Father On Purpose Podcast

We interrupt your normal programming to bring you this special interview with guest Kevin Downes, co-founder of Kingdom Story Company. In this timely and insightful conversation, Kevin gives us the inside scoop on the upcoming movie, "The Unbreakable Boy." It's releasing in theaters February 21, 2025, and is jam-packed with countless family and fatherhood lessons. We hope you'll consider rolling o...

Metaphors are one of the most common ways Jesus chose to teach his followers. Likewise, metaphors can be one of the most effective ways to instill truths into our kids. In today's episode, we're going to look at some of the metaphors Jesus used, as well as some examples of metaphors we have used with our children over the years.   Send us your own metaphor ideas! Email them here: info@manhoodjourn...

Since we're all imperfect creatures, our relationships with one another are bound to be imperfect as well. Sometimes, we're just going to drop the ball. We're going to hurt the ones we love. In today's episode, we'll examine how to go about healing the connections we've damaged in our lives—and how to avoid creating that kind of relational chaos in the future. Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yo...

English poet John Donne once wrote, "no man is an island." His point? None of us go through this life alone. No matter where we turn in life, we bump into other people. As husbands and fathers, our most important relationships involve the people under our own roof. Those are the connections we need to strengthen as we continue to move into this year. In today's episode, we'll explore ways we can r...

As members of the human race, we have a problem. We will never be perfect, no matter how hard we try. Yet, so many men derail themselves as husbands and fathers by trying to keep up the facade of perfection. Like the old saying goes, it can be too easy for us to let perfect become the enemy of progress. In today's episode, we'll examine the benefits of ditching our drive for perfection in favor of...

Hear ye, hear ye! Special announcement incoming! We want to let you, our devoted podcast listener, be the first to hear about a brand new opportunity from the team at Manhood Journey and Father On Purpose. Introducing: Fatherhood Cohorts. These are online, fatherhood small group experiences designed to help you accelerate your growth as a father. Listen to the short announcement above or click  he...

Like looking into a mirror, God's Word shows us what we are as husbands and fathers...and it's always an accurate reflection. Thankfully, it also gives us a glimpse of what we can become with God's help. In this episode, we'll continue the deep dive into Psalm 112 and learn more about how this Scripture passage can transform you into a spouse and dad who blesses his family and fits perfectly into...

The new year is a traditional time to think about forward motion. Nobody wants to stand still. We all want to make progress toward becoming the husband, dad, and man God created each of us to be. In this episode and next week's, we'll take a look at some solid goals for the next 12 months based on the wisdom of Psalm 112. The psalmist's principles and practical applications have the power to trans...

A new year is upon us, and this often gives us a chance to feel like we have a fresh start. Scripture tells us that even Jesus grew intellectually, physically, spiritually and socially. If He had room to grow in those areas, we certainly have room to grow as fathers, husbands, friends, and Christ followers. In this episode, we'll be talking about healthy ways to turn the page in the new year and c...

While the wrapped presents on birthdays and around the tree at Christmas are nice, the consistent presence you provide your family the entire year is a gift of infinite value. What's more, by actively engaging with your family each day, you are are modeling the incredible love and purposes of our engaging God. In this episode, we'll examine the gift of presence and how you can become the hands and...

Christmas is a great time for giving and receiving gifts. But there are plenty of gifts you can give and receive all year long. For example, this episode digs into what it looks like to give the gift of listening. We'll look at what the Bible has to say about listening and why that matters for our lives each day. If your goal is to become a better listener in the weeks and months ahead, we've got...

The Bible tells us that God works out every situation for the good of those who love Him and follow Him. If that's true, then nothing we experience is a waste or without purpose. Everything has the potential to draw us closer to God and make us more like Jesus. This episode wraps up our "Don't Bench Yourself" series with one of the most important manhood lessons of all: Learning how God uses our i...

Memories. They can be a blessing or a curse. When they lead you toward gratitude and appreciation, there's nothing better. But if they keep you focused on guilt, pain, and "what could have been," you need to find a way to put them in your rearview mirror . . . and fast. Letting your past dominate and define you as a man is a dangerous and unhealthy way to live. It lands you on the bench when you s...

Teams that thrive are built around teammates who work well together. But that's not possible if players refuse to take ownership of their failures or, even worse, blame others for their mistakes. The same principle is true as a man. You can't prosper and grow if you turn a blind eye to your shortcomings or point the finger at your wife, kids, and friends. Instead of deflecting the blame, you've go...

Any athlete worth his salt knows that once you get off the bench, you never want to go back. Your goal is to stay in the game. Our God-given purpose as men of faith is to stay off the sidelines and to serve our wives, kids, co-workers, and friends with integrity and intentionality. But we can't do that if we refuse to be honest about our mistakes. We have to be able to call it out. As we start the...

"Hurry up!" How many times have you said this as a dad, maybe to your kids, your wife, or even to God? Patience is something that every single one of us struggles with as a father. It's so easy to give up when we don't see the results we're wanting, when we want them. "I'm still angry." "My kids still feel lonely." On and on the list can go. The bench can look really comforting when we're feeling...

We've all heard that words can never harm us. We also know that nothing could be further from the truth. While sticks and stones can do a lot of damage, nothing is more devastating to the nurturing of manhood than a steady barrage of painful criticism. In a world built on a foundation of negativity, it's vital for guys to learn how to embrace the constructive criticism that makes us better—and to...

This week, we tackle one of the biggest hurdles dads face: shame. Mistakes can bring us down, and it's easy to succumb to shame in these moments. However, these are some of the best opportunities for us to grow as dads. We miss out on these opportunities when we let shame keep us on the bench. Shame is one of Satan's trickiest and most clever tools that he has to use against us, but in today's epi...

As guys, we often pride ourselves in being fearless. We never want to appear weak or unsure of ourselves. But the truth is, we all wrestle with fear to some degree. It's a universal affliction that's impossible to escape, especially on our own. That's where God comes in. Through His Word, he commands us to "fear not" and reminds us that we can face the things we dread in a godly, biblical way. The...

Have you ever felt the pull to check out and warm the bench while you let the rest your family step up and take care of business? Do you struggle with the insecurities of feeling like you're not good enough, letting fear and shame hold you back from being the husband and father God has called you to be? Well good news, we're going to tackle all those issues and more in the coming weeks. Join us as...

As husbands and fathers, we all want to leave an enduring legacy for our families. One of the greatest gifts we can provide is wisdom in dealing with money. Our personal finances have the power to build us up or tear us down, so it's impossible to overstate the value of embracing biblical stewardship. Author and speaker Matt Bell spends his days helping people understand God's words and God's ways...

The challenges and struggles of being a godly husband are real. That's why it's important to seek help and encouragement every step of the way. Since its publication in 2011, The Meaning of Marriage by the late pastor and author Tim Keller has provided insight and guidance for men seeking to make their marriage all God wants it to be. Today, we discuss three key quotes from  The Meaning of Marriag...

Life's challenges can push us to confront our fears and reassess our beliefs. We've all faced moments when fear feels insurmountable, leading us to question our paths and choices. We often find the keys to our liberation in these struggles. Orv Kimbrough shares his journey of overcoming fear and the transformative power of faith in Christ. He discusses how shifting our perspective can guide us tow...

Sometimes, the Bible doesn't just comfort us—it challenges us to rethink our attitudes, actions, and beliefs. We've all encountered challenging Bible verses that are hard to accept, passages that seem too difficult to follow or that make us uncomfortable. These verses often stir up resistance, leading us to wrestle with God's commands. In this episode, we dive deep into what happens when we come f...

Our culture seems to have plenty of males running around, but it suffers from a lack of genuine men—guys who will lead with courage and stand in the gap when things get tough. Podcaster and author Jim Ramos has recognized that problem and addressed it in his new book, Dialed In . As a man longing to experience your full God-given potential, Jim's lessons from Paul's letters to Timothy and Titus co...