From Chad

Self control is crucial when the world feels out of control. Focus on what you can control, like your attitude and actions, rather than dwelling on uncontrollable circumstances. Prioritize your most important task and simplify your duties to feel greater freedom and mental strength.

Self-esteem is about valuing oneself, not arrogance. The most important moment of your day is when you like the person you see in the mirror. Self-worth is your most valuable asset.

Taking control of yourself talk is like choosing which apps you run on your smart phone. The function of your life is the result of the “apps” (thoughts) you’ve downloaded, and mastering yourself talk is the key to mastering yourself.

Self-management is about choosing to talk to yourself correctly. This is arguably the most important skill you learn. This practice, inspired by Psalm 103, helps manage emotions and fosters a more hopeful outlook.

Words have power and can shape our perception of ourselves and others. The story of Pygmalion illustrates how words can animate and transform reality. By changing the words we use, we change our story and upgrade our mental game.

What’s it going to be—reasons or results? Instead of telling yourself reasons why you can’t, think of someone who has done it before, and tell yourself you have the same capacity.

Stop bad habits before adding new ones. Fixing leaks in your life will lead to faster progress than starting new, positive habits.

Sylvester Stallone‘s story of writing and starring in Rocky, despite numerous setbacks as a powerful example of the power of story. The story he wrote was the story he lived. By choosing to tell ourselves empowering stories, we can move our own narratives forward and achieve success.

Reading is a miraculous gift that allows us to connect with the minds of others across time and space. Despite its transformative power, many people take this ability for granted. Embracing the miracle of reading can enrich our lives and expand our horizons.

Reading is a consistent habit of successful individuals, enhancing focus and concentration in a world of distractions. It is lightened to “forced meditation“ and helps develop deep focus on complex ideas.

Pioneers in their fields often achieve greatness by reading entire libraries on their subject of interest. Examples include Thomas Edison, Elon Musk and Edwin Land, who all devoured vast amounts of data to master their domains. The key to becoming an expert is to learn more than anyone else, and with the resources available today, it’s easier than ever to achieve this.

David Ogilvie, the father of advertising, believed that deep knowledge and relentless research were key to excellence in any Craft. He advised becoming the best informed person in your field. There’s zero excuse today to not being an authority in your craft. The information is readily available. You just have to go after it.

Failure is only final when you stop trying. The story of Ralph, the main character in The Greatest American Hero, reminds us that we all fumble and make mistakes, but success comes from persevering through failure.

Harriet Tubman’s story is a powerful example of high agency. She didn’t wait for permission to fight against slavery, she gave herself permission and freed over 300 people. Overcome self-imposed limitations and give yourself permission to make a difference.

John D Rockefeller, founder of Standard Oil, exemplified the power of compounding by making small improvements, like reducing solder use on oil cans, leading to significant savings over decades. This principal applies to all aspects of life, from finances to relationships, emphasizing the importance of long-term, thinking in the cumulative impact of our choices.

The better story to tell yourself is “I am not seeking validation from the outside. No one has higher standards for me than myself”

What’s the meaning of it all? Have you found why life is full of meaning?

Setting a clear intention, influences attention and increases the likelihood of achieving goals. The mind, likened to a garden, produces thoughts that shape reality. A trained mind, focused on positive intentions, is like a well-tended garden.

According to The Law of Exchange, success and financial return are directly proportional to the value one provides to others. By focusing on adding value and being of service, one becomes a valuable person and attracts prosperity and abundance. This principle, exemplified by Earl Nightingale, Zig Ziglar, and Seth Godin, emphasizes the importance of genuine care and generosity in building, meaningf...

In a society where unhealthy and unhappy individuals, outnumber healthy, happy ones, being well adjusted to the norm is not a measure of health. To thrive, one should break free from conventionality and embrace in an iconoclastic mindset, deviating from the unhealthy majority. By adopting this mindset, individuals can forge a new path and create a positive impact.

Isaac Newton‘s Laws of Motion, explaining how objects move, are applied to human behavior by Earl Nightingale in “The Strangest Secret.” Nightingale emphasizes the importance of action, stating that results are directly proportional to effort. The better story to tell yourself is “I pay whatever the price to move toward my goal.“

Olympian Milt Campbell kept his goals constantly before him. You are a goal-oriented creature. This is The Law of Telos. You want to reach your destination. You feel you have a destiny. Just as a ship needs a destination to reach its port, you need goals to guide your journey.

Earl Nightingale‘s “The Strangest Secret“ illustrates The Law of Correspondence, stating that our outer world reflects our inner thoughts and beliefs. By intentionally cultivating positive thoughts and beliefs, we can shape our external reality and take control of our lives. This principle emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and personal responsibility in achieving desired outcomes.

Epictetus, a former slave, taught the concept of “The Law of Dominion,” emphasizing the power of controlling one’s thoughts. While external circumstances are beyond our control, we have sovereignty over our minds.

Truett Hanes, a runner from Utah, has gained viral attention by running marathons in jeans, a unique marketing strategy that highlights the power of standing out. His approach, akin to the concept of a “purple cow,“ demonstrates that being remarkable doesn’t require being the best, but rather finding a way to differentiate oneself.