Gayest Episode Ever

"Pilot" (February 28, 2001) In the wake of Will & Grace's success, the other broadcast networks each made efforts at their own homo-centric TV shows, and the CBS twist on this formula was Some of My Best Friends, which lasted only five episodes. The show was an adaptation of the indie comedy Kiss Me Guido, and it starred Jason Bateman and Alec Mapa as its resident gays. Guy Branum — stand-up comed...

"Liberace" (October 14, 1978) After a suggestion by Drew's heterosexual acquaintance, we've decided to discuss the gayest episode of The Muppet Show we could find. Tony Rodriguez joins us for a discussion of Muppets but also a fairly obscure FCC ruling that shaped prime time television for every child who grew up in 80s and 90s America, plus a rundown of why Liberace is awful. There is a lot going...

Whelp, we've made it: one hundred episodes. By which I mean that we actually hit that mark several episodes ago, by various standards, but this is when we are actually observing that this is a thing we have done repeatedly over a set amount of time. For this episode, Drew and Glen talk about what this podcast has ended up doing in contrast to how they thought it would work when it launched. Also d...

We are very pleased to congratulate Tony Rodriguez, our friend and the most-frequently occurring guest on Gayest Episode Ever on his new job: voicing Julio on The Simpsons. Tony is a gay Cuban-American and Julio is a gay Cuban-American, so it's just too perfect that the former made his debut on The Simpsons on last Sunday's episode, "Uncut Femmes." Before he goes too Hollywood, we managed to get h...

Heads up: This episode revolves around a funeral for a character that we are reading as trans. The humor had at the expense of the deceased may be difficult for some audience members to hear.  "Ebbtide's Revenge" (December 15, 1990) If you're reading this episode title and saying, "I've seen every Golden Girls, and I'm pretty sure Dorothy doesn't have a trans sister," we've got a guest to respond...

"Spell It M-A-N" (January 6, 1993) You might be surprised to learn that Doogie Howser M.D. only lasted four seasons and 97 episodes, but perhaps because Neil Patrick Harris has continued to be famous ever since, the show casts a lot longer of a shadow than it might otherwise. This fourth-season episode deals with Vinnie (Max Casella) being horrified to learn that his college roommate is gay, and b...

"The Dance Show" (October 21, 1990) Given the reputation of Married… With Children, you might be surprised to know that its treatment of a same-sex married couple is actually rather progressive. But yeah, in spite of his many hang-ups, Al Bundy seems unbothered by the prospect of two guys being married, even if the part that impresses him most is dedicated food preparation. We'll take what we can...

"Three Women and a Dummy" (May 13, 1996) Alongside Murphy Brown, Designing Women and The Nanny, Cybill was one of CBS's female-forward heavy-hitters in the 1990s. It didn't last as long as the other three — and yes, there's quite the story there — but in its four seasons it did manage to give us the Waiter. Played by Tim Maculan, he's one of the more important queer characters to recur on a popula...

What does it take to get a teen-centric show like Moesha to do a gay episode? Well, we talked to the writer of "Labels," Demetrius Andre Bady, who explains how the idea arose, how the final product differed from the original script, and what he thinks the legacy of the episode is today. Even better? He tells us which of the Moesha cast members pulled him aside to praise the bravery it took to push...

"Labels" (October 1, 1996) It's the tale of two sitcom episodes. Depending on who you are, this is either an episode about Moesha meeting a gay teen who's scared to come out, or it's an episode about the dangers of gossip. Maybe it's both. We are joined once again by Dr. Alfred L. Martin Jr. to discuss the importance of Moesha, why this episode of TV is utterly unique and who the cutest boy at Cre...

"Ladies' Choice" (November 10, 1992) Ninety episodes later, we dared to venture back to Roseanne. How does its legacy of LGBT advocacy hold up all these years later — and in light of the show's namesake's hard right turn into all manner of Trumpy badness? Glen and Drew have their takes, but that ultimate decision is up to you. However, this episode represents a milestone in representation as it ma...

"Out of the Closet" (November 1, 1976) Rest in Peace, Cloris Leachman. She leaves behind a legacy that includes such sitcom greats as The Mary Tyler Moore Show, The Facts of Life, The Simpsons, Malcolm in the Middle and Raising Hope, as well as a great body of other acting work. For two seasons, she also starred in a spinoff to Mary Tyler Moore that had Phyllis Lindstrom starting over in San Franc...

"Livin' la Pura Vida" (November 17, 2019) The Simpsons are going to Costa Rica! Gayest Episode Ever returns for its fourth season with an installment of The Simpsons that demonstrates how much the show has evolved in 31 seasons. But that's not all! In addition to discussing Patty's first functional relationship, we're also introducing a new side project: "Smithers & Beyond: Every LGBT Joke on The...

"The Doctor Is Out" (September 30, 2003) Three episodes into its final season, the gay subtext of Frasier comes to a climax, so to speak, when a dashing opera director played by Patrick Stewart becomes infatuated with Dr. Crane — and Frasier goes along with it about as far as a confirmed hetero can. This is our final episode of the year! We did so many episodes! Isn't it amazing what you can do wh...

"Fagmalion, Part Two: Attack of the Clones" (January 30, 2003) We're covering part two of a four-part Will & Grace arc, but it actually make sense in that this itself is part two of two-part crossover with Kyle Getz and Mike Johnson from the podcast Gayish , which is all about the stereotypes that surround gay identity. Is this Will & Grace a carnival of gay horrors? Yes, but that doesn't mean thi...

"The Zack Tapes" (December 2, 1989) What's gay about Saved By the Bell, aside from Slater's singlets and Tori's leather jacket? Well, there is one episode that very briefly demonstrated that same-sex attraction was a thing — on Saturday morning, no less. It's all he more surprising because the new Saved By the Bell manages to make amends for all the things the original series did wrong except feat...

"Strange Bedfellows" (November 7, 1987) The Golden Girls is beloved by many in the queer community, and for good reason, but the series is not batting a thousand when it comes to LGBT representation. This third season episode features a character who may just be the first trans man character on American TV. It's… not great, but not wholly a disaster, and writer Henry Giardina is here to offer the...

"We Are Family" (May 2, 1988) Finally, at long last, ALF! This is the first in a new series where Drew and Glen discuss shows that never did a gay episode. "But wait, Drew and Glen! You have done episodes that weren't explicitly gay before," you may be saying. This is true, but at the very least we could pretend that the writer maybe-kinda-sorta had some gay metaphor in mind. This new series is fo...

"Grand Illusion" (October 29, 1996) Because this is either the episode you're getting immediately before the election (if you're on the Patreon feed) or directly after (if you're on the main feed), we decided we'd try for something political. No, we don't know why we attempted this, but we ended up picking the first LGBT-themed episode from Spin City, which is arguably the most politically focused...

"Jennifer: The Movie" (October 29, 1983) We're celebrating both Halloween and week two of our celebration of Ann Jillian with an episode about how the 1983 NBC series Jennifer Slept Here is both so very weird and also a little gay boy's fantasy — because it pairs an awkward boy with glamorous ghost, and that's secretly what every little gay boy wishes he had to guide him through his awkward years....

"Gender Gap" (January 11, 1986) Heads up: Initially, at least, Drew thought the episode being discussed was more transphobic that most, but special guest Ashley Lauren Rogers pointed out the ways the one trans episode of It's a Living isn't a total wash — and since Ashley happens to be the host of the Is It Transphobic? podcast, that counts for something. Whatever you think, this episode offers a...

"Pride and Prejudice" (January 6, 2017) The new One Day at a Time gets major points for focusing on a Latin family, for successfully re-inventing a Norman Lear classic and for giving us another reason to love Rita Moreno. Most important for this podcast's purposes, however, is its nuanced handling of teenage Elena's coming out. This week, Tony Rodriguez joins us to discuss how this story arc is mo...

"A Toe in the Water" (September 23, 1991) What is Designing Women minus Delta Burke and Jean Smart but plus Julia Duffy and Jan Hooks? An interesting beast that is different than the Suzanne/Charlene years, yeah, but still pretty damn interesting. This episode is a showcase for Duffy's anti-Diane Chambers, Allison Sugarbaker, who only lasted a season but it wasn't her fault? Jonathan Bradley Welch...

"Pop Secret" (June 23, 1993) The HBO sitcom Dream On got a rep for being both a more grown-up take on sitcoms... and also a showcase for boobs. But this show's fourth-season gay episode lands pretty well today. It's all about series protag Martin Tupper (Brian Benben) finding out his dad is gay and processing it more realistically than other characters on other sitcoms would. The Entertainment Wee...

"The One with Rachel's Big Kiss" (April 26, 2001) Welcome back Emelie Battaglia for another go-around with America's favorite homophobic sitcom, Friends! This episode has "Chandler is gay" jokes aplenty, even if he's about to marry Monica, but the focus is actually on Rachel, who encounters a college acquaintance (Winona Ryder) with whom she once shared a kiss. This episode features two more woman...