For The Love Of Men Podcast

Attachment theory categorizes 4 main “styles”- Anxious, Fearful Avoidant, Avoidant, Secure- of attaching in intimate relationships based on innate personality traits and experiences in relationships over time. Understand that this goes deeper than thoughts, this reaction will trigger your whole nervous system and is able to shift using somatic (body-based) tools. Focal Point: Notice where your bod...

Dating is a two-fold learning process: learning what- and how to ask for- you need/want and learning what the healthiest partner for you looks like (it may surprise you). When you notice what you tolerate in relationships (i.e. what do you complain to your girlfriends about) see it as an energetic boundary moving forward to open space for more of what you want. It’s much easier to not take it pers...

The three needs of the Feminine are to be Heard, Seen, and Safe. Action Item: when these needs are not met, she will present as guarded. Come from a vantage point of “she wants to be open with me” and see what actions you naturally are drawn to take. This will shift you into a confident expression of your authentic masculinity (no need to pose as “more masculine” to make her feel safe). Safety is...

1. Dating strategies (aka attraction psychology) are designed to increase desire by playing on insecurity. Focal Point: When you’re not “getting what you want” from a potential partner, consider it a red flag, not an opportunity to “inspire” them. 2.  Secure partners are attracted to people who see them in their personal power (authenticity) *and* are drawn to it. Focal Point: Long-term attraction...

Ask yourself, “When did I notice I was no longer feeling like myself and what did I notice?” take inventory of what boundaries needed to have been in place so you can place them sooner next time or pivot as you move forward. It’s ok to be different than your partner AND to grow with them, you don’t have to like all the same things to be attractive Focal Point: If you feel the need to hide your qui...

The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores to create healthy, polarized relationships. What makes friendships work? Friendship, like any other relationship, is the space for more authenticity. This requires a willingness to step in and see someone else’s authentic self as well as offering your truth in...

What is “wounded” feminine energy? When the feminine energy is wounded, it will express in one of two ways- having unclear boundaries (people have a hard time seeing you/people-pleasing) or difficulty recognizing what is “yours” and “theirs” (over-functioning in relationships) How does it happen? The feminine wound tends to happen over time. It can be modeled from society or previous generations a...

The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores to create healthy, polarized relationships. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: What is “wounded” masculine energy? When the masculine energy experiences injury, the protective aggression is more active (from snarky comments all the way to narcis...

The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores to create healthy, polarized relationships. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: The underlying belief pattern of women that feel compelled to lead: the need to create safety in feeling chosen (not understanding our own worthiness) or the need to...

The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores for healthy, thriving polarized relationships. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: Empowered Men want to win. They are wired to compete and he wants to win with you (i.e. making you smile= green flag to healthy men) Focal Point: be honest about w...

The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores for those who desire a polarized relationship. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: Communication creates the structure for the Feminine to feel safe to surrender (and play!). Action Item: Take the lead and let us know the game plan Planning ahead...