Gayest Episode Ever

"Sorority House" (February 8, 1961) A few times on this podcast, we've bent over backwards to find a gay interpretation of a sitcom that never did anything gay, but this is not one of those. Mister Ed was developed by Arthur Lubin, a closeted gay director who was married to a woman but eventually ended up cohabitating with a male companion. It's interesting, then, that he'd be into making a TV sho...

"Fathers and Sons" (May 3, 2003) And we're back! Our first regular episode of the new year returns to the first-ever show we discussed: Frasier. It's the episode where David Ogden Stiers plays an old colleague of Frasier's late mother who acts more like Frasier and Niles than Martin does. This is the final time the series put a spotlight on the series innate queerness, and in selecting Stiers, it...

"Coldhearted Uranus: Makoto in Danger" (May 14, 1994) It's a new year, and we're giving you a new episode of Sailor Moon — now with 200 percent more lesbian content! This third-season episode not only showcases Haruka/Sailor Uranus and Michiru/Sailor Neptune, but also uses them as a way to explore how Makoto/Sailor Jupiter is the most queer-coded of the core five Sailor Guardians. What's most nota...

"The Bleakening" (December 10, 2017) We're closing out 2023 with a two-part Bob's Burgers Christmas mystery that also happens to be the last episode a cult favorite trans character, Marshmallow, appeared in before vanishing from the series for six years. This is basically our way of discussing the "Sheesh! Cab, Bob?" episode without having to drag you all through it, because for all its flaws, it...

A new episode on a Tuesday?! Well, the way our schedule ended up working out was that we are finishing the year with two Christmas episodes, and we figured it would be better to get those both out before the actual holiday, so you're getting this today and then our second Christmas ep (and the last ep of 2023) on Friday. Enjoy, we hope! "Season's Greetings" (December 14, 1987) Perhaps you haven't...

"A Boy Like That" (April 24, 1997) Heads up: We briefly discuss suicide episode in discussing on of this show's cast members. If you're experiencing suicidal thoughts, the U.S. hotline to call is 988. Well, it took us 214 episodes, but we finally arrived at Suddenly Susan. You might dismiss Brook Shields' entry into the post-Friends landscape as an also-ran, and you are maybe right, but this first...

Welcome to the first of our in-depth looks at LGBTQ humor in specific eras of Saturday Night Live. Of course, we're starting at the beginning, in the classic era, and yeah, some of them are better than you'd guess and some of them are so much worse. It's a real grab bag, but there are lessons to be learned about how SNL came to be what it is today and how American humor has evolved since 1975.   B...

"Nell and the Kid" (April 28, 1983) As if network TV didn't have enough sitcoms about non-biological parents stepping in to care for parentless children, Gimme a Break — itself a show about a woman acting as a substitute mother for three girls — has a second season episode in which Nell Carter's character meets a spunky orphan (LaShana Dendy) and then entrusts her to the care of the neighborhood d...

"The One With the Memorial Service" (March 13, 2003) Since Matthew Perry died, the tone of conversations about Friends has shifted from looking at all the reasons it wasn't so great to trying to focus on the reasons we like it. That's fair. Grief does that. But in seeking comfort in Friends, let's not rush to thinking that Chandler Bing was something more than one long-running gay panic joke. Matt...

"The Note" (September 18, 1991) Seinfeld kicked off its third season with a rather risky premiere about George's dick twitching during a massage from a man. What follows is a more earnest exploration of gay panic than you might expect from a Must See TV sitcom, and it happens to be the most in-depth look at George's complex sexuality, though we will also be discussing every other time that Seinfel...

"Muffin' Man" (March 1, 2007) You know what's super complicated? The Sarah Silverman Program. It's funny, but just talking about why it's funny in 2023 necessitates a lot of discussion of controversial topics including but not limited to ironic racism, straight dudes playing gay characters, January 6 and several people who are now canceled. Nonetheless, Drew (and not Glen, because Glen is not in t...

Happy Halloween! You're getting this week's episode one day early because it is, in fact, a Halloween episode. "The Stranger" (October 25, 1985) Benson may have been a more conventional sitcom than Soap, the show it spun off, but that doesn't mean it didn't have its exceedingly weird moments — including this final season Halloween special in which Benson must play a trivia game with death personif...

Want to watch this episode, which is not streaming and is hard to find online? You can do that right now  on the GEE Patreon ! "Two Guys, a Girl and a Psycho Halloween" (October 28, 1998) It didn't want to be Friends. It really tried to give the cast real jobs, at the very least. But in the end, Two Guys, a Girl and a Pizza Place lost the workplace setting and added three more characters, essentia...

"Dark and Stormy Night" (October 28, 1994) We've talked before how Family Matters has a more liberal take on typical hijinx than most sitcoms, but the show's sixth season Halloween episode went full on Dracula — by which we mean Francis Ford Coppola. It's really ambitious! And Hariette has never looked sexier! And we're very stoked to have Michael Varrati on hand to discuss it because not everyone...

"D&D" (November 18, 2021) Beware the gay ghost!   What are the odds that when your friend writes a book about Baron von Steuben, allegedly gay Revolutionary War hero, there would also be a current sitcom that features a gay Revolutionary War character? Pretty slim, we'd say! But this happy coincidence allowed us to not only promote Josh Trujillo's new book, Washington's Gay General: The Legends an...

"The Puppy Episode" (April 30, 1997)   After a great deal of self-reflection, we decided that maybe it was worth discussing the most famous episode of Ellen Degeneres' 90s sitcom, even if it is the most analyzed piece of LGBTQ-centric television ever. Whether we were correct in thinking this remains up to you, but we nonetheless have offerings of talking points about this hourlong coming out extra...

And here is the second half of our two-part opener for this new season. In this episode, we look at LGBTQ-themed recurring Saturday Night Live sketches airing in the year 2000 and beyond. Basically, this one gets us from The Girl With No Gaydar to Bowen Yang, and that's actually a pretty good synopsis for the evolution of queer-inclusive humor of on this show. Our next installment will be the firs...

Welcome to a new season of Gayest Episode Ever. It will be a Saturday Night Live-centric season. Among the regular, sitcom-focused episodes, we will be doing periodic deep dives into the LGBTQ-focused sketches that ran on the show during its various eras.  To kick it off (and to kick off the new season), we are starting with a two-part look at the various queer-adjacent recurring sketches from SNL...

"it takes a psycho" (April 30, 2023) Barry is not a sitcom, though it was frequently one of the funnier shows on TV. We're doing a bonus summer episode about it anyway because its gay character, NoHo Hank, is a rarity on TV because he's both a villain and a person who doesn't let his sexuality define him. That's not necessarily a good thing, but we're all about complex, messy queer characters, and...

"The Perils of Punky" (October 20, 1985) This might be the most famous weird episode of any TV show ever, and with good reason: it is utterly inexplicable how this parade of horrors came to be. It would be weird for any sitcom to deliberately scare its viewers, much less a show that catered specifically to kids. Wait, is the shared trauma of this Punky Brewster the reason why millennials can't sto...

"Empty Nests" (May 16, 1987) Happy summer! This is an episode of Backdoor Pilots , our summer Patreon series looking into the times famous sitcoms attempted to use a backdoor pilot to launch a spinoff. This particular example is one of the most interesting, since what aired on Golden Girls ended up being very different from the spinoff that made it to air, Empty Nest. Here is the full list of Back...

"Flaming Moe" (January 16, 2011) Today, LGBTQ characters on The Simpsons get to be more than walking gay jokes, and, really, this is one of the first episodes that shows Smithers as a (mostly) out member of the larger community in Springfield. It's not perfect, however; there's an homage to the 2008 film Milk that lands strangely, there's a hetero love subplot for Skinner that takes acts two and t...

"Mama Loves Mambo" (May 3, 1956) While Ralph Kramden never met an out gay character on screen, he did once tussle with a new neighbor, Carlos Sanchez (Charles Korvin), who embodies all the traits of the "latin lover" stock character type. This includes being perceived as a threat to women while also being sensitive, empathetic and emotional — or in the midcentury binary, effeminate. We're joined b...

"Blood Crieth Unto Heaven" (January 27, 2013) Yes, we're giving you two American Dads this season, with this one representing how this show uses high-concept premises better than most other sitcoms. In this one, the show presents itself as a stage play, complete with all the restrictions and encumbrances that come with denying itself the ability to do quick cuts, and what results is as funny as it...

"Bad Girl" (November 12, 1996) If you were not the target audience (and target age) for this live-action Nickelodeon series, you may be shocked to find out that The Secret World of Alex Mack is a sci-fi show. It's basically Spider-Man with a baby gay lead protagonist, played with remarkable aplomb by Larisa Oleynik. We're joined by  Katie Mathewson , screenwriter on Hawkeye and the breakout hit Ju...