannon also addresses the importance of respecting pronouns in group settings, emphasizing the n...

In this episode of Engender Love, Dr. Shannon Panszi addresses the common belief that some people have that they can't learn to use someone's pronouns correctly. She challenges the reasons people use, such as age and academic background, and emphasizes that learning pronouns is possible if you are willing to put in the work. Dr. Panszi shares a powerful story of an 83-year-old grandfathe...

In this episode of Engender Love, host Dr. Shannon Panszi delves into the complexities of learning names and pronouns in relation to gender identity. Dr. Shannon shares personal experiences and theories behind the challenges of adjusting to new names and pronouns, offering insights into the subconscious associations our brains make. She provides practical tips for retraining the brain to use the c...

In this episode, Dr. Shannon Panszi shares her journey of understanding gender and the importance of language in properly representing and honoring gender diversity. She introduces her upcoming courses, starting with Gender 101, aimed at helping people comprehensively understand gender, terminology, and respectful language usage. To promote understanding, Dr Shannon is including office hours with...

On episode 7 of the Engender Love Podcast, Dr. Shannon Panszi examines the societal construct of associating colors with gender. As she delves into the historical context, Dr. Panszi uncovers the origins of the pink for girls and blue for boys convention, shedding light on the societal influences and marketing strategies that perpetuated these associations. Join us as we challenge preconceived not...

In Episode 6 of the Engender Love podcast, we delve into the ever-evolving landscape of gender expression. Dr. Shannon Panszi explores the shifting perceptions of gender presentation throughout history. She shares anecdotes, historical insights, and thought-provoking observations on how societal norms around clothing, hairstyles, and accessories have changed over time. Join us as we challenge prec...

In this episode of Engender Love, Dr. Shannon dives into the fascinating world beyond the biological binary. She delves into the misconception of binary classification in nature, particularly in the context of biological characteristics. Dr. Shannon provides insight into the four main characteristics used to classify sex, debunking the idea of a strict binary in external and internal anatomy, chro...