Field Guide for Marriage- A 24/7 Marriage Podcast

Most married couples would agree their marriage could use a tune-up in the area of sex.  Whether you have been married for ten years with three kids or 30 years as empty nesters, every couple desires a thriving, intimate life.  What if we focused less on the sex and more on the friendship?  In this episode, Shannan and Javier discuss what it looks like to fall in love and become best friends all o...

Marriage is a journey filled with twists and turns. It's natural to experience disagreements; sometimes, you may unintentionally hurt your spouse. However, what happens when your spouse seems emotionally distant, avoids communication, or takes advantage of your covenant vows? How do you move towards your spouse in that season? How do you radically display God's love to them? Listen to th...

As we look back at 2023, celebrate areas where you have made progress, such as communication or spending quality time together. Identify areas that require more attention in the coming year, like frequent arguments or neglecting date nights. Remember that marriage requires constant effort, but acknowledging both successes and areas for improvement can lead to a fulfilling year ahead.  Javier and S...

Get ready to eavesdrop on a heart-to-heart chat between  Shannan and her youngest kiddo, McKenna. Listen to McKenna dish on how her parents raised her and her sister Mikaela. They discuss marriage and share stories about ministry; these two open up on it all! Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan. Married 33 years, they’ve weathered th...

In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to fall into the trap of busyness. With work, kids, and other responsibilities, couples may struggle to find time for each other. This can lead to feelings of neglect, frustration, and even resentment. Javier and Shannan discuss the things that keep us busy and distracted from what's really important. Support the show The "Original" M...

Being vulnerable in marriage is one of the most critical aspects of building a solid and healthy relationship. Vulnerability means opening up to your spouse and sharing your deepest thoughts, feelings, and fears. It means being honest and transparent, even when it's scary or uncomfortable. Shannan and Javier share their setbacks and what vulnerability looks like in marriage. Support the show...

Many studies have shown that husbands tend to feel neglected during the holiday season. As couples become engrossed in the hustle and bustle of the season, they can often forget about their significant other. If you're seeking a guaranteed method to ruin your marriage, Shannan and Javier have got you covered. (Insert sarcasm emoji) Share this episode with friends! Support the show The "O...

The holidays are upon us, and getting caught up in the flurry of events and festivities is easy. Instead of losing our minds while racing from one event to another, we should take a step back and consider what's truly important. Shannan and Javier offer three tips to help you make the most of the holiday season. Download their EXCLUSIVE Couples Advent Calendar and Handling the Holidays worksh...

God saved their marriage, but Elayne Barnett was a close second!  In this jam-packed episode, Shannan sits down with her mentor, Elayne, to discuss how their friendship evolved, why mentorship is essential, and how to find your real identity in Christ. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan. Married 33 years, they’ve weathered the highs...

Don't get too comfy just yet! Some folks may think the chase is over once they've tied the knot, but hold up. You have to keep the flame burning and invest in your relationship! This goes for both the husband and wife.  When it comes to chasing your better half, it takes two to tango. Both of you have to make a daily effort to nurture that bond. Buckle up; it's always a good time wi...

Marriage is a beautiful covenant that requires effort, patience, and commitment. However, difficult seasons in a marriage are inevitable, and they can leave spouses feeling hopeless and frustrated. Despite the challenges, it is possible to find joy in these seasons and come out stronger on the other side. Shannan shares a difficult season of depression and how she found joy in the everyday. Suppor...

Forgiveness is a powerful tool that can help us move on from past hurts and heal emotional wounds. While an apology from the person who caused the hurt can be helpful in achieving forgiveness, it is not always necessary.  Giving forgiveness without an apology can be a difficult but important step in the healing process. It allows us to let go of anger, resentment and bitterness and make room for m...

 Jill Dasher is the author of the SHALLOW, Drowning in the Shallow End of People’s Approval. She is a writer and Christian speaker who is passionate about sharing the freedom that exists when you refuse to live in hiding & freely submit all of your fears, flaws, & failures to the God who made you. Zach and Jill Dasher are co-owners of Tread Lively with Willie and Korrie Robertson and will...

Long before Phil Robertson (Duck Dynasty) was a reality TV star, he fell in love, started a family, and began to spiral out of control.  THE BLIND shares never-before-revealed moments in Phil’s life as he seeks to conquer the shame of his past, ultimately finding redemption in an unlikely place. Javier and Shannan have partnered with the producers of The Blind and are helping promote this incredib...

Javier and Shannan are back with another great episode.  Javier asks the question, will you decide to be a great person to be married to today? In this real and raw episode they share how serving and putting each other first is their goal but has not always been easy, yet they strive to please God in how they love each other daily. This is a must-share episode. Support the show The "Original&...

In the EXCLUSIVE episode, Shannan sits down with Eileen Marx from All Things Possible Ministries.  Eileen is married to Victor Marx, aka The Pedophile Hunter. They have been married for 34 years, and have 5 children and 5 granddaughters.  Today, Victor and Eileen focus their attention on hunting predators, and rescuing, restoring, and empowering women and children who have been held captive by tra...

The Labs are back with season 4 of the 24/7 Marriage podcast.  This week Javier and Shannan discuss what words to take off the table in marriage.  Divorce is a word many couples use to threaten or simply grab their partner's attention.  Listen as Javier unpacks having a mindset shift and removing this word from your marriage vocabulary. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flipp...

This week, Javier from 24/7 Marriage is answering your marriage questions. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan. Married 33 years, they’ve weathered the highs, lows, and everything in between—and now their mission is simple: to see marriages thrive, not just survive. As sought-after conference speakers, authors, podcast hosts, and cre...

At the tender age of 15, Shannan discovered she was pregnant.  After missing her appointment for an abortion, she decided to carry to term.  In her second trimester, her cousin stepped forward to adopt the baby.  Thirty-four years later, Shannan sits down with Cari to reflect and discuss their thoughts on adoption, family, and how we pay it forward. Listen to My Crisis Pregnancy Story Part 1 &...

In this episode, Shannan sits down with a candid interview with Victoria Robinson. Victoria is a pro-life speaker and hosts Reassemble retreats for women looking for healing and restoration from abortion. She has written two books, They Lied to us and They Lied to us too. Victoria shares her own abortion story and offers hope and restoration for those who share her story.  @rvictoriarobinson reass...

 When was the last time you got away on a fishing trip with the guys? When did you last have a day or two with your close girlfriends? Listen as Shannan & Javier break down the importance of having alone time or time spent with friends and how it can impact your marriage. They also weigh in on the difference between a vacation and a trip when you have children. Support the show The "Origi...

Is one of you always rushing? Is the other relaxed and laid back? How do you work together for the greater good of your marriage?  Javier shares a recent trip to the Farmers Market and the new temperament he has taken on in this season of life. Listen as the Labs work through their issues live on air. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shan...

This hot topic can be the source of contention for so many married couples. However, creating a fulfilling and thrilling sex life involves many things. Listen to Shannan and Javier unpack how you create the sexual component of marriage you desire. This is a MUST-LISTEN episode. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan. Married 33 years, t...

Javier shares how gratitude can change our daily lives and marriage.  When we begin each day with thanksgiving, it helps us value what and who is around us.  You want your marriage to soar, begin each day with gratitude. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan. Married 33 years, they’ve weathered the highs, lows, and everything in betwee...

This week Javier and Shannan talk about the season when Javier was walking through depression and how they worked through that season together.  Shannan shares what a challenging and dark couple of years it was walking alongside Javier as he sought healing & restoration.  If you are married to someone struggling with an addiction or depression, this episode is for you. Support the show The &qu...