Freedom Reigns

So there's this guy... And he's saying all the right things to have you interested and really feeling him. Now you're trying to figure out if you should continue or not. Tune into this latest podcast. Because I want to give some green flags on things to look for. Let's stop being so negative, seeking out the red flags! 

As we come to the end of the Breakout series, there's one final step. We've addressed household, habits/traits, ideal relationship and guy, and our "list." Well, none of those things will help you breakout and meet someone if you're doing it from the couch. How do you get approached and apply what you've learned? Because, sis? It's time to navigate! 

Be honest! We all have some kind of list when it comes to what we're looking for in a  partner. The thing is that we've switched up the order of importance when it comes to these things. Add to that, many of us don't offer what we're demanding. I want to teach you about 3 things regarding that list of yours as you're on the path to BREAKOUT!

Many of us have that idea of who we'd like to be in love with and eventually marry. The thing is, have you started your transformation process? You've got to become the person that the person you're looking for is looking for! As we continue on with Breakout , let's talk about your ideal mate and what your future relationship would look like according to you . 

In order to breakout from a bad habit, you have to acknowledge one is present. Last week, we examined our households. Today, I want to look at how your mom, dad, childhood, etc can have an influence on your relationships and unhealthy patterns. And how you might be repeating cycles instead of breaking them... 

When we stop and take the time to examine our past and our households from childhood, we'll learn that so many answers are there based on why we make unhealthy choices now with men, sex, relationships, money, and truly, in general. Imagine still being single because you haven't cut the cord from your mama, or because you haven't divorced your daddy. Tune in for the new series, Breakout ! It's time...

Believe it or not, this is the most important aspect of a relationship. It's foundational, and is even more important than love. Let's talk about why it's important for it to exist and why this should be a part of your prayer regarding your future bae. 

There's a reason that some people are alone in their relationships. Don't be like them. Don't envy or desire any relationship missing this vital component. 

Yes, this should be a given. But even with these 2 key components to a healthy relationship, there are mistakes made in the single, dating, and relationship stages. How so? Well, there's loyal to a fault, one-sided relationships, oversharing, lack of discretion, and so much more. Let's talk about this as we work on our love goals!

There are givers and takers. Oh, and a 3rd option. Why is giving and taking an essential component to a happy, healthy, holy relationship?

A healthy relationship can't survive without respect. But I've learned that there is one major reason many women don't command and demand respect from men.... 

Friendship and fun should be a love goal of yours. When it comes to a happy, healthy, and holy relationship, this is very important for many reasons. The questions arise when the "cool, chill" woman often gets friendzoned, or when you want to be friends first but aren't sure how to keep it romantic. And what about when in an actual relationship? Why have psychologists determined that friendship an...

In my new series, Love Goals, we're going to look at what your personal love goals should be. Not the relationship goals that society has set in place. 

Alright ladies, we've made it to the end of the Intimacy series. What if... all that I gave over the past 5 weeks weren't "stages" after all? What if wordplay was used to get you to see something about your inner self? Let's talk about the greatest aspect to any intimate relationship. 

A lot of the mistakes women make in stages 1-4 are because they're rushing to get to this stage. And what's interesting is that those that make it here, fail to do one simple thing. Tune in to learn the 5th gradual stage to intimacy !

The 4th gradual stage to intimacy would be romantic lovers . What does this look like as a Christian woman, and what are women doing wrong in this stage? Tune in! 

Can we continue on with the 3rd gradual stage of intimacy? It's a place that many women desire to be, yet there are some critical mistakes made here. Tune in!

Can we talk about stage 2 of intimacy? This is yet another area that woman tend to get overeager only to later state that dating is exhausting. Hmm. I wonder why. Let's talk!

Intimacy. Everyone wants it, but not many understand it. It gets confused, used interchangeably, misquoted, and so much more. There are 6 gradual stages to it, but we often try to cram so much into this first stage (big mistake)! Let's talk about it!

" Marriage isn't something you can prepare for " is a response I've heard some say when I tell women to prepare while they pray. With so many responses like that, it made me wonder. I had to go back to what God spoke to me, and I needed to say THIS . Tune in!

Listen, you may have tried and done many things thinking you would've had a real one by now. But I can assure you're missing out on this one thing... 

Women making the first move. Are we mature enough to have this conversation? Is this OK, allowed, and respected as a woman of God? Tune in!

Is self-love a toxic trend keeping women single, or what?? Let's talk!

How easy it is to want a date, do online dating, put our twists and definitions on what dating even is, the whole 9. But I listen to some women talk and I've realized something. Many women need to take the time to ask themselves if they're even date-able.... Tune in and find out what I mean!

So here's the thing... I've noticed there are a wide variety of reasons Christian women are remaining single longer and longer (against their actual desires). Imagine you're the one getting in your own way? Let's talk about this!