EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

answering YOUR questions on today's episode! a parent requested for me to share about the services that are provided through my private practice. and since this is often a common question, I decided to dedicate a Q+A episode to it! I dive into my concierge model, explain how pricing works, and describe the high level of care your child (and your family given The Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ) would rece...

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 today is a first on the podcast! Dr. Tay engages in a candid conversation with Sam Marion, a late-identified autistic adult and licensed clinical social worker, who shares his personal experiences and perspectives on autism. they discuss the phenomenon of masking, the importance of understanding sensory experiences, and his personal journey of underst...

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses the evolving field of telehealth evaluations in autism diagnosis. she provides insights from her clinical experience and explores how this method was accelerated due to the COVID-19 pandemic. she addresses the validity and reliability of telehealth evaluations as well as benefits and potential limitations. RESOURCES ⚡️ Dr. Tay currently conducts telehealth...

answering YOUR questions on today's episode! Q: my child is 13 months old and has developmental delays. I'm concerned about autism. how do I know if it's autism or a developmental delay? my pediatrician says they won't start screening for autism until 18 months of age. A: Dr. Tay unpacks the American Academy of Pediatrics guidelines for autism screening and breaks down the science to address this...

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 this is part two of my family's story. on this episode, I invited my mom, Letty, onto the podcast to share her perspective and reflect on what it was like listening to episode 16 | "I see you" - my story and introduction to autism, and why I chose my career path. she provides a raw and vulnerable account of my brother's early diagnosis, therapy, and b...

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay explores the delicate balance between evidence-based practices and more intuitive, alternative approaches, often dubbed as "woo woo." this episode emphasizes the importance of an open-minded approach to therapy that considers the unique needs and responses of each individual. we also discuss the potential conflict that sometimes arises between neurodivergent-affirming...

answering YOUR questions on today's episode! we had a little bit of a different format inspired by my weekly AMA (ask me anything) on Instagram. we chatted through one family's current circumstances regarding parental acceptance and therapy decision-making. we explore the intricacies of this emotional journey, with tips on how to support each other through this process and acknowledge the importan...

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 In this podcast episode, Dr. Tay and Dr. Abbie Jones of Blame Dr. Abbie discuss the intricate workings of the brain in relation to autism. Dr. Abbie provides insight into the three umbrellas of executive functioning: working memory, cognitive flexibility, and inhibitory control. the conversation also covers practical challenges with executive function...

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay shares two critical components your child needs to effectively benefit from intervention - regulation and engagement. we review different forms of dysregulation and discuss the importance of engagement for learning. practical tips and personal anecdotes from Dr. Tay's work as a child psychologist are shared. RESOURCES ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to particip...

answering YOUR questions on today's episode! Q: how do I know if my child is nonverbal? what's the definition of nonverbal? A: Dr. Tay explores the complex topic of language development in autistic children. we discuss the terminology of nonverbal vs. nonspeaking as well as the potential negative impacts of labeling a child too early. emphasis is placed on celebrating every attempt your child make...

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 in this episode, Dr. Tay and guest Allison Cullen ( @youdowoo ), take listeners on an in-depth exploration of Human Design - a unique blend of biochemistry, genetics, chakras, energy (through the role of neutrinos), and personality. the discussion unfolds to reveal how understanding Human Design can transform parenting and family dynamics. Allison exp...

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay explores the theme of fear and vulnerably shares her personal fears - originally around the fear of being seen and now the fear of making mistakes and not having all the answers (aka imperfection). she applies the lessons to your parenting and also details how leaning into fear has progressed her brand / business to serve autism families like yours. RESOURCES ⚡️ join...

answering YOUR questions on today's episode! Q: how can parents better themselves before they support their child or during the process of their child's treatment? A: Dr. Tay shares the importance of dropping resistance and embracing the fact that seeking help for yourself benefits your child's therapy process. we discuss insights on creating space for your feelings, setting realistic expectations...

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 on today's episode, I am joined by developmental behavioral pediatricians Dr. Ayesha Cheema-Hasan and Dr. Angelica Robles of Coralis Health. we are aligned in our missions to provide high- quality care for families with neurodivergent children and to address system-wide issues in accessing autism care. we discuss the importance of advocating for your...

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses the idea that constantly trying to be perfect, to have all the answers, and to "fix" everything can actually be counterproductive to your child's progress. we'll also touch on the importance of being present with your emotions and finding time for stillness in your daily life. RESOURCES ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+A...

answering YOUR questions on today's episode! Q: how do I know when to set a boundary for my autistic child versus accommodating their needs? A: setting boundaries and providing structure is essential for every child, including autistic children. Dr. Tay offers practical examples of proactive accommodations and dives into the difference between those and reactive accommodations. we also discuss the...

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 the short answer: TV did NOT make your child autistic! on this episode, Dr. Tay explores the idea of how TV can be beneficial for autistic children and their families, and how to leverage it in a way that promotes development. we also discuss why TV did not make your child autistic and why we need to stop parent shaming and creating guilt with this mi...

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay shares how services being too focused on the autistic child can leave the family system unattended. we also touch upon the challenges of care coordination due to high caseloads, which can result in confusion and contradictory advice. and lastly, we discuss the problem of long waitlists that delay much-needed support for your child. the episode concludes with Dr. Tay s...

answering YOUR questions on today's episode! Q: do friendships look different for autistic individuals? how do I support them in making friends or recognize if they don't actually want them? A: yes, friendships for autistic individuals can differ due to their interests and understanding of social rules. to support them, help them find common interests with peers, teach social skills without forcin...

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in this mini episode inspired by "The Gap and the Gain" by Dan Sullivan and Dr. Benjamin Hardy, Dr. Tay addresses the struggles of finding joy that can arise as a parent of an autistic child. the key message revolves around shifting one's mindset from focusing on the gap, which is comparing a child's progress to neurotypical standards, to celebrating the child's progress and accomplishments. RESOU...

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay explores the concept of embracing your gut instinct, announces an exciting change to the podcast format, and shares an important message for parents of autistic children on the importance of being present. RESOURCES ⚡️join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️learn from me and ask me questions &...

join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ABA or applied behavior analysis therapy has become a controversial topic in the autism community. as a provider, and after listening to an immense amount of feedback in the field on this subject, I think it's important for you to understand the controversy in order to decide what's best f...

join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism I often see in my work as a child psychologist that parents don't understand what their rights are and what their autistic children should be receiving through the educational system. in this episode, we dive into IDEA, specially designed instruction, IEPs, 504s, and more. we talk specific...

join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism have you been considering an evaluation or are currently going through the diagnosis process? you may wonder if your child has autism or if there is another diagnosis that explains their behaviors. in this episode, I describe the process of "differential diagnosis." this is when profession...