Family Disappeared

Have you ever yearned for a connection that seemed perpetually out of reach? Ceyhun's raw narrative in our latest episode takes you deep into the heart of such a longing, where the shadows of parental alienation within an intact family contour adult identities and relationships. He bravely exposes the emotional toll of striving for a father's validation, an endeavor that has left profoun...

Have you ever felt caught in the middle of your parent's silent wars, loving them both yet torn by their underlying discord? I'm Lawrence Joss, and in this poignant conversation, we explore the complex world of parental alienation within intact families. Joined by Ceyhun from Turkey, we offer a cross-cultural perspective on family estrangement, and the silent battles that shape our inter...

Have you ever reached for pen and paper, hoping to mend bridges with heartfelt words, only to find yourself at a loss? Dr. Josh Coleman joins us to explore the cathartic journey of writing an Amends letter, a voyage that might begin with you, but has the power to heal entire family systems. In a conversation that's as raw as it is insightful, we tackle the nuances of apologies and the persona...

Embarking on a journey of reconciliation can be as daunting as it is necessary, especially when the estrangement lies within the delicate fibers of family. I, Lawrence Joss, alongside the insightful Dr. Josh Coleman, delve into the often-unspoken paths of familial healing, and the profound act of writing amends letters. Navigating the complexities of estrangement and alienation, Dr. Coleman and I...

 This season on Family Disappeared podcast, I, Lawrence Joss, alongside my new co host Geo, welcome you back for a deeply personal exploration of family dysfunction, and the transformative power of healing. With the added perspectives of experts like Josh Coleman, Karen Woodall, and Amy Baker, we're widening the lens to include the BIPOC and LGBTQ communities' narratives, ensuring no voi...

As the frosty air ushers in a season of merriment, our latest podcast episode wraps you in a blanket of heartwarming tales and transformative discussions. Joined by the remarkable Renee, along with Anna and Geo, we traverse through the complexities of the holiday season, touching on the joyous, the challenging, and everything in between. Imagine finding new delight in the festive traditions of nor...

As we step into the holiday season, dealing with family disappearances and parental alienation can feel like navigating an emotional minefield. Imagine unraveling the complexity of such experiences while striving to reclaim the joy of the festive season. Sounds challenging, doesn't it? In our latest episode, we make space for this difficult conversation. Joined by our brave panel of guests wh...

Can you imagine the profound impact of family systems on children, particularly during instances of divorce and parental alienation? In a raw and insightful conversation, we explore this topic with our guest, Darryl, who was once an alienated child, and is now a father himself. Together, we dissect the role of codependency, the lack of boundaries, and the culture of people-pleasing within the fami...

Have you ever wondered how the unseen dynamics of parental alienation can profoundly shape our relationships and lives? This episode is a journey into the complex world of alienation and it's impact on families. Our guest, Darryl, an adult who has lived through alienation as a child and now as a parent, opens up about his experience. His story, filled with raw emotion, brings to light the dee...

As families gather this holiday season, the empty seat at the table can be a painful reminder for parents alienated from their children. But what if there are ways to handle these gut-wrenching moments, and ultimately, find paths to healing and reconnection? Tune in as we share our raw experiences, and the coping mechanisms we've discovered. In this deeply emotional episode, we tear open the...

Navigating the holiday season after experiencing family separation or alienation can feel like walking on a tightrope. But remember, you're not alone. Listen in as Lawrence,  along with a panel of parents, discuss their personal journeys of recovery, and share strategies for maintaining the joy of the holidays amidst the pain of alienation. Hear about favorite holiday memories, from scavenger...

When navigating the labyrinth that is the family court system, where does one turn for guidance and support? Enter Larry DeMarco, the founder of the Law Center and the Family Court custody bootcamp, an expert who knows the "ins" and "outs" of this intricate system. In this candid conversation, Larry generously imparts his knowledge, offering invaluable insights into the complex...

Have you ever felt like a small boat lost in the stormy sea of the family court system? I know I have, and you're not alone. I sat down with Larry DeMarco, founder of the Law Center and creator of the Family Court Custody Bootcamp, to unravel the complexities of this daunting process. A warrior who battled his way through the system, Larry shares his personal journey, and how it inspired him...

Every parent's journey is unique. Add in the complexity of dealing with parental alienation, estrangement, or disconnection, and you've got a recipe for a whirlwind of emotions. In our latest episode, we navigate these turbulent waters with our returning guests, Geo and Betsy. The conversation explores the fear and discomfort about bringing such a sensitive topic to light, especially und...

Have you ever felt the soul-crushing pain of estrangement from your children due to parental alienation? We invite you to join us on a journey of healing, resilience, and personal growth through the heart-rending narratives of our brave guests, Betsy and Geo. As they unload their decade-long battles with parental alienation and estrangement, these warriors sketch a poignant picture of the harsh re...

How often have you walked the 'high road', believing it to be the road to success, only to find it's not always the best route when engaging with the complexities of parental alienation? Join me, Lawrence Joss, as we dismantle this concept and explore the profound impact it can have, not just on us, but our children as well. We'll dig into my personal journey, discussing the in...

Ready to arm yourself with the tools to battle parental alienation in a custody battle? Join us as we sit down with the highly esteemed Dr. Lynn Steinberg who shares her knowledge on the matter. From navigating the tumultuous terrain of the court system to getting emotionally and spiritually resourced, Dr. Steinberg’s insights are invaluable for anyone dealing with this issue.  We delve into the c...

Navigating the court system can be a daunting expedition.  In this episode, we're joined by Dr. Lynn Steinberg, a seasoned author, advocate, and psychologist, who's also served as an expert witness. We discuss navigating the courtroom, self-representation challenges, and the importance of taking control of your legal journey. She shares practical advice on court preparation and choosing...

“We try to be the best version of ourselves we can be, but it takes time, and it takes work.” ~ Lawrence Joss Many people often make the mistake of thinking it is the job of other people to fill the voids and mend the broken pieces within us. However, WE are the only ones who can do the inner work to better ourselves. While we need the right tools, and the guidance of the right community, it all c...

"You don't put up boundaries. You have boundaries. You put up walls." ~ Lawrence Joss Host Lawrence Joss has invited a panel of parents who have 'been there before' to share the benefits of their hindsight.   Today's episode unpacks some of the common mistakes parents make when trying to reconnect with their loved ones. The beauty of this episode is that if you are de...

Have you ever witnessed a child who is 'inundated', feels overwhelmed, and doesn't know how to respond to a situation? Wherever we may find ourselves within the family system – as a child, parent, grandparent, or partner – feeling dysregulated or ‘triggered’ by our loved ones can cause us to say and do things we may later regret.  Dr. Mandy Cisler is an expert on mind/body integrati...

Have you ever experienced the feeling of dysregulation – and lashed out at a child or loved one because you were in a highly emotive state? Dr. Mandy Cisler is a somatic therapist, coach, and founder of the ‘Healing Framework’.  She is an expert on a mind/body integration approach that supports you in regulating your nervous system. In this episode of “Family Disappeared”, she will share the tools...

 "I feel really safe in the PA-A community. And that's allowed me to heal." ~ Alienated  Mom "How can I create deep and meaningful, loving, reciprocal relationships in my life?" ~ Alienated Dad 'Alienated Mom' and 'Alienated Dad' are in conversation with Lawrence Joss in this, the second part, of a thoughtful interview that sheds light on the subject of...

What does it look like to recognize that you suffer from parental alienation? What can you do about it? Where can you turn to for support?  Meet 'Alienated Mom' and 'Alienated Dad,' whose identities are protected in this episode for the sake of anonymity. The two are in conversation with Lawrence Joss, sharing parental alienation, and the joy of discovering Parental Alienation...

"I wanted everyone to change. I just wanted them to do the right thing. I thought that if they just did the right thing, I'd be OK. That the pain, the desperation, the confusion... that all that stuff would just go away." ~ Lawrence Joss  Are you disconnected, alienated, estranged, or possibly erased from your children – or even your grandchildren? Are you disconnected from other fa...