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Welcome to Family in Focus with Wendy Schofer, MD! Episode 14: The Structure You Need Our children thrive with structure - being able to anticipate, trust and have certainty. Today we talk about creating the structure your family needs for meals. My Go SLOW process for creating healthy habits for the whole family: get a copy at www.wendyschofermd.com

Episode 13: One Breath - it's the start of everything: Life A new habit Taking one purposeful breath has power to shift to the calm that is now. Listen to find out more. My Go SLOW process for creating healthy habits for the whole family: get a copy at www.wendyschofermd.com We will be breaking down the process in new editions over the coming weeks. Also go to www.wendyschofermd.com/FIF-signup to...

Any plan for healthy habits needs to include scheduling regular sleep, no matter your current or goal weight. Not as an after-thought, or something to catch whenever we can. But an active carving out of time to prioritize sleep. Your child's focus, performance, mood, metabolism, resilience and appetite will thank you. Join me at www.wendyschofermd.com to join Family in Focus and create a plan for...

If we can choose our feelings (by the way, we can!), I choose fun. I value FUN so much in my life that I'm actively looking for it: at work (go figure a pediatrician values fun!), as well as at home in my relationships and lifestyle. You can use it too. Decide to find the fun. Check out this file for the Feelings Wheel and Values and explore which feelings and values are driving you to take action...

What I learned from the Okinawans - and had to unlearn to use it   Hara Hachi Bu - "Eat until you're 80% full."   Great to practice and understand when have I had enough.   As parents, we first need to see what's getting in the way of being able to ask our kids, and accept their answers.   Letting go of beliefs around meals, food rules - and then letting the kids have an opportunity to become awar...

The Coaching Model, as conceptualized by Brooke Castillo of The Life Coach School, is a universal tool to understand how we create the results in our lives (the ones we don't want, and the ones we actually want). In this episode, we discuss the 5 parts, and use examples from at home to illustrate its use. We also discuss which parts of the Model every human gets to choose - and how choosing what y...

I'm practicing -- "I am not perfect, I do not need to be perfect, I am amazing BECAUSE of my mistakes and imperfections." Yeah, it's an ongoing practice. Like today, not editing. Just taking my unedited podcast and going real with you. It's a work in progress. As a physician, I thought that I needed to get it all right, not make mistakes - and I buried myself in shame when I did. I'm still learnin...

We live in a culture of snacks - grab and go food everywhere. Why do we look for snacks, and when do we need them? How do we teach our children about snacks, and hunger versus other searches for food? Find more on  www.wendyschofermd.com , including my program for parents worried about family overweight, starting now! Please subscribe and rate the podcast so others can find it!

When we focus on one aspect, a struggle, a challenge, we can put on blinders - concentrating so much on "fixing the problem" that we create more issues along the way.   This is why I work to keep the Family in Focus - understanding the habits that have gotten us here - and engaging the whole family in the new habits that we want going forward. And as the leader of the family, the parent has the ke...

Episode #5: The Truth about Motivation What is the energy that you are using to motivate yourself and your family? Is it from a perspective of pushing (the drill sargeant), or from a place of leaning into what you want? We discuss the difference, how to tap into the positive emotions that drive you forward to make change, and creative brainstorming. Join the Summer Accelerator Group Coaching Progr...

3 Steps to Refocus your Family Health Transformation 1) Actively look for & take inventory of success What IS working What does success mean for you? What is a step in the right direction?   2) What works in those steps? What MADE it successful What made it EASY?   3) Build upon successes to create even more healthy habits Link desired habits together You don't have to start from scratch   Che...

Food Rules are everywhere. What do we choose to follow, what do we ignore, and when do we flex? And an introduction to my son... has he joined the Dark Side?   Find more on www.wendyschofermd.com, including my free Mini Course, "Lead Your Family to Healthier Habits" at www.wendyschofermd.com/mini   Please subscribe and rate the podcast so others can find it!

In this episode of Family in Focus, we will talk about how weight, overweight, obesity - they are measurements, diagnoses - but the real meaning is what we, as parents, make of it.   Where do we have choices in this journey? It starts with what we choose to let weight mean about us, about our children, our family.   Dive in! You can join me at www.wendyschofermd.com . Drop a message about your com...

Welcome to Family in Focus, the podcast, with Dr Wendy Schofer. I empower parents of overweight children to build healthier families. www.wendyschofermd.com Check out the free Mini-Course at www.wendyschofermd.com/mini . And our free community for parents at www.facebook.com/groups/familyinfocus   The information contained in Family in Focus, the podcast; as well as at www.wendyschofermd.com and t...