Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley
Gender: A Wider Lens
In this podcast, now in its fourth year, therapists Stella O'Malley and Sasha Ayad take a deep dive into the psychological and cultural forces impacting the social changes around "gender." Through interviews with researchers, doctors, therapists, parents, detransitioners, and others, Sasha and Stella's podcast is a "must listen" for anyone trying to navigate the current gender landscape. With their sharp analytical minds and deep compassionate hearts, Stella and Sasha have also become known throughout many parent networks as lighthouses in the midst of some very stormy seas. Previous guests in...
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Feb 25, 2025
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Premium: "Men Should Not Be Induced to Produce Something from Their Nipples, That Some People Want to Call Milk" 11.05.2024 14:24
“Chestfeeding”. A controversial term recently adopted from inside the critical social justice movement as inclusive language for discussing breastfeeding. But is it biologically plausible for men to induce lactation? Is it even milk? Is it safe? Natural mammalian lactation possesses evolutionary significance beyond basic sustenance and often provides broader biological functions in human developme...
163 - Trans Ideology is a Restriction of Freedom, Not an Expansion of It, with Heather Heying 10.05.2024 1:11:23
Evolutionary biology, gender dynamics, societal norms, chemicals, technology…there is no denying the intricate interplay between biological, psychological, technological and cultural factors in shaping human behavior and identity. Sasha and Stella welcome guest, Heather Heying to the show for a grounding conversation exploring the complexity of human behavior, the inevitability of making mistakes,...
Premium: Are Teens Replacing Friends with Therapists? 04.05.2024 17:38
In the past decade, it seems a cultural shift toward individualism has created a reluctance among friend groups to share personal struggles, often reserving them for therapy instead. It is important to acknowledge that there exists a delicate paradox in promoting the value of friendships as a source of support while also recognizing that not all issues can be effectively managed solely through pee...
162 - The Over-treatment of Young People 03.05.2024 1:04:23
This episode covers a lot of ground, emphasizing the complexities of therapy, the necessity for critical examination of conventional wisdom, and the importance of nurturing authentic relationships both inside the family and social circles (but more specifically, outside of the clinical setting). For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlensp...
Premium: I Was Not Looking to Be An Activist with Tamara Pietzke 27.04.2024 10:33
In many regions, institutional mandates and professional standards that prioritize affirming a child's gender identity without considering alternative approaches or potential risks, are requiring therapists to adhere to gender-affirming care protocols, regardless of any personal reservations and/or evidence based recommendations for anything other than affirmation and medicalization. My loyalty is...
161 - The Unlikely Whistleblower with Tamara Pietzke 26.04.2024 1:01:07
If you work in pediatric gender medicine and have concerns about the safety of practice, you are not alone. Contact the LGBT Courage Coalition for guidance and support (including finding legal counsel and connecting you with media contacts). Stella and Sasha welcome whistleblower, Tamara Pietzke for an important conversation highlighting the valuable role that clinicians who are able to speak open...
Premium: "People Aren't Born into Some Special Category of Person Called Trans" 20.04.2024 13:02
Teenagers, particularly those on the autism spectrum, encounter unique challenges in navigating social expectations, understanding their own identity, and processing information. These challenges can be compounded by the influence of social media and mainstream narratives, which often perpetuate misconceptions. Yet, the capacity of teenagers for critical analysis and insightful reflections is freq...
160 - People Deserve Better Than This "Gender-Affirming Care" with Christina Buttons 19.04.2024 1:14:50
This episode opens with an extended introduction exploring the recent release of The Cass Review - Final Report, as this is a massive development in the world of gender medicalization. The guest feature begins at the 00:10:30 timestamp, so please feel free to skip ahead if you’d like. Sasha and Stella welcome guest, Christina Buttons, for a special conversation covering everything from her persona...
Premium: When "Helpful" Treatments Harm Patients 13.04.2024 22:51
As the medical establishment continues to extract valuable lessons in the aftermath of the opioid crisis, the medical use of cannabis has become legalized in many US states. But is it an appropriate substitute for opioids? With a lack of scientific evidence supporting the efficacy of cannabis compared to traditional over-the-counter pain relievers (like Motrin), do we fully understand the impact t...
159 - From Opioids to Gender, How Harmful Policies Scale in our Modern Healthcare System with Dr. Carrie Mendoza 12.04.2024 1:05:14
Sasha and Stella welcome Dr. Carrie Mendoza back to the show for her second appearance with the Wider Lens duo. Together, they dive into crucial topics surrounding medical practice, healthcare education, ethical healthcare standards and policy implementation in healthcare administration. Carrie’s insights draw from her experience with the opioid epidemic, highlighting the lessons learned about its...
Premium: The Ancient Link Between Religion and Mutilation 06.04.2024 14:14
Identity formation and development involves a multitude of factors at play. Historical events, societal norms, cultural movements, traditions, customs, language, ‘social norms’, cognitive process, emotional development, sexual development...These factors collectively influence not only an individual's personal sense of identity but also contribute to shaping broader societal perceptions of identit...
158 - The Little-Known Shocking History of Gender Identity Ideology with Malcolm Clark 05.04.2024 1:03:14
In this episode, Sasha and Stella welcome Malcolm Clark for a really interesting conversation exploring various facets of historical ideas and identities around gender, homosexuality, and the evolution of identity activism. This discussion navigates the intricate and contentious terrain of understanding gender non-conformity and identity expression across history. For links and resources relevant...
Premium: From Transmaxxing to Transhumanism 30.03.2024 13:21
From bionic enhancements to extreme body modifications, the lines are blurry between identity theory and queer theory. There is a complex interplay of incentives, ideological beliefs, optimized physical and mental wellness, and functionality within society - all reliant on quality medical care and support, but at whose financial expense? And what is the purpose of medicine (particularly where it i...
157 - Is Our Culture Incentivizing Men to Transition? with Sascha Bailey 29.03.2024 1:05:00
Guest, Sascha Bailey, reflects on his journey as a model, art curator, and pioneer in the NFT (Non-Fungible Tokens) art scene. A captivating account of the intersection where art, tech, and culture collide with personal identity. Sascha differentiates between emotional and functional motives for transitioning, discussing transmaxxing, incentives, and societal trends. Offering listeners a blend of...
Premium: How Has WPATH Responded to the Leaked Files? 23.03.2024 22:01
There is no question, given the recommendations outlined in WPATH’s SOC-8 , that WPATH is in fact recommending extraordinary medical procedures resulting in extreme body modifications. Some of the most unusual cases, promoting individually customized procedures that are meant to create body types that don't exist in nature. So why doesn't WPATH just rebrand as a sexual cosmetic surgery group? Why...
156 - "WPATH Has No Respect for Medical Ethics" with Mia Hughes 22.03.2024 1:08:04
Sasha and Stella welcome Mia Hughes to the show for a chilling conversation covering WPATH's evolution from a medical organization to an activist-driven group, societal implications of medical scandals across history, and the delicate distinctions within individual experiences of gender dysphoria. For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlens...
Premium: Tales of a Canceled Evolutionary Biologist 16.03.2024 20:06
This is a fun one folks! “This is so much more interesting than biological sex being real!” - Sasha When considering personality, behavior, and social traits, there are some whom embrace the concept of ‘cognitive creationists’, implying that human behavior is solely shaped by socialization rather than biological factors, completely neglecting the profound impact of our mammalian heritage on our co...
155 - Loop de Loops and Deepities of Sex and Gender with Colin Wright 15.03.2024 1:05:02
Gender, sex, intersex conditions, hormonal interventions, sexual signaling, behavioral differences…this episode covers them all. Sasha and Stella welcome evolutionary biologist, Dr. Colin Wright for a long overdue discussion going deep into the intersection of biology, psychology, and social factors in shaping our understanding of sex and gender. This is a refreshing conversation exploring insight...
Premium: Bringing Androgyny Back 13.03.2024 17:08
Sasha and Stella ask Scarlet, “What would you have needed when you started to experiment with this idea of being transgender?” “Proper medical care would be nice” Quality therapy is essential, advocating for nuanced discussions on gender and, especially during adolescence, body image issues. A supportive environment, exposure to positive role models, and awareness around online abuse, is crucial....
154 - "My Entire Childhood Was Medicalized" with Scarlet 12.03.2024 1:34:35
Sasha and Stella share a profound and moving conversation with Scarlet, a young person who just wants “my story to add to the conversation around the impacts of transitioning as a youth - physically, mentally, and socially - both positives and negatives.” A crucial Detransition Awareness Day exploration of the nuances of self-discovery in a gender-affirming landscape. For links and resources relev...
Premium: Talking About Medical Ethics and the AAP Conference with Laura Becker 09.03.2024 23:38
Given the recent release of the WPATH Files, the question of medical ethics in pediatric gender healthcare is undeniable. Stories like Laura's shed light on significant gaps in processes promoted as "life-saving" care. The infiltration of activism in medical fields is increasingly evident, emerging through whistleblower accounts, anecdotal experiences, growing numbers of detransitioners, legal act...
153 - Why Smart, Quirky, Artistic Girls Take Up the Transition Fantasy w/Laura Becker 08.03.2024 1:03:16
With Stella on break this week, a solo Sasha welcomes guest Laura Becker who offers insightful and endearing reflections about the misdirected creativity of ROGD girls being channeled into queer theory ideas. She shares some intimate details of her personal story including the impact of chronic abuse on her mental health, her journey on testosterone, her radical double mastectomy, and her decision...
Premium: Silencing, Shaming and Scapegoating with Kathleen Stock 02.03.2024 16:11
After the release of her book "Material Girls: Why Reality Matters for Feminism" in 2021, while she was a Professor of Philosophy at Sussex University, Dr. Kathleen Stock found herself being targeted by a group of activists. She faced harassment and protests including placing provocative stickers and posters throughout the campus with transphobic allegations against Stock, despite her book's thoug...
152 - Trapped in a Language Cul-De-Sac with Kathleen Stock 01.03.2024 1:04:31
Looking for support as a parent of a gender-questioning youth or young adult? Attend a Wider Lens Parent Retreat in 2025! Registration is now open. Visit https://widerlens.events/parent-retreat-2025 to learn more and secure your spot. Sasha and Stella welcome Dr. Kathleen Stock. Explore the complexities of identity, the nuances of “inclusive” language, societal expectations, and the balance betwee...
Premium: Like a Daydream Out of a Science Fiction Novel 24.02.2024 9:58
The significance of technological and scientific advancements in medicine is unquestionable. However, it prompts a critical examination of the appropriate limits when conducting experiments to uncover treatments leading to optimal outcomes. Experimentation necessarily entails risks, and achieving medical progress often involves interventions with potential dangers and unknown outcomes. Striking th...
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