Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley

Gender: A Wider Lens

Society EN ↓ 353 episodes

In this podcast, now in its fourth year, therapists Stella O'Malley and Sasha Ayad take a deep dive into the psychological and cultural forces impacting the social changes around "gender." Through interviews with researchers, doctors, therapists, parents, detransitioners, and others, Sasha and Stella's podcast is a "must listen" for anyone trying to navigate the current gender landscape. With their sharp analytical minds and deep compassionate hearts, Stella and Sasha have also become known throughout many parent networks as lighthouses in the midst of some very stormy seas. Previous guests in...

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Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley

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Society

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www.widerlenspod.com

Latest episode

Feb 25, 2025

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Episodes

191 - Holding the Line on Liberal Values, with Helen Pluckrose and Carrie Clark 01.11.2024

Sasha and Stella welcome writers Carrie Clark and Helen Pluckrose to the show for thoughtful and provocative dialogue, critically examining the intersections of identity, sex-based rights, mental health, and societal influences. Drawing from both personal experiences and professional insights, they explore complex and sensitive ideas around self-expression, feminism, and gender, encouraging a nuan...

Premium: Does Physical Strength Help Build Psychological Strength? with April Hutchinson 26.10.2024

Incorporating regular strength training can be profoundly beneficial, especially for women. Beyond the physical gains, such as improved bone density, hormonal balance, and overall health, strength training cultivates a unique sense of mental resilience and personal empowerment. Unlike purely aerobic exercise, lifting weights offers stability, balance, and structural protection that can prevent inj...

190 - From Addict to Champion to Activist, with April Hutchinson 25.10.2024

Sasha & Stella welcome April Hutchinson — former team Canada powerlifter, North American deadlift record holder, fairness for women in sports advocate and grateful recovering alcoholic — to discuss her incredible journey from battling alcohol addiction to becoming a world-class powerlifter. During COVID, she turned to powerlifting as part of her recovery, and within a short period, she achieved re...

189 - What Happened at the Genspect Conference in Lisbon 18.10.2024

In this episode, Sasha and Stella reflect on the Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon , discussing notable takeaways from various speakers. A key theme explored is how the gender debate has expanded into a multidisciplinary conversation, no longer just confined to therapists or concerned parents but drawing in academics, sociologists, and political thinkers worldwide. Their discussion covers a rang...

Premium: How to Break Through Thought-Stopping Cliches 12.10.2024

The idea of doubling down despite evidence to the contrary being so prevalent, not only in individuals but in institutions as well, is a defense mechanism, rooted in fear. The fear is often tied to high stakes, like personal identity, reputation, physical/mental health, or even financial performance and career stakes. There is a self-deception and rigidity in beliefs to protect oneself from the fe...

188 - Why Do People Double Down in the Face of Contrary Evidence? 11.10.2024

This conversation connects cognitive dissonance surrounding gender identity to cultural and institutional dynamics, including developments in gender medicine and resistance to emerging evidence that challenges prevailing medical practices — illustrating how deeply held beliefs become difficult to abandon even in the face of contradictory evidence.  The core idea is that just because something cann...

187 - Gender: A Wider Lens Live from Lisbon with Billboard Chris 04.10.2024

Sasha and Stella speak live from the Genspect Conference in Lisbon, Portugal, with special guest Billboard Chris, a Canadian activist dedicated to challenging gender ideology through public engagement and thought-provoking messages.  In this conversation, Chris explores the psychological and cultural forces influencing social changes around gender, sharing his motivations for activism and the jour...

Premium: We Need More Whistleblowers to Come Forward 28.09.2024

As debates surrounding gender medicine continue to evolve, the contrasting views within society become more evident. The polarization surrounding this issue, particularly in the U.S., often pits conservative religious beliefs against progressive advocacy for LGBTQ+ rights. This dichotomy raises critical questions about the ethics of affirming identity claims, particularly in relation to minors see...

186 - Courage is Contagious, with Whistleblower Vanessa Sivadge 27.09.2024

In this episode, Stella & Sasha sit down with Vanessa Sivadge, a former pediatric nurse at Texas Children's Hospital, who courageously exposed the illegal use of federally funded insurance programs to cover sex hormones and transgender treatments for minors. Initially coming forward anonymously as a whistleblower, Vanessa believed her concerns would incite meaningful change, only to face repercuss...

185 - Tales From Genderland with Julie Bindel 20.09.2024

Sasha & Stella invite renowned feminist and author Julie Bindel to reflect on her decades-long advocacy for women and girls, in-particular her recent work investigating gender ideology. Julie shares her motivation behind her new podcast series, Julie in Genderland , which amplifies the voices of parents grappling with their children being caught in the gender identity craze. In this episode, Julie...

Premium: When Did Everything Become A Matter of Life or Death? 14.09.2024

In today’s discourse, many issues are approached with a moral absolutist perspective. Positions are often viewed as either entirely right or wrong, with little room for nuanced understanding or compromise. This binary thinking leads to more extreme reactions and a diminished tolerance for opposing viewpoints. “If you had facts and reason on your side, you could tolerate a conversation.” The tenden...

184 - Chanting, Humming, and Silencing–The Attack on Free Speech in NYC Schools with Maud Maron 13.09.2024

Stella & Sasha welcome former public defender and education advocate, Maud Maron to the show for a fascinating conversation examining the intersection of education and politics. Maud reflects on the troubling shifts within schools, where merit and academic standards are being overshadowed by ideological pressures. In this episode, Maud discusses the evolving landscape of education, where tradition...

Premium: "It Took War for Me to Contend With My Own Reality" 11.09.2024

Exposing children to gender identity concepts at an early age can lead them to firmly latch onto these ideas, making it challenging to reconsider their beliefs, despite the broader context of the underlying causes of their distress. Gender identity often serves as a metaphor for broader developmental processes, such as individuation, which are typical in adolescence. However, the expansive and all...

183 - Running From Rockets and Walking Toward Womanhood, with Maia Poet 10.09.2024

Another special mid-week episode release! Sasha will be back for our next episode, but don’t miss this deeply moving conversation between Stella and guest, Maia Poet, who shares her powerful story of self-discovery through the lenses of gender identity, conflict, and societal expectations. Maia recounts the emotional and psychological conflict she faced living as a trans man in a religious society...

Why Aren't More Philosophers Delving Into Gender-Affirming Care? 07.09.2024

Masculinity and femininity are not purely socially constructed concepts but are grounded in evolutionary origins. Key distinctions between males and females from an evolutionary psychology perspective emphasize behavioral differences, including males' propensity for risk-taking, socio-sexuality, and aggression. These traits are deeply rooted in the evolutionary pressures faced by our ancestors. Se...

182 - What Exactly is a "Transcendent Sense of Gender"? with Alex Byrne 06.09.2024

In this episode, Sasha and Stella welcome Alex Byrne, philosopher and author of Trouble with Gender , to explore the evolving concept of gender, its historical roots, and the myths that shape modern discourse. Byrne offers an erudite yet accessible analysis of the term "gender," reflections about how much the term has changed and the far-reaching implications of those changes, and insights on infl...

Premium: When the Ideology Wanes, But the Dysphoria Remains 31.08.2024

Some individuals experience gender dysphoria as a deep-seated issue that predates any ideological framework, profoundly affecting their self-perception, sexuality, and overall satisfaction in life. Contrary to the more superficial aspects of the popular gender-affirming model of care, it is crucial to reconcile the persistent and often distressing nature of gender dysphoria with a more holistic, s...

181 - From Activist to Apostate–A Twisty-Turny "Gender Journey," with Tali 30.08.2024

Tali shares her journey from an ardent activist deeply immersed in gender and identity politics to someone questioning and ultimately walking away from the dogmatic beliefs she once held. Her story is a roller coaster of conviction, self-discovery, and transformation, particularly as she navigates the complexities of having encouraged her wife towards a trans identity of her own. Listeners will ga...

Premium: Parenting A Son with AGP Traits 28.08.2024

There remains a lingering stigma surrounding AGP specifically, but there’s a complexity to the breadth of proclivities, fixations and traits compelling certain behaviors and beliefs around sexuality and gender identity. And like discussed in The Many Roots and Presentations of Gender Dysphoria in Males , what might have otherwise remained latent in some males, has perhaps only been amplified by to...

180 - The Many Roots and Presentations of Gender Dysphoria in Males 28.08.2024

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT FROM OUR SPONSOR:  Therapy First  is hosting a live webinar August 29th at 7pm EDT. “Moral Injury and the Call to Recovery” with therapist, author and social scientist, Amber Ault, PhD.  CLICK HERE  TO REGISTER. *Therapy First has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider,ACEP No. 7505. This webinar provides 1.5 hours of CE credits. This episode is a s...

Premium: Boys Need to be Taught About Sacred Masculinity 24.08.2024

In the wake of the feminist movement's significant progress, perceptions of masculinity have evolved profoundly. This shift brings to light crucial issues related to the natural growth and developmental experiences of young men and boys coming of age in contemporary culture. The impact of perceptions and expectations surrounding modern masculinity is intricately linked to mental health and persona...

179 - Healing From Sissy Porn and Gender Dysphoria with Shane Cole 23.08.2024

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT FROM OUR SPONSOR:  Therapy First  is hosting a live webinar August 29th at 7pm EDT. “Moral Injury and the Call to Recovery” with therapist, author and social scientist, Amber Ault, PhD.  CLICK HERE  TO REGISTER (or visit therapyfirst.org/webinars for more information). *Therapy First has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider,ACEP No. 7505. This web...

Premium: Standing Up for Women in Sports Again and Again, with Jennifer Sey 17.08.2024

Explore themes of power dynamics in sports, the psychological toll of abusive coaching, and the cultural shift in how these issues are addressed today.  In this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Jennifer Sey shares about her experience as a gymnast and the broader culture of abuse and silence within the sport. Her journey from athlete to whistleblower, to author, and filmmaker is compelling a...

178 - How Brands Influence Culture (For Better or Worse) with Jennifer Sey 16.08.2024

Former big brand marketing powerhouse and national gymnastics champion, Jennifer Sey, joins Sasha and Stella to dissect trans-themed ads, corporate HR's influence, and the impacts of the adjustments to Title IX. This is a bold conversation about the evolution of corporate messaging, the rise of woke capitalism, and the growing influence of HR and DEI initiatives in shaping corporate culture. Wheth...

Premium: How the Danish Rainbow Council Influenced Politics 10.08.2024

In this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Jesper Rasmussen emphasizes a strategic approach to effecting change in public policy and societal perceptions. His comprehensive strategy balances direct political action with broader efforts to sway public opinion and leverage media influence. His efforts in Denmark involved relentless conversations about the hidden truths behind gender affirming ca...

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