Ryan and Selena Frederick

Fierce Marriage

Religion EN ↓ 300 episodes

Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.

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Ryan and Selena Frederick

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Religion

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fiercemarriage.com

Latest episode

Jul 7, 2026

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Episodes

Follow-Up: Answering Questions About Husbands Initiating Intimacy 20.02.2024

We've had several questions from viewers regarding our past two videos... which is good! We are open to dialogue and appreciate the opportunity to further this discussion. Join us as we address certain questions and concerns viewers had about husbands being the primary initiators of intimacy. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn mor...

Why Husbands Should Be the Primary Initiators of S-- (Part 2) 13.02.2024

Above all, men are built to be leaders in the home, so why wouldn't this include initiating intimacy with his wife? Join us as we unpack part 2 of this topic. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit...

Why Husbands Should Be the Primary Initiators of S-- (Part 1) 06.02.2024

Who should be the one to initiate sex in marriage? The quick answer is, both of you! But, it is our conviction that the husband should be the primary initiator of intimacy in marriage. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported....

Learning to Trust Again After Trust Was Lost 23.01.2024

What does moving forward in your marriage look like after trust has been lost? In this episode, we're addressing this very question from one of our listeners. Join us as we unpack this question and give you tangible tools to move forward. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisg...

The Art of Asking Great Questions (and Why it Changes Everything in Marriage) 16.01.2024

It seems like a simple task, but the impact of asking thoughtful questions can bring you closer to your spouse and create a good culture of communication in the home. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us...

Faithful, Fruitful, and Fierce (Session 1 of the Fierce Families Conference) 09.01.2024

If you were not able to attend our Fierce Families Conference, fear not, we will be posting each session to our YouTube channel! To start us off, tune in to hear Ryan's session on being faithful, fruitful, and fierce. Conference sessions: https://fiercefamilies.com/2023-conference-archive/ New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more a...

What if Satan Took Up Marriage Counseling? 02.01.2024

It sounds like a crazy question, but pause to think about it for a second. What kind of things would he say to you? Tim Challies article: https://www.challies.com/articles/if-satan-took-up-marriage-counseling/ New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is enti...

The Need to Review and Reset for Marital Growth 26.12.2023

As this year comes to a close, we want to walk you through an exercise that will help you reflect on the past year and pinpoint areas of your marriage that you would like to improve upon as you head into the next. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is...

The Manner and Method of Speaking Truth WITH Love 13.12.2023

You've heard the saying before; it's not what you say, it's how you say it... Join us as we unpack this idea from Ryan's new book, "How a Husband Speaks". New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit http...

What if My Spouse Let's Themself Go? Is it Shallow to Care About How My Spouse Looks? 05.12.2023

Is it shallow to care about how your spouse looks? Our short answer would be no, but there is so much more depth to this question. Join us as we unpack what this might look like in your own marriage and turn to the Word for some wisdom. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgoo...

What If I'm No Longer Attracted to My Wife? 21.11.2023

Husband or wife, have you ever felt like you can relate to this fellow listener's question? The good news is you're not alone, and we have an answer for you. Listen in! New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with...

Help! My Husband Cares More About Guns and Cars than Getting Us a House 15.11.2023

Today we're answering a question from one of our listeners and it all boils down to disordered priorities. Listen in as we direct this question back to what the Bible has to say! New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To par...

Infertility, Blended Families, Early Marriage Mistakes - Live Q&A with John & Bekah Lovell 08.11.2023

As many of you know, a couple of weeks ago we wrapped up our first ever Fierce Families Conference! It was a blessing for us and we pray it blessed each family who was able to attend. We also wanted to make sure that you all could be a part of the fun! Join us for this live Q&A podcast that we recorded with our good friends, John and Bekah Lovell. New communication books: https://speak.fiercem...

Why Marriage is AWESOME and Worth the Fight 31.10.2023

As we love to say, marriage takes a fierce tenacity that never gives up and never gives in. When we press into God's good design, we see marriage for what it was always meant to be; an institution that brings life, and joy, and places the gospel on full display. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, v...

Q&A: Is Birth Control OK?, S** Addiction, Is a Wife Her Husband's Property? and More... 17.10.2023

In today's episode, we answer some of our listener's questions. These are some challenging ones, but we hope to shine some biblical light on your uncertainties! New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visi...

10 Reasons Marriages Struggle and Fail - Part 2 10.10.2023

Join us as we pick up where we left off last week! We are discussing the final five themes that we have noticed as to why marriages struggle and fail. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://...

10 Reasons Marriages Struggle and Fail - Part 1 03.10.2023

We've been working with couples in the marriage sphere for over ten years now, and there always seem to be consistent themes that arise from marriages that perpetually struggle and never quite reach their stride. Join us as we discuss these reasons today! New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: h...

Busyness, Arguments, and the Language of Gratitude 26.09.2023

Lately, we've been in a very busy and full season of life. God is good and he's helping us learn a new language despite it all... the language of gratitude. Join us and be encouraged if you find yourself in a similar season of life! New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.co...

Perseverance, NOT Perfection is the Goal 19.09.2023

Trying to make your marriage perfect will eventually feel like a lost hope, but trusting in the Lord will bring life and longevity to a struggling marriage. Join us and be encouraged! New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener supported. T...

Micro-Decisions that Make a Huge Difference in Marriage 12.09.2023

The daily decisions you make with your spouse can either bring you closer together or drive you further apart. Join us to hear more about these positive micro-decisions you can make to strengthen your marriage! New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is ent...

Communication Signals vs. Noise In Marriage 05.09.2023

Check out this session from our latest communication masterclass which will be released shortly! We hope to share the purpose behind your communication with your spouse and pray it blesses you! New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener su...

What if I Got Married Too Young (or I Don't Want to Be Married Anymore?) 29.08.2023

Have you ever had any thoughts of second-guessing your marriage? You're not alone in this, but you must not stay in those thoughts. In this episode, we want to encourage you and remind you of what true covenantal love looks like. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com T...

The Cosmic Cold War on Marriage (and 3 Ways You Can Fight Back) 22.08.2023

Over time, we have seen the beauty of marriage torn apart little by little by modern culture and it's left us with a false and distorted view of God's good and original design. Listen in to hear how you can fight back against this modern narrative! New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://...

Marriage is NOT Give and Take 15.08.2023

Does the title of this episode rub you the wrong way? All the more reason to join us to see what we mean! New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner  Good news! You ca...

The Five Facets of a Fierce Man 08.08.2023

This week Ryan takes on the show, solo, to help encourage men in five key areas of their lives. Men, you don't want to miss this and wives, be sure to pass this along to your husband! Or, feel free to listen in to learn more ways you can encourage your husbands in their walk of faith. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about...

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