For Female Leaders by Susan Veldkamp

Soms heb je een ambitie. Een idee. Een wens. Maar wat als dat blijft hangen in ‘leuk bedacht’ en nooit werkelijkheid wordt? Marlène Lemmens had zo’n wens. Ze wilde dat haar organisatie iemand zou hebben die zich bezighoudt met werkgeluk en de duurzame inzetbaarheid van mensen. Een rol die simpelweg niet bestond. Fast forward naar nu: die rol is er - en zij vervult ‘m. Hoe kreeg ze dit voor elkaar?...

You’re smart, capable, and driven - so why do people keep overlooking you? You see others getting the opportunities, the recognition, the promotions - even when they’re not as good as you. Meanwhile, you’re working hard, staying in your lane, and waiting to be noticed… but it’s not happening. Here’s the truth: Success isn’t about working harder - it’s about positioning yourself so that no one can...

Ever spoken up in a meeting - only to be completely ignored? You make a point. No reaction. Minutes later, someone else says the same thing - and suddenly, it’s brilliant. Sound familiar? This isn’t just frustrating - it’s a power and positioning issue. And if you try to prove yourself harder, you’re falling into a trap that will only reinforce the problem. In this episode, I’ll show you exactly h...

Are you being authentic - or just staying in your comfort zone? So many ambitious women hold themselves back, thinking they’re being true to themselves. But here’s the truth: Real authenticity isn’t about staying safe. It’s about owning your space, your voice, and your ambitions - without apology. In this episode, we dive into: ✅ The hidden ways we mistake fear for authenticity ✅ Why stepping in...

Could complaining be the reason you’re not getting ahead? Most people don’t realize it, but complaining keeps you stuck. It drains your energy, reinforces victimhood, and stops you from taking action. And the worst part? You don’t even notice you’re doing it. In this episode, we’ll break down: ✅ Why complaining feels good (but secretly holds you back) ✅ How to recognize the hidden ways you sabot...

Why do some people stay stuck in jobs they hate - while others find creative ways to build wealth? We all grow up with blueprints about money, work, and success - often without realizing it. And those beliefs? They shape the choices we make every single day. In this episode, I’m sharing an eye-opening conversation with my 13-year-old daughter that made me reflect on: ✅ Why so many people settle f...

Ever walked into a meeting and instantly felt small? You know the type - loud, assertive, always in control. Dominant people can make you question yourself, throw you off balance, and leave you walking away from conversations frustrated, unheard, or unsure of what just happened. But what if you could flip the script? In this episode, I’m giving you 3 powerful strategies to stay in control - withou...

You KNOW you have what it takes. So why does it feel like you’re holding yourself back? You’re smart. You’re driven. You work hard. And yet - when the moment comes to step up, take the lead, or claim your space… something stops you. Here’s the truth: playing small isn’t a lack of ability. It’s a pattern. And patterns can be broken. In this episode, we’re diving into: ✅ The hidden ways high-achiev...

In this powerful episode, I am diving deep into a game-changing topic: positioning yourself for success. Whether you’re striving for that next career move, trying to make your impact more visible, or simply tired of feeling overlooked - this episode is for you. Here’s what you’ll learn in today’s episode: 1. Why Positioning is Non-Negotiable: Discover why hard work and expertise aren’t enough in t...

What does it truly mean to lead? Is leadership about authority, or is it about influence? And how do male and female leadership styles compare when it comes to inspiring others? In this thought-provoking episode, I tackle the big questions around leadership and gender dynamics, exploring how combining masculine and feminine qualities can redefine what it means to lead in today’s world. Whether you...

Success isn’t luck - it's strategy, ownership and action. In this episode, I reveal two powerful ways to stop waiting for change and start taking charge of your career, your goals, and your impact. These aren’t just ideas - they’re game-changers that can redefine how you approach success. Here’s what you’ll learn: The Secret to Owning Every Moment: Why accepting situations as if you’ve chosen...

Are you stuck in the cycle of dreaming but not achieving? This episode will challenge you to rethink how you approach your goals and unlock the secret to transforming your life. In this insightful and actionable episode, I’ll explore: The Three Levels of Wanting: Why most people never move beyond the first step. The Power of Choice: How making intentional decisions sets you apart. The Magic of Com...

What if you could rewrite your life’s story and take charge of your next chapter? In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dr. Terré Holmes, a visionary leader, real estate investor, and advocate for personal growth. Together, we explore the steps to reclaim your narrative, take control of your future, and create the life you deserve. Whether you feel stuck, uncertain, or ready to elevate to the...

Positioning yourself for success isn’t rocket science - but it does take strategy. And yet, many women unknowingly make a critical mistake that keeps them overlooked and undervalued. In this episode, I dive into the single most common - and costly! - mistake women make when trying to position themselves in their careers, businesses, or leadership roles. Spoiler alert: It’s not about how good you a...

Starting a new job is exciting - but it can also feel overwhelming. How do you ensure people see you the way you want to be seen? How do you make an impression that lasts? And how do you navigate those crucial first 100 days without feeling stretched too thin? In this episode, I’m breaking it all down for you. Whether you’ve just landed a role in a new department, company, or even industry, these...

We’ve all heard it: “You just need to put yourself out there!” It sounds simple, but let’s be real - this advice can feel vague, frustrating, and even a bit dismissive. In this episode, I’m breaking down why this common suggestion often misses the mark and how to approach it in a way that actually works for you. You’ll discover: Why “putting yourself out there” feels so uncomfortable—and what’s re...

Are you unknowingly taking on responsibilities that don’t belong to you? In this eye-opening episode, I explore the subtle yet powerful ways we burden ourselves with obligations, expectations, and emotional baggage that were never meant to be ours. Here’s what you’ll uncover: The hidden patterns of over-responsibility - and how to spot them in your life. Why carrying what’s not yours is draining y...

Do you find yourself defending your ideas, actions, or worth? You’re not alone - but it’s costing you more than you think. In this episode, I uncover the critical difference between defending yourself and standing up for yourself. Drawing from a real-life example of a visionary leader struggling to balance her big-picture ideas with a micromanaging boss, we break down how defending yourself keeps...

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Ingun Bol, founder of Female Wave of Change, to explore the transformative impact of authentic feminine leadership. From her remarkable journey in the male-dominated IT industry to leading a global movement, Ingun shares her inspiring story of overcoming burnout, embracing her essence, and creating lasting change for women around the world. What You'll Lea...

In this deeply raw and revealing episode, I sit down to uncover the unspoken truth about self-sabotage: the subtle ways we pull ourselves back into darkness when we’re on the brink of stepping into our light. Simone Brockhuis is interviewing me. She is the founder of Feel Your Mind and a systemic Business Coach. Simone helps female coaches and therapists stand confidently in their own light as pow...

What’s Really Holding You Back? We’ve all said it: “I’m a perfectionist.” But is perfectionism the real issue - or is it just the surface of something much deeper? In this eye-opening episode, I break down why perfectionism is more than a personality trait - it’s often a cover story for fear, self-doubt, or the voices we’ve absorbed from others. What You’ll Discover in This Episode How perfectioni...

Ever feel like no matter how much you achieve, it’s still not enough? Like you’re stuck in an endless loop of pushing harder, working longer, and striving for more - only to feel drained and unfulfilled? In this raw and transformative episode, I open up about my personal battle with the relentless “Pusher” inside me. This inner force that constantly drove me to go harder, do more, and prove myself...

In this deeply personal and eye-opening episode, I dive into the powerful realization of how my inner control freak has shaped my actions, decisions, and even my energy. From obsessing over outcomes to creating impossible to-do lists, I’ve been there. But here’s the kicker—awareness changes everything. By sharing my journey of discovering voice dialogue, I’ll show you how I learned to embrace and...

Are you caught in the trap of people-pleasing? This episode dives into the hidden cost of trying to make everyone happy—at work, at home, and within yourself. I share my personal journey of breaking free from the cycle of constant approval-seeking and how it transformed my leadership, my career, and my life. Discover how people-pleasing is silently holding you back from stepping into your full pot...

Are you tired of that relentless voice inside your head telling you you’re not good enough? In this raw and vulnerable episode, I share my personal journey of facing and embracing my inner critic—a journey that took me from self-doubt and exhaustion to empowerment and clarity. Through the method of voice dialogue, I’ve learned how to turn my inner critic from an enemy into a guide. It wasn’t easy,...