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Kendra and Rich share the ways in which they support each other and the importance of having a strong support system when the emotional weight of engaging in persistent discourse on trauma is at its heaviest. - If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach...

This guest has asked that they remain anonymous. We refer to her as "Lily" throughout the episode.  While in college in the Midwest, Lily began a long distance relationship with a musician from her home state on the East Coast. Upon returning home early due to the pandemic, relationship red flags became more noticeable and resulted in sexual assault. Lily describes the details leading up...

Rich and Kendra discuss what happens when a survivor of sexual assault or abuse by a musician comes forward. They explain the repercussions of speaking out, the impact when other artists remain silent or align themselves with abusers, and the massive influence that music fans can have as a driving force for change in today's culture. - If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone...

Kristina found salvation in the punk community as an escape from her home life. But when she finally met her idol, the singer of a political punk band that helped shape her values, instead of treating her like part of the community, he raped her. Kristina describes the details of that night, how it changed the trajectory of her life and how she interacts with music. Kristina Sarhadi is a therapist...

On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss the results of actor Danny Masterson's recent court retrial in which he was found guilty of 2 of 3 counts of rape. They consider the role that the Church of Scientology played in Masterson's defense, how Hollywood reacted to the initial accusations, and how this ruling could set a precedent for similar celebrity rape cases.  - REFERENCES:...

Grand Rapids, Michigan musicians Bek Graham and Bridget Nicole Rose join us to discuss A.M.P.T. - or A.rtists & M.usicians P.rogressing T.ogether - a collaborative group and zine. We learn the process of how it all came together and the ways a zine about abuse in the music scene can be an asset to communities far beyond their own. In their words: a.rtists & m.usicians p.rogressing t.ogethe...

On this episode of Subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss a recent YouTube video entitled Trauma is Trauma: A Mental Health Talk with Kevin Smith and follow up on a promise from a prior episode, #30, by discussing helpful books which address trauma, consent, improving yourself and the spaces around you, and more. Trauma is Trauma: A Mental Health Talk with Kevin Smith | PEOPLE: https://www.youtube.com/w...

Kaija, a Seattle-based photographer and musician, shares her history of abuse stemming from a photography teacher who was 20 years her senior. He used his local notoriety and position of power to groom, gaslight, and manipulate her over the course of several years. Kaija also speaks to the work she’s done to address her trauma and rebuild her confidence. If you have been on the receiving end of ha...

On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich define and outline different forms of online harassment, their emotional and mental repercussions, and explain how they can affect victims/survivors of abuse. If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to u...

Jason Garcia joins us to speak about the Minneapolis music community's uprising against abuse, along with the pushback that they have received from using their privilege to speak out on behalf of victims/survivors. Jason Garcia (they/them) lives and works in Minneapolis, Minnesota. They work for a nonprofit that aims to increase food sovereignty for Indigenous people and help make traditional...

On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich dive into Marilyn Manson's long history of shocking and repulsive behavior and discuss the dangers when carefully crafted personas are used as scapegoats. - REFERENCES: Marilyn Manson Sued for Sexual Assault of a Minor ( Rolling Stone ) Marilyn Manson faces more sex abuse allegations ( The Guardian ) He “Horrifically Abused Me for Years”: Evan Rachel...

Shawna Potter, front-person of the hardcore-punk band War on Women, and author of Making Spaces Safer: A Guide to Giving Harassment the Boot Wherever You Work, Play, and Gather joins us. We discuss changes in the dynamics of the music scene, the basics of making spaces safer for the masses, and the importance of creating educational guides for the community.  —  Visit Shawna’s website: https://sha...

On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss the recent lawsuit alleging sexual assault of a minor against Steven Tyler. Plus,  the history of rock stars getting a pass for committing statutory rape. - REFERENCES: Steven Tyler Confessed to ‘Crimes of Passion’ With a 16-Year-Old in His Own Memoir ( Vice ) Steven Tyler, Axl Rose and 'lots and lots of others': Rock stars and the abuse...

On this episode of Subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss different types of therapy, with an emphasis on EMDR and the benefits that Kendra has gotten from it. If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to us at: thisisenoughpodcast@gmail.com Visit ou...

The clock is ticking on the music industry’s need for its #metoo day of reckoning. Kendra and Rich discuss what must happen for us to get there.  If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to us at: thisisenoughpodcast@gmail.com   Visit our...

Hip Hop Artist and author Psalm One joins us to discuss her experiences with Rhymesayers, a popular Minneapolis record label. Her courage in coming forward helped others share similar stories of abuse and mistreatment. This resulted in members of the community speaking out against the label with the Boycott Rhymesayers movement. We also discuss how these challenges led to the writing of her book,...

In this episode of subtext, we discuss a man who has been dominating the 24 hr news cycle for the last month, Kanye West. While his anti-semetic comments have halted his career, we dive into his problematic and abusive behaviors towards women, specifically his stalking of ex wife Kim Kardashian.  A quick note about the timing of this episode:  After several months of planning a subtext episode wit...

Danny Wolf talks about the childhood sexual trauma he experienced at the hands of a family member and how that affected his relationships later in life. He also shares a song he wrote about that abusive event.   Danny Wolf, a musician who currently plays in Danny Russel Wolf, The Haunted Hallows, The Getaways, and The New Bodies. Previously, he was in Small Towns Burn A Little Slower and Wrestling...

In this episode of subtext, our information driven subset, we define and discuss the statute of limitations as it relates to rape and assault. We break down the statues in different states and discuss the need for lengthening term limits. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@enoughpodcast If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audi...

Educator, activist, and creator Laura Danger joins us to discuss meeting people through the social media platforms of the early aughts, how age differences and power dynamics are intrinsically tied, and how being able to trust those around us is essential to strengthening our communities. Get to know Laura and learn more about Fair Play and the workshops and coaching she’s doing at her website: ht...

Hosts Kendra and Rich discuss all angles of what could happen when an artist is accused of misconduct from the fan's point of view. They also discuss their personal viewpoints on separating the art from the artist. If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please re...

On this edition of Subtext, our information-driven subset, Kendra and Rich define and discuss consent, how it was taught to them growing up, and how the term has changed over the years. They also discuss FRIES, the acronym created by Planned Parenthood that’s commonly used as a reference in sexual education. If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, aud...

We believe in change and accountability over canceling someone. With that in mind, we both share a past personal story in which we responded inappropriately when confronted with the abuse of someone we know. If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out...

Jess joins us to discuss a past relationship in which she faced abuse that manifested in gaslighting, love bombing, bullying, and other forms of psychological abuse. If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to us at: thisisenoughpodcast@gmail.com V...

On this episode of Subtext, our information-driven subset, we break down the hard data on rape using analogies our show-going listeners can relate to. We also discuss the myths surrounding false reporting. If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out t...