EveryRay Living

How turning 50 can be a new beginning. It can be bittersweet. It’s the Rebirth. It’s a celebration to life & all the years prior lead you/me to this moment.

Im about to enter another milestone B~Day 8/14…50✨🎊🎈 and I wanna talk about how life & experiences prepare you/us for moments like this! Also sharing so much of fun & exciting things leading up to my B~day. What are your takeaways from ppl, places, things, experiences, etc….

Im sharing my collab w/….https://www.melery.co/?ref=RayNicole. Use code RayNicole to get 90%off😊 ppl use “keeping it real” as a Segway to be disrespectful. Know the difference between respectful truth & RUDENESS…lets go for a drive & talk about it✨

Don’t allow miscommunication or no communication drive wedges in your family. The #1 thing that will fracture family relationships/relationships In general, is lack of communication. Find out how I refused to allow the enemy to fracture my relationships…

Sometimes your kids can see you in a specific way & that’s the only way they know to see you, But; that’s not who you really are, you’re more!

Sometimes GOD will assign us to do 1 thing but, our Egos will convince us to do more than we’re suppose to do & doing that, we miss the mark!

Allowing yourself to fit in your right size ( metaphorically speaking) ppl try to fit in something they’ve outgrown. We know those shoes are to little, to tight, to uncomfortable yet, we will sacrifice our comfort, to make others cozy. Stop it🤚🏼 here’s why….

This particular medication assisted in throwing me into Hypertension. I go into detail on why it’s important to be your #1 health advocate. Being in tune with/your body can save your life! Let’s talk about…

Sometimes ppl can make it hard to love them by their actions or lack their of. Most often it’s w/in families. They need & want love, too! Listen until the end so you can when a, “let me love on you basket” w/so many nice things in it!

Are you in a season in your life, it looks & feels different?! You feel lightweight by yourself, you don’t react to ppl, places or things like you use too. Here’s why…

Not being plugged in can keep us “outside” of knowing what’s going on & will make us question our belonging. Staying plugged into God , will always keep up inside…let me tell you how I felt alone & literally Outside today.

Enjoying the holiday when you’re already working at a deficit yet, still finding a way to get further in debt to participate in the festivities of the holidays. You Can! W/ setting boundaries….

I’m underneath those smiling faces, costumes, flashing lights, sentimental words of LOVE…resides a Joker. This isn’t just Diddy,however; this is about him today.

Thinking you’re seeing the real…

Staying in a particular “Season” longer than expected…what God had to reveal to me in my “Season”

Sometimes being comfortable doing the same things, being around the same ppl, taking the route, can cause you/I, to miss what God wants us to see & know…find out what I’m talking about✨…

What goes in our mouths, isn’t nearly as important, than what comes out. Let’s talk about it.

Metaphorically speaking…learning how to take certain things out of your diet…what’s fueling you, draining you, leaving you lethargic?! Let’s talk about😊

Ppl who only want to see you happy or want to have fun, when they’re on the scene. I’m sharing something that opened my eyes to this sad fact…It’s closer than you think.

When life happens someone we wear our emotions, we wear the pain, the uneasiness, fear etc. it’s normal to feel & sometimes look a little off on certain days. Just don’t make it a part of your daily attire.

Using hurts of the past, to allow You/Me, to be the better versions of ourselves. Stop buying other ppl’s problems….

Being excluded, can show the value in YOURSELF & can actually devalue what others thought was so Valuable.

This isn’t just specific to “Daddy issues”, it can be whatever issues that may have affected you. Growing from them is the key!

Oxygen-plays a critical role in respiration. Metaphorically speaking, make sure you’re around ppl that are helping your levels go up… I’ll tell you why…

Resetting my mind on people, places & things!