Fatherhood Field Notes

Vincent and Ned delve deep into the intricacies of identity, materialism, and fatherhood. Drawing inspiration from iconic lines like "the things you own eventually own you" from Fight Club, the duo reflects on the weight of possessions and the essence of existence. As fathers, they share their unique perspectives on intentional parenting, celebrating both victories and setbacks. Vincent...

Ned dives deep into the transformative power of small moments in fatherhood. He shares a moment of him dancing with his wife and the profound impact it has on their daughter, he uncovers the silent strength and security that fathers bring into their families. Beyond the dance, Ned emphasizes the significance of connection, leadership, and the unwavering love fathers provide. It's a touching e...

Ned sits down with Greg Gunn. He shares his journey and insights on the power and influence of fatherhood. From crafting a family mission statement to effective communication and empathy in parenting, Greg highlights the importance of setting goals and building a strong family identity. He also shares personal victories and challenges, emphasizing the significance of sibling relationships and mana...

Today Ned discusses a big milestone in his home as his eldest daughter starts her senior year of high school. He expands on the shift that is occurring within his home at this time and how he's being intentional with her as she embarks on this last school year. He also shares how he's having deeper conversations with his teenage children as they get closer to adulthood. He shares questio...

Ned introduces his friend and mentor, Michael Davis, for a powerful conversation on the essence of fatherhood. Michael shares his insights on the power, authority, and opportunity that fathers have in shaping their families and communities. He emphasizes the importance of being a spiritual leader, setting boundaries, and raising children to be proven providers. He also discusses the significance o...

Ned shares a heartwarming experience he had with his son and his friends during a short car ride. He emphasizes the power of being intentional, even in limited time, and how it can create memorable moments and deeper connections with your children. He also reflects on a recent personal failure in listening to his wife and discusses the importance of genuine apologies and modeling authenticity for...

Ned chats with Matt Ortiz about the profound journey of fatherhood. They explore the importance of challenging societal norms, emphasizing that fathers should foster individual thought, and be wary of external influences. The pair advocate for regular reflection amidst life's chaos, underscoring the vital role of a united community in child-rearing. Balancing work and family emerges as a cent...

Discover the power of creating moments of connection in fatherhood. Join Ned as he reflects on the importance of going on walks and fighting for family traditions. He shares personal stories of his own experiences, from the magic of 15-minute walks to the challenges faced in maintaining traditions. Tune in to learn how to make the most of even the shortest moments and create lasting memories with...

We dive deep into the journey of Chris Flores, a man who faced his biggest mistake and turned his life around through self-reflection and transformation. Chris shares his personal story of redemption after being arrested for felony domestic violence and his commitment to rebuilding his marriage and becoming a better father. He emphasizes the importance of core values, service, and leadership in th...

Ned explores the idea of being too concerned with his children's happiness. He reflects on his son's expectations of constant fun and how it contrasts with the responsibilities of life. He also discusses the importance of teaching his son gratitude and the balance between fun and taking care of responsibilities. He shares a personal story about planning a special anniversary activity for...

Ned interviews Chris Emick from Go Bucket Yourself. They discuss the journey of fatherhood and the importance of authenticity, curiosity, and personal growth. Chris shares his own experiences and insights on being a father and the challenges he faced. He encourages listeners to embrace their authentic selves and pursue their dreams, while also fostering meaningful connections with their children....

Ned reflects on the valuable lessons that can be learned from our children. He shares a personal story about a kitchen mishap and explores how triggers can provide opportunities for growth and self-reflection as a parent. Ned encourages listeners to consider the impact they have on their children's memories and emphasizes the importance of being present and prioritizing family time.  --------...

Ned interviews Eric Brassfield, a firefighter and devoted father. They discuss the importance of creating experiences with their families, finding gratitude for the opportunity to be fathers, and how to lead by example. Eric shares his journey of wanting to be a dad since his early twenties and the joy he experiences in fatherhood. He emphasizes the role of protecting, providing, and being present...

In this Craft of Fatherhood chapter, Ned presents three stories that underscore the significance of sibling bonds, investing time in what matters, and the potency of forgiveness in fatherhood. Highlighting an instance of collaboration between his daughters, he underscores the everlasting sibling bond. Recalling a meaningful beach outing with his son, Ned stresses the need for fathers to prioritize...

Everett Lebherz is a devoted father who hails from a background rich in experiences and life lessons. Once navigating the complexities of life as a young parent, he has now embraced the role of a fully engaged father and a mentor to many. Everett's journey is marked by key pillars such as presence, understanding, and continuous personal growth, which he passionately discusses in his conversat...

In this episode, Ned shares his insights and experiences on fatherhood. He emphasizes the importance of being present and engaged in children's lives, and how simple acts of connection can create lasting memories and impart valuable lessons. Ned discusses the balance between work and family, encouraging fathers to seize opportunities to spend quality time with their children. He also shares h...

In this episode, Ned is joined by guest Eric Wohlwend. They discuss the importance of integrating work and family life, rather than trying to balance them as separate entities. Eric shares his unique perspective on parenting, emphasizing the importance of being present and engaged with your children. He also talks about his belief in teaching children to earn their way and the importance of financ...

In this week's Craft of Fatherhood, Ned challenges the conventional norms of fatherhood, urging fathers to embrace their unique identities and craft their own narrative. He shares his personal voyage of self-discovery as a father and the profound fulfillment it has brought him. Ned underscores the significant influence fathers can wield on their children and the world at large, inspiring them...

In this very special episode, Ned interviews his friend, coach, and Super Human Father, Kyle Carnohan. The two dive into Ned's transformation over the past year as he neared his 40th birthday. They discuss how he connected with the Super Human Fathers leaders and how they set him on the disciplined path toward an elite transformation. Kyle shares how he's instilling healthy habits into h...

This week's Craft of Fatherhood takes us deep into the heart of our roles as fathers and how important it is to craft special moments in their lives. Ned talks about a special moment he shared with his daughter and how their conversation helped him shift his tone for that day. Plus, he shares a sweet tale of the magical moment when a father and son surf together for the first time. Like this...

Ryan Carnohan is a California native who has undergone a significant physical and mindset transformation. Once a "Pizza Boy," he has now embraced the role of the "World's Greatest Hypeman." Ryan's journey is marked by key pillars such as discipline, resilience, and constant evolution, which he passionately discusses in his discourses. A former schoolteacher, he now he...

Today, Ned talks about giving our kids some space to learn, grow and figure it out. Are there situations we're putting too much pressure on them to do something? He also shares how he recently put into practice meetings with his wife. If you're craving more connection with your spouse, this is a great listen you may glean from. ---------- Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's...

On this episode, Ned interviews Nate Palmer of the Low Carb Hustle. This father, trainer, and coach shares his wisdom on helping men find success with their fitness and nutrition. He and Ned dive into discipline in fitness and nutrition and how it impacts our families. They connect on how vital it is to lead by example and pave the way for your children to model a healthy lifestyle. Let them see t...

This week’s episode looks at teaching our sons ways of dating. Men, it is vital to teach your sons to treat women on dates and to teach your daughters how to be treated. Ned shares a recent experience one of his daughters had and how it sparked the importance of teaching our sons etiquette as they get closer to dating. ---------- Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here Check ou...

On this week’s episode with Brad Johnson, he shares how a temporary separation sparked him to become the father his children truly needed. He talks about being an entrepreneur and how it’s impacted raising his family. Brad gets real about his morning quiet time and how creating this habit had become the most precious part of his day. He shares his practice of being present to his family while inte...