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Mali flies solo this week as she answers the question "Why should you tell your lawyer the truth?" Mali lays out an ironclad case for absolute truthfulness when it comes to explaining your case to your lawyer. She's seen first hand how disastrously a case can go when a lawyer doesn't know the whole truth about their client's situation. So, join the conversation as Mali makes it perfectly clear tha...

In this episodes of The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali talk through the intricacies of a post-divorce parenting plan that covers summer vacation. Parenting Plans are common in divorce, and most of them are geared toward everyday life throughout the school year. Then when the summer months come around, families can find themselves in needless and avoidable arguments because they don’t have...

This week is an ENCORE of Andee's and Mali's still-topical discussion this week about No Fault Divorce -- a legal term that has been coming up a lot recently. No Fault Divorce was first established in the US 50 years ago but has become a cornerstone of Family Law and personal rights. Andee and Mali talk about what the term means, the history of No Fault Divorce in the US, and the pros and...

In this episode, Andee welcomes special guest Kim Beatty to our new podcast studio! Kim is an EXPERT on Juvenile Family Law, working closely with Child Protective Services, the Foster Care network, families and children in need of assistance. Join the conversation as Kim talks with Andee about the fine points of this complicated but rewarding area of Family Law. Visit our website: https://hsfamily...

In this episode, Andee and Mali introduce you to Hastings Shadmehry Associate Attorney Madison Alexander. Madison is a true Georgia girl who has lived all over the state. She is also a dedicated family law attorney, who went all the way through law school knowing that family law was her calling. She has an incredible personal story and approach to work and life. Join the Conversation and find out...

The Domestic Relations Financial Affidavits (or DeRFA) is a truly crucial early step in every Divorce proceeding. Andee and Mali explain what a DeRFA is, how it works, and why it is so important. Join this informative and fun discussion to find out why the DeRFA is such an important aspect of having an easier, quicker, and more successful divorce. Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow u...

Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe is BACK with Andee to continue her discussion on Toxic Narcissists. This time, the ladies discuss how the Toxic Narcissist acts in Divorce proceedings. How do they appear to the judge or to a mediator? How do they treat the attorneys on the other side? Dr Kyrstin provides the clues to look for and gives advice on how to deal with it, and Andee has several observations of her o...

This week, we are presenting an ENCORE of Andee's second conversation on Narcissism and Divorce with Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe, PhD, LPC, because we will be bringing Part Three next week. Narcissism is a commonly heard term and it is something that the lawyers of Hastings Shadmehry deal with on a regular basis. Join the conversation, as Andee and Dr. Kyrstin continue their discussion of this toxic...

In this information-packed episode of The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali discuss some of the professional Experts that can be recruited to help with a Divorce case. These Experts help Family lawyers gather evidence, submit reports, interpret reports from the opposing party, and can testify to their findings in Court. Experts are an integral and often-utilized part of the Divorce process a...

As promised, this week we bring you the second part of our Meet the Partners event, as Kendall Walker sits down with Mali Shadmehry. Mali will tell us all about herself -- her upbringing, her education, her competitive pursuits, and her meteoric rise to becoming a young entrpreneur and partner in her own firm. It's always a fun conversation when Mali and Kendall get together, so be prepared to...

We are starting our Second season with a bang! This week we have an interview with one of the partners of Hastings Shadmehry, Andee Hastings. Our producer Kendall Walker sits down with Andee for a look at Andee’s life and career. Andee will tell us all about herself – where she comes from, what she studied in school, and where she went to Law School. Then Andee talks about her unique career, her m...

This week on The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali take a deep dive into an often intricate topic -- WHEN to file for Divorce. They talk about the Timing of Filing and how it impacts and is impacted by things like Finances, Custodial Rights, temporary Living Arrangements. They even get into the strategies behind FilingJoin the conversation for another impactful, fact-filled and of course fun...

In this ENCORE episode, Andee and Mali delve into the topic of Collaborative Divorce. This relatively new approach to Marriage Dissolution can be mysterious and confusing. This episode lays out the basics of the process, dispels rumors, and discusses the pros and cons of Collaborative Divorce. Like, Comment, Share: Engage with our content to help extend our reach and support more people through th...

Mali and Andee are back together in the studio for this in-depth talk on the importance of having a well-crafted Parenting Time agreement. They cover several different scenarios and many of the pitfalls inherent in working out Parenting Time for holidays throughout the year. They offer their advice about the best ways to approach the trickiest situations and their insights as to how judges approac...

For our first new episode of 2025, Andee returns to her conversation about Narcissism with Dr. Kyrstin Lokkesmoe, PhD, LPC of Clear Life Counseling. Their conversation picks up right where they left off in their previous chat and covers ways in which a Narcissist can be managed when embarking on the Divorce process. Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.faceb...

This week, we are presenting an ENCORE of Andee's recent conversation on Narcissism with Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe, PhD, LPC, because we will be bringing part two next week.    Narcissism is term we hear a LOT in the media, and somethingthat the lawyers of Hastings Shadmehry deal with on a regular basis. Join Andeeand Dr. Kyrstin for an extremely informative discussion of this toxicpersonality disorder...

In this ENCORE release, Andee and Mali ask each other a series of questions about running a law firm, running a small business and being entrepreneurs. This is all about the joy and sorrow of being a working professional and being a leader. Like, Comment, Share: Engage with our content to help extend our reach and support more people through their legal challenges. Visit our website: https://hsfam...

In this ENCORE episode, Andee and Mali talk about the intricacies of Mediation, when it's necessary, how it aids in the divorce process, its pitfalls and its advantages. 00:32 Intro 00:45 Warrior or Diplomat? 04:00 A brief talk about work/life balance and handling stress 06:43 Intro to the Mediation process 07:40 Prepping the Clients for the ups and downs 09:20 Preparing for Mediation 10:10 Is Med...

In this ENCORE release, Andee is joined by Podcast Producer and Hastings Shadmehry Client Care Specialist Kendall Walker as they talk about the inherent drama surrounding High-Profile Divorce cases. Introduction of Kendall Walker, our Client Care SpecialistWarrior or DiplomatThe High Profile divorce case between Nathan Wade and Joselyn Wade, exploring the legal strategies and media impact. Andee's...

In this ENCORE release Andee and Mali take a look into the topic of Temporary Protective Orders (TPOs). Their discussion reveals the critical role of Temporary Protective Orders for individuals who are facing violence or stalking behavior in their marriage. They go through the whole  process, from the initial ex parte order for immediate protection to a comprehensive court hearing for a lasting so...

This week, Andee welcomes back Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe, PhD, LPC for a discussion on the topic of Narcissism.  It’s term we hear a LOT in the media, and something that the lawyers of Hastings Shadmehry deal with on a regular basis.  Join Andee and Dr. Kyrstin for an extremely informative discussion of this toxic personality disorder, and how it affects relationships and family law cases. 00:25 Introd...

In this ENCORE release, Mali is joined by Kendall Walker, Hastings Shadmehry's head of sales and marketing, and co-producer of this podcast, to discuss the nuances of family law. This episode is informative and fun.  00:32 Intro01:16 Warrior or Diplomat? 02:30 Jezebel Magazine Best Family Law Firm 2024 03:36 Frequently Asked Questions 03:41 How Much Does A Divorce Costs 12:20 Are Divorce Proceedin...

Andee and Mali welcome Hastings Shadmehry Senior Associate Lisa Malas to the show!   Lisa talks about her career in Family Law and her journey as a young mother going through Law School. Lisa is a mom, a grand mom, and a dog-mom, and she's an incredible member of the Hastings Shadmehry Wolf Pack. 00:24 Intro 00:33 Introducing Lisa Malas 00:58 Warrior or Diplomat? 02:40 Mali’s Court Story About...

This week is an ENCORE presentation of Mali's terrific conversation with Dr. Kyrstin Jimenez from Clear Life Counseling and Testing. Dr. Jimenez shares her insights into the crucial role of therapy for children during divorce and introduces us to the concept of therapy animals and how they can provide comfort and support to young clients. Join us as Mali and Dr. Kyrstin delve into these vital topi...

The NEW episode of The Hastings Shadmehry Show is available! It's a very topical discussion this week, as Andee and Mali take a look at No Fault Divorce, a legal term that has been coming up a lot recently. No Fault Divorce was first established in the US 50 years ago but has become a cornerstone of Family Law and personal rights. Andee and Mali talk about what the term means, the history of No Fa...