Ellis Ever After

Genuwine made feeling anxious sound sexy, but in reality, anxiety is an uncomfortable and debilitating experience. Ain't nothing sexy about it. In this episode, the Ellises talk about how they deal with their own anxiety, so they can feel "so anxious" only in the way the song said. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Rihanna's British Vogue cover had the internet goin' nuts! But is it really emasculating for a man to be in the background while the woman in his life takes her moment in the forefront? In this episode, the Ellises talk about empowerment vs. emasculation. Dead Ass.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

99% of arguments have nothing to do with facts. That's because when emotions are high, nobody is listening. In this episode, Khadeen & Devale talk about miscommunication and how to do better. Dead Ass.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After having 4 whole boys, Khadeen is done having babies. For real this time. Now what? Devale asks Khadeen what's next, since another baby ain't it! Dead ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In our society, most of us have to work to live. But sometimes working too hard, too much can literally kill you. In this episode, Khadeen & Devale talk about their close call with burnout. Dead Ass.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When your kids play sports, you can't help but put your two cents in from the sidelines. But should you really play parent and coach at the same time? In this episode, the Ellises talk about it. Dead Ass.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

All the women who independent throw your hands up at me! But not too hard or else your independence may be mistaken for masculinity. Where do we draw the line? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about the difference between masculinity and insecurity. Dead ass!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every couple experiences making difficult decisions together. And we're not just talking about what to have for dinner. In this episode, the Ellises discuss one hard choice they had to make early in their relationship, that changed the course of their lives. Dead Ass.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's the most wonderful time of the year! Especially according to the Christmas crazed Khadeen. Ever wonder why she puts up 6 trees and countless decorations during the holiday season? In this episode, Devale gets all the answers. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every friend group has that one super shady friend that will hype you up to do some damage and the one that's gonna talk you into making a better choice. You need both the reasonable and the shady friend in your life. In this episode, the Ellises give the Reasonably Shady duo Gizelle Bryant and Robyn Dixon (Real Housewives of Potomac) a chance to share their advice to your problems with their answ...

We wrote a book, y'all! We Over Me: The Counterintuitive Approach to Getting Everything You Want From Your Relationship is more than just a relationship or self-help book though. It's a love letter to our past selves and a commitment to our future. In this episode, we're giving you the tea on what made us write a book and what it gave to us in the process. Dead Ass.  See omnystudio.com/listener fo...

Sometimes, to save a relationship, you gotta learn how to let some things go. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk losing the battle to win the war. How to let things go to keep the peace. Dead Ass.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

IYKYK! The Ellises have spoken: 4 whole boys is plenty! And to solidify their word, Devale went the extra step to make it permanent. In this episode, the Ellises share the intimate details of Devale's vasectomy journey. Dead Ass.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Straight Shot, No Chaser with Tezlyn Figaro (@tezlynfigaro) examines controversial and thought-provoking topics with diverse guests to discuss politics, social consciousness, and culture. Through weekly conversations, Tezlyn invites guests to share their views and experiences, raw and unfiltered, to educate, uplift, and provide honest insight into the issues facing the Black community in America....

What would you do to make sure your child gets the medical care they need. That is a question on many parents minds as emergency wait times in Children's Hospitals across the country are at an all time high. In this episode, the Ellises discuss their experience in an Atlanta-area Children's Hospital, that was a microcosm of the greater crisis happening right now within the American healthcare syst...

A legacy isn’t just something you leave behind, it’s something you carry on. Our DNA holds the stories of that legacy and in this episode, the Ellises unlock some of those stories with their report from 23andMe. Dead ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sometimes the bad places we find ourselves in, are solely because of the bad choices we make. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk choices, mistakes and consequences. Dead ass.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Everyone's experiences are different. And our experiences help create the ways we respond to things. You can either accept another person's perspective or reject it, but you can't change it. Dead Ass.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Social media can be a cruel place for adults putting their lives in front of the world to scrutinize. So imagine how crushing it can be for kids just finding their self-worth. The Ellises talk about their resistance to letting their kids have their own social media. Dead ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you know who you are and how special you are, words that don’t affirm your existence won’t sting as much. That is what Devale thinks makes kids (and adults) pretty much impervious to bullying. Do you agree? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The second stop on the Dead Ass podcast tour was Philadelphia, and the crowd was lit! Get in on the action you missed in Philly. The Ellises play more games with audience guests and answer more live listener letters.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Ellises were live at the Howard Theatre in DC giving top tier advice.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Dead Ass live tour kicked off in New York City and a time was had. The Ellises share some New York nostalgia, meet more couples, and answer more listener questions live! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Khadeen and Devale are LIVE at The Buckhead Theatre in Atlanta, GA. The Ellises shared a night of love and laughter in ATL. Surprise guests Regina Hall and Sterling K. Brown stopped by to talk about their new movie Honk For Jesus. Save Your Soul. And the star of the new Sistas spinoff, Zatima, Crystal Renee Hayslett came through and blessed the stage with her soulful voice.  See omnystudio.com/lis...

It's time for our favorite part of the show...For the whole show! In this episode, Khadeen and Devale read your listener letters and give their best advice. Dead Ass.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.