Finlos Lives

Welcome to 2024! In this episode I reflect on where I am now by recalling where I was a year ago. I also consider why 2023 was such a challenging year and  ponder the future of the podcast.  Music by Luke Holizna:  https://holizna.com/ Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

This is a general "quick thoughts" episode discussing recent comments by Hunter Biden, the third trailer for Dune: Part 2, and media and friends. Music by Luke Holizna -  https://holizna.com/ Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

In this episode I reaffirm my dedication to the podcast as I discuss the experience of decision paralysis.  Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

This is a new series of interviews about people's relationships with music. In this episode we revisit Devon to talk about his time in the hardcore music scene, his recent love for love and new soul, and the universe's vibrations.  Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

This is a special episode of the podcast featuring my father, Ignacio Sr. Eva, Vivienne, and sat down with him recently for this interview, the first of what will hopefully be several covering his whole life. In this episode we talk about his early life in Honduras, moving the Miami in the 1950s, his relationships with his parents, and much more.  Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

In this episode I look back at my 41st year after having recently celebrated my birthday. I discuss areas of growth, areas where growth is needed, and give some thanks to the people who make sure to show me I'm loved.  Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

In this episode I talk about the incoming story and consider how I have been affected by prior storms. Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

Eva co-hosts again, this time for a conversation about toxic masculinity. In doing so we try to unpack what that term actually means in a time when gender roles, identities, and expectations are being challenged- or broadened, depending on your perspective. This is a conversation that we hope you’ll hear with an open mind as it requires anyone engaging in these discussions to explore their own per...

Eva co-hosts again, this time for a conversation about toxic masculinity. In doing so we try to unpack what that term actually means in a time when gender roles, identities, and expectations are being challenged- or broadened, depending on your perspective. This is a conversation that we hope you’ll hear with an open mind as it requires anyone engaging in these discussions to explore their own per...

Eva co-hosts again, this time for a conversation about toxic masculinity. In doing so we try to unpack what that term actually means in a time when gender roles, identities, and expectations are being challenged- or broadened, depending on your perspective. This is a conversation that we hope you’ll hear with an open mind as it requires anyone engaging in these discussions to explore their own per...

In this episode I explore feeling fat and all the feelings that accompany that loaded idea. Fatness and fat-phobia are intrinsic to American life, and as such I am both the recipient of harm and also guilty of perpetuating intersectionally opressive beauty standards.  Music: "Death" and "Whatever Happens Between" by HoliznaCC0   Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

In this episode I spend a little time following up on the the Finlos Loves episodes about the art of the f*ck up, discussing how a produced episode about a relationship does not always accurately convey the reality of what a relationship looks like. Also, I give a spoiler-filled review of the series Star Trek Picard.  Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

This is the second half of our conversation. Eva joins me once again, this time for a conversation about making mistakes. Except, in this context it’s less about the mistake itself and more about harm, how we react when we do harm, and how to begin to heal after harm. Everyone makes mistakes and so everyone causes harm at some point. But when denial, shame, fear, insecurity, and anxiety all get in...

Eva joins me once again, this time for a conversation about making mistakes. Except, in this context it’s less about the mistake itself and more about harm, how we react when we do harm, and how to begin to heal after harm. Everyone makes mistakes and so everyone causes harm at some point. But when denial, shame, fear, insecurity, and anxiety all get into the mix, the fuck up is what is made. The...

In this episode I spend time remembering some of the details of that shape my memory of my mother. Title credit to Rebecca Sugar, creator of Steven Universe.  Episode notes Music by Luke Holizna, https://holizna.com/ Equipment used Interface: Rode Rodecaster Pro II:  https://amzn.to/3mDAZyT Mic: Earthworks Ethos:  https://amzn.to/3GE59ZW Mic stand: Samson MK-10: https://amzn.to/3m1EWwE Support us...

In this episode I spend time remembering some of the details of that shape my memory of my mother. Title credit to Rebecca Sugar, creator of Steven Universe.  Episode notes Music by Luke Holizna, https://holizna.com/ Equipment used Interface: Zoom Podtrak P4: https://amzn.to/3Z1nN55 Mic: Oktava MK-101 Mic stand: Samson MK-10: https://amzn.to/3m1EWwE Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

In this episode I consider 20 years of life without my mother. Title credit to Rebecca Sugar, creator of Steven Universe.  Episode notes Music by Luke Holizna, https://holizna.com/ Equipment used Interface: Zoom Podtrak P4:  https://amzn.to/3Z1nN55 Mic: Aston Stealth:  https://amzn.to/3IRfPWD Mic stand: Samson MK-10: https://amzn.to/3m1EWwE Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

In this episode I work through missing Eva while she's on a trip, and give a quick review of Netflix's  Boo, Bitch. Episode notes Music by Luke Holizna, https://holizna.com/ Equipment used Interface: TC Helicon Go Solo:  https://amzn.to/3IOzpTq Mic: Aston Origin (I used the black set):  https://amzn.to/41nsuYC ,  https://amzn.to/3Ew8atZ Mic stand: Samson MK-10:  https://amzn.to/3m1EWwE Sup...

In this episode I react to recent Florida policies regarding race and gender, and discuss how an old acquaintance was an early teacher of economic disruption. A special thanks to Eva whose conversation informed much of what I discuss. Episode notes Music by Luke Holizna,  https://holizna.com/ Equipment used Interface: Lewitt Connect 6:  https://amzn.to/3YkOPEb Mic: Sontronics Corona Pop filter: sE...

In this episode I discuss how we sometimes set ourselves up for failure with New Year Resolutions. Also, I reply to comments from the "Holiday Magic" episode as well as my review of the Last Ronin . Finally, I give a review of HBO's His Dark Materials . Episode notes Relevant Links: https://www.theatlantic.com/video/index/578959/shaman-santa/ 8c1413b6e9759667c4ff73033c1e739d Music &#34...

In this episode I review the Last Ronin, a graphic novel about the last surviving member of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. I also explore my relationship with the Ninja Turtles franchise and its history.  Support us on Patreon and PayPal !

In this episode I reflect on our parental philosophy and specifically how that informed our approach to holidays, family traditions, and how we help our children to make magic. Episode notes Music Lo-Fi Hip Hop Mood by Alex Prodictions And the Wild Water Lapping on the Crag by REW__ Barombi-ma_Mbu by REW__ Equipment used Interface: TC Helicon Go Solo  https://amzn.to/3VIHpIB Mic: CAD E100S (unavai...

Finlos Asks is a show about how people live and grow amidst impermanence. Interviews feature people who have encountered cultural shifts and life changes and explore how they have endured and flourished in life's constant changes. My guest for this episode is Aarum You-Heil, a friend and former student. Aarum belonged to my first Creative Writing class at Lincoln High School in Tallahassee, an...

This episode features an interview with a Florida high school teacher who I won't name in order to protect her job. We discuss challenges to her role as educator, mentor, and sponsor of her schools Genders & Sexualities Alliance with the uncertain aftermath of Governor DeSantis' Parental Rights in Education or "Don't Say Gay" bill. I also consider some of the context for th...

In this episode I reflect on the first year of the Finlos Lives podcast including what I've learned, the origin of the name, and why I'm even doing this. I also discuss my thoughts on season one of the Disney+ series Star Wars: Andor.   Episode notes Solo podcast recorded in the studio.  Equipment used Interface:  https://amzn.to/3iEtXrC Mic: Sennheiser Blackfire 541 Pop filter:  https://a...