Field Guide for Marriage- A 24/7 Marriage Podcast

In this episode, we’re diving into the dangers of avoiding hard conversations in marriage—how dodging topics like sex, money, boundaries, and unmet expectations can quietly erode your connection. We’ll unpack why avoidance feels easier in the moment but creates long-term damage, and (most importantly) how to start having those real, honest conversations without it turning into a disaster. If you w...

In this powerful episode, Javier sits down with Brad Valencia from Unrelenting Pursuit to dive into the importance of vulnerability in marriage. Brad shares his personal transformation journey, revealing how embracing openness and tenderness can strengthen the connection between husband and wife. Together, they discuss practical ways men can break down emotional barriers, lead with love, and creat...

Hosts Shannan and Javier explore the profound ways marriage acts as a mirror, reflecting our true selves, from unmasking our vulnerabilities to fostering personal growth.  Discover how understanding the reflective nature of marriage can lead to deeper connections and a more fulfilling partnership.  Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan...

Got marriage questions? We’ve got answers! In this episode, we’re diving into YOUR biggest marriage concerns—communication struggles, leadership, and everything in between. Whether you're newlyweds or marriage veterans, this Q&A session is packed with practical advice, real talk, and a few laughs along the way. Tune in for insights, relatable stories, and actionable tips to strengthen you...

 Marriage isn’t just a relationship—it’s a ministry. In this episode, we dive into what it means to see your marriage as a sacred calling and your spouse as your mission field. How can you serve, uplift, and love your partner with purpose? How does faith shape the way we navigate the highs and lows of marriage? Join us as we explore practical ways to build a marriage that reflects grace, commitmen...

We've all heard the advice: "Keep dating your spouse to keep the spark alive." But what if that's not enough? In this episode, we dive deep into the work that makes a marriage thrive—beyond date nights and romantic gestures. We'll explore why emotional connection, communication, and shared purpose matter more than just going out to dinner once a week. Join us as we dispel...

 Marriage isn’t meant to be a solo act. Trying to live independently while expecting your spouse to just go with it creates distance, frustration, and disconnection. In this episode, we’ll dive into why true freedom comes from unity, not independence, and how shifting from “me” to “we” can transform your marriage.  Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —J...

In this raw and honest episode, we’re diving into the hard truth about sacrifice in marriage—especially when it feels one-sided. Loving your spouse isn’t always easy, and sometimes it might even feel unfair. So how do you keep showing up when you're exhausted, unappreciated, or just plain frustrated? We’ll talk about what real sacrifice looks like (hint: it’s not just about giving things up),...

 In this episode, Javier from 24/7 Marriage is joined by his son-in-law, Freddy, for an insightful and down-to-earth conversation about marriage, leadership, serving, and everything. They share personal experiences, practical wisdom, and the lessons they’ve learned about building strong relationships, leading with love, and showing up for your spouse. Whether you’re newly married or years into the...

We've all heard the clichés about marriage—"Happy couples never fight," "Love should always feel effortless," or "Marriage is 50/50." But what if these so-called truths are holding your relationship back? In this episode, we're breaking down some of the biggest marriage myths that most couples believe and revealing what makes a marriage thrive. Get ready for...

In this episode of the 24/7 Marriage Podcast, we’re tackling a subtle but common issue in marriage: living like you’re single instead of intertwining your life with your spouse. Are you making decisions on your own, prioritizing your goals over shared ones, or feeling like roommates instead of your spouse? We’ll discuss the signs that you might be living like you’re single, why it damages your mar...

We’re reflecting on the lessons, challenges, and victories that shaped us in 2024. Join Javier and Shannan for a heartfelt conversation about what this year has taught us about marriage, faith, and the power of perseverance. From unexpected moments of growth to key insights for building stronger relationships, we’re sharing our biggest takeaways to inspire and encourage you for the year ahead. Sup...

Planning your marriage is just as important as planning your wedding. In this episode, we explore the art of intentional communication with your spouse, covering everything from setting shared goals to aligning on values and building a roadmap for your future together. Whether newlyweds or years into your marriage, this conversation is filled with practical tips to strengthen your marriage and cre...

Join us as we reflect on an incredible year of restoring hope, redeeming stories, and building strong marriages through 24/7 Marriage. Hear about exciting plans for 2025, including the future Ministry Center and Outpost in Prescott, Arizona, and how your support is making it all possible! Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan. Married...

Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan. Married 33 years, they’ve weathered the highs, lows, and everything in between—and now their mission is simple: to see marriages thrive, not just survive. As sought-after conference speakers, authors, podcast hosts, and creators of 24/7 Marriage Bootcamps—3-day intensives that help couples hit res...

 In this festive episode, Shannan and Javier unwrap the hustle and bustle of the holiday season. They dish out tips on how to hit the brakes, focus on what truly matters (like your marriage ), and master the art of the holiday "no"—because not every party needs your RSVP!  It's a cheerful guide to keeping the season bright without losing your mind.  Support the show The "Origin...

In this episode, Javier and Shannan dive into questions submitted by their Instagram followers! From personal stories to thought-provoking topics, they tackle it all with honesty, humor, and wisdom. Tune in for a fun and insightful Q&A session that brings you closer to the duo and their unique perspectives. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javie...

 The holiday season is here, and with it comes the joyful chaos of family gatherings, festive parties, and packed schedules. But how do you keep the peace when in-laws have opinions, the calendar bursts with commitments, and the stress levels are high?  In this episode, we explore practical tips and strategies for helping families thrive during this hectic time of year. From setting boundaries to...

 In this episode, we dive into the art of becoming – and remaining – a lifelong student of your spouse. Relationships, like individuals, are constantly evolving, and staying curious about your spouse can be the key to a lasting, fulfilling connection. We’ll discuss why it’s so essential to approach your partner with the same curiosity, openness, and attentiveness as you did in the early days of yo...

 Shannan and Javier, founders of 24/7 Marriage, have a mission rooted in the belief that a strong marriage forms the backbone of a healthy family and, by extension, a thriving society. Their organization is dedicated to strengthening and defending the nuclear family by promoting commitment, faith, and resilience within marriages.  Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet...

In this episode, we explore the forces that frame our understanding of marriage. Is it cultural expectations, social media trends, or something deeper, like God’s design for a thriving marriage? We also explore how tradition, societal pressures, and faith intersect in modern marriage. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan. Married 33 y...

In this hot-topic episode, Shannan and Javier talk about celebrities and their take on marriage. Shannan dives into statements made by Tia Mowry on her recent divorce.  Can people really grow apart?  What does it mean when you enter into a covenant?  What obligation do you have to your children?  Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan....

 Every season of marriage brings its own unique set of challenges and joys. Whether navigating early years, raising kids, or enjoying an empty nest, each stage can teach you something new about your spouse partner and yourselves. Embracing the surprises together can strengthen your bond and deepen your understanding of each other.  Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet...

 In this episode, Javier and Shannan explore how we often seek professional help in various aspects of our lives yet neglect our marriages and relationships with our spouses. They discuss the importance of actively supporting and nurturing your marriage. Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan. Married 33 years, they’ve weathered the hig...

Join Javier and Shannan as they explore the challenges when old habits resurface in marriage. Join us as we discuss practical strategies for recognizing and combating these patterns while fostering an environment of grace and mercy.  Support the show The "Original" Marriage Flippers   Meet the Labradors —Javier and Shannan. Married 33 years, they’ve weathered the highs, lows, and everyth...