F*ck The Generation Wealth Gap Podcast

"Pivoting is scary, but failure means that you can fail forward." Something i want to share is that working with people you like is apart of the freedom piece I talk so much about. It is so important to me to have people in my life that I work with that I like. In this episode we talk about how pivoting is such a powerful thing. It is a necessity to have less internal friction of what yo...

"I did not like it when he said you should do this instead of this." Something i want to share is that there is a lot of un-trust that came up for me when people gave feedback because I didn't trust them or their opinion. This un-trust comes from my neglect childhood and my instability with relationships. In this episode I talk about what comes up for me when I hear feedback. How I n...

"The shortcut is you" What I mean by that is you are the only one who can make your business or your brand a success. Something i want to share is that I am definitely getting sick in this episode. So my voice sounds a little different. But I am showing up for myself and showing up for you. So please enjoy! In this episode I talk about how there is no such thing as lasting quick success....

" I got quiet and he said elyse why are you still seeking validation from your father? My heart sank..." Something i want to share is that everyone family is different but It is the fact that we care about what they think and that Im someone who has always wanted to make my parents proud. So I deal with recovering people pleasing. If this is something that is hard for you, I hope this ep...

" Sitting on the ground crying wondering why again my relationship didn't work once again. What was wrong with me, why didn't someone love me again....." Something I want to share is that everything that happens in your personal life affects your professional life. In this episode I talk about why it is that I started to ask myself the question of why I do what I do. Because I wa...

"Success leaves clues" Something i want to share is that this is a hard episode for me to record. But being honest is always what creates real trust and a future. In this episode I talk about my childhood trauma and how it affected me becoming wanting to be an entrepreneur. In this episode we touch on: What is trauma? How many of us are using our full potential Are you reliving your past...

Making a split second decision  Commit  Choose in each moment  There will always be a reason to say no or make an excuse  Like when you do something and stop doing it when it is WORKING  Having people around you to help you recommit  Ask yourself what happens if you don’t do it  Wake up earlier  Do something for yourself before you do something for anyone else  Take care of your body and mind then...

"Its all about how to start over" Something i want to share is that coaches make mistakes too. Its about making sure, you take aligned action and are willing to get super uncomfortable. If you can sit in the uncomfortable you can do anything. But admitting the shame and forgiving yourself, is difficult. In this episode I get real vulnerable and deep and talk about how ive messed up and t...

"Allow yourself to see what you can not see" Something i want to share is that this episode has a lot of vulnerability in sharing the mistakes that we make. In this episode I talk about my healthy and unhealthy coping skills and habits. How it is to be aware of the skills that do not support you. Then what to do with them once you become aware of them. Why it is that you must start now,...

"What do you do when you are triggered. Do you want to disassociate naturally? Or do you need something else to not to take time to figure out how you feel now." Something i want to share is that these kinds of episodes are never easy to film because its normally very emotional and sometimes difficult to be this honest with yourself without judgment. So take a moment and give yourself a...

"Oh im only going to do this for a couple months, ok what about after that, idk?" Something i want to share is that I lived on a "diet" of who I really was for years and it did not support me. But I was so worried and stuck in comparison of what everyone else thought that I thought it was normal to not feel well all the time. I thought it was normal to live a dieted life. But y...

"Flow or fight" In this episode I talk about how you know your in flow vs fighting. Because you may not know that you could be physically in fight but think your in flow. So I go into detail on how I have found this to show up for me in my life. In this episode we touch on: 1. Nervous system  2. Distinguish between who’s inner voice  3. Working less and playing more  4. True to yourself ...

"When your parents go on a rant and your like, really? Your ego start's to get loud." Something I want to share is that this was a conversation I almost didn't have with you. This was an uncomfortable subject that I didn't want to allow to be judged. I know that it's important to show you the real part of the story instead of hiding. In this episode I talk about what to d...

"When you hit a wall and don’t know what to do and where to go" In this episode I talk about what it feels like to hit a wall. What you do once you hit one. Also normally why we hit so many in a row. What it feels like mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually affecting. In this episode we touch on: FEEL ANXIOUS, FRUSTRATED  WALL HIT  JUST ONE MORE TIME  THROWING THINGS MOMENT ...

“Well I used to do that, or ya I’ve done that” Something i want to share is that we have all done this, so I want you to look at yourself and others without judgment. In this episode I talk about how it is deeply important to recognize the stories that we are feeding into. The stories that we are rewiring to be in our subconscious forever. Because the stories affect all parts of life including our...

“Well they’re lucky. He has a friend, or started with money, or was picked" YOU CAN START AT ANY TIME! What is the difference between someone that uses their background to define them or to propel them? Something I want to share is that Mark is one of my best friends and I bring guests in that amplify the message of what we want to create which is true freedom. So im so happy that I have mark...

"Do you really know what you want? Have you allowed yourself to think big for yourself? Ive been there. I get there every couple months lol in another phase deeper of my evolution through fear in overcoming them in entrepreneurship." Something I want to share is that a lot of the time no one wants to share whats happening in the moment. But I was blessed with a gift that I can share now...

“Don’t allow anyone to be the authority on you more than you” In this episode I ask about what is holding you back. Often what we think is the cause of what’s holding us back is often the bandaid to the actual cause. I talk about what I have had experience in hold me back. Also I talk about what commonly holds people back. Also signs of when you know you’re being held back. Also are you the one ho...

In this episode I talk about what is possible when you make a commitment to changing in 3 months, its totally possible you could be a different person in 3 months. You just have to understand your priorities. In this episode I give you tools to use for the next couple of months to get yourself up for next level you. In this episode we touch on: 1. Build 3 habits (sleep, wake time, energy sucking p...

"You think that someone that is a millionaire doesn't have a different kind of thing he is running into obstacles?" In this episode I talk about how we always assume the grass is greener on the other side right? Really you can have money and still have problems or road blocks. I think it is important that we remember how not all things in the media are real and that people with money...

"Stop right now" the popular spice girls song had it right." In this episode I go into why perspective shifts are needed to do better in money and business. To come back to baseline to discover if we are still doing what it is we want to do. That pattern interrupt is necessary to think differently. In order to be something different you have to do something different. In this episod...

"It's hard to let go, unless you have help" In this episode I expand upon what you need to let go of. Why when you carry things like baggage and never get over it your just taking it from one place to the next. Once you can step away as well as truly let go, you will see. In this episode we touch on: 1. Let go of others opinions + BE you 2. Let go of what relationships no longer serv...

"I just wanted cinderella's fairy god mother to tap me on the shoulder and say your done!" In this episode I talk about why trust is the most relationship in your life. Especially to have with yourself. You must do things differently than you once did. This episode is about how to become your most authentic self and allowing more magic in your life. In this episode we touch on: 1. Yo...

“Don't get me wrong its like an olympic pole vault still you don't know if your going to stick it till your landing” In this episode I talk about why you can not go around the hard jumps. The more things that you do that were never done before the more you can make space yourself to keep going. I also talk about how we can not be everywhere at the same time, we are not perfect we are human...

“Loneliness is just your willingness to recognize yourself as separate” In this episode I talk about why when you feel lonely it is something that happens inside of you. That you must balance what is going on inside of you, to get it to show up on the outside. Loneliness is something many of us deal with and don’t share about. But if we were never lonely or felt that way would be apprecaite feelin...