Freedom Looks Like This – solo travel for women over 40 ready to choose themselves

Safety comes up for many women long before a trip is booked, sometimes before a place is even considered. It shows up while scrolling and while listening to other people’s stories about what’s “safe” and what isn’t.  In this episode, Damianne reflects on how she thinks about safety now, shaped by decades of solo travel and living overseas,. This conversation shows how she decisions when traveling...

What do you expect from your first solo trip, especially as a woman over 40?  A lot of us carry the idea that if we plan carefully enough, choose the right destination, and do everything “properly,” the trip should go smoothly. It should feel relaxing and signficant! And when things go wrong, even in small ways, it can feel surprisingly upsetting.  In this episode, I talk about why that expectatio...

I watched Solo Traveling with Tracee Ellis Ross and expected to be taken in by the beauty of it — the locations, the ease, the confidence. That part was there, but it wasn’t what stayed with me.  What lingered were the imperfect moments, like her getting sick while traveling alone or sitting down to eat by herself. I could relate when she let her loneliness show up without trying to smooth it over...

Do you remember the first time you considered going into a restaurant by yourself, and hesitated at the door?  For many women, the discomfort around eating alone isn’t really about food. It’s about visibility. About being seen. About the quiet rules we’ve absorbed around when it’s acceptable to take up space.  In this episode, Damianne reflects on a moment from her twenties that still lingers, how...

Confidence doesn’t arrive all at once. It’s built quietly, one decision at a time.  In this episode of Freedom Looks Like This , I walk you through what I call the confidence ladder, a series of small steps women take as they move from hesitation to readiness, especially when it comes to solo travel and choosing themselves.  This conversation isn’t about being fearless or making dramatic leaps. It...

Many women think solo travel is something you do in your twenties, before life gets busy and complicated. In this episode, I explore a very different truth. Midlife brings a kind of clarity, self-knowing, and freedom that can make this stage of life an ideal moment to travel on your own, whether for the first time or as a rediscovery.  We talk about the quiet shifts that happen as you get older, t...

Choosing where to go for your first (or next) solo trip can be the biggest sticking point for women. It is not because the world is too big or because you do not have enough information. Something else is happening underneath the surface, and it is the real reason so many women get stuck before they ever book a flight.  In this episode, I talk about the deeper forces that make destination choice f...

What if becoming a woman who travels has nothing to do with plane tickets, planning, or confidence … and everything to do with something far quieter?  In this episode, we explore the subtle, almost invisible shift that happens long before your first solo trip, the one that most women don’t recognize until they’re already in it. It’s the kind of shift that shows up in tiny private moments, in quest...

Most women think they’re not ready to travel alone because they lack confidence, experience, or the “right” personality. But that’s not the real story. In this first episode of Freedom Looks Like This , I’m naming the deeper forces that shape our hesitation long before we ever open a map or consider a destination.  If you grew up hearing to be careful, to stay close, to not do things alone … or if...

Welcome to Freedom Looks Like This — the solo travel confidence podcast for women over 40.   If you’ve been feeling a tug to travel solo… a pull toward freedom, adventure, and choosing yourself… this podcast is for you.  In this trailer, host Damianne shares the heart behind the show and what you can expect each week. After traveling to more than 70 countries, much of it solo, she’s here to help y...