Dysregulated Kids: Science-Backed Parenting Help for Behavior, Anxiety, ADHD and More

After 30 years of helping families, Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge shares what real nervous system regulation looks like—more flexibility, faster recovery, confidence, and connection. As a Regulation First Parenting™ expert, she helps parents understand and support emotional dysregulation in children. Parents often hope regulation means fewer meltdowns, less arguing, and a child who never struggles. Bu...

Picky eating can leave parents worried, frustrated, and stuck. The Mistakes That Make Picky Eating Worse explores what may be keeping the cycle going and how to help. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge brings her expertise in Regulation First Parenting™ and childhood emotional dysregulation. If picky eating has become a daily battle, you may feel worried, frustrated, or stuck. Understanding the mistakes th...

When danger unfolds, why didn’t someone step in? This episode explores why kids may freeze, follow the crowd, or stay silent—and how parents can prepare them to respond. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge uses Regulation First Parenting™ to help families understand emotional dysregulation and build practical skills. When your child is faced with a dangerous situation, would they know what to do—or freeze b...

When your child’s behavior pushes your buttons, it can be hard to stay calm. Why Your Child’s Behavior Triggers You So Much And How to Stop Reacting explores the nervous system behind reactivity, with Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge’s Regulation First Parenting™ expertise. Have you ever snapped at your child and immediately wondered, “Why did that upset me so much?” Their behavior may be activating your...

For parents navigating emotional dysregulation, The Dysregulated Kid offers a simpler way forward: more self-compassion, curiosity, and small moments of change. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge brings her expertise in Regulation First Parenting™ to help families create lasting change. If you’re parenting a dysregulated child, you may be carrying guilt, frustration, and the feeling that you should be doin...

When stress takes over, knowing what to do first can make all the difference. Learning how to reset to regulate helps parents pause, create capacity, and respond with intention. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, an expert in Regulation First Parenting™ and childhood emotional dysregulation, makes regulation practical. When your child is overwhelmed, it can feel like you need to fix everything right now ....

When stress takes over, your body needs regulation—not more pressure. Learn simple ways to reset your nervous system through breath, pressure, and movement with Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, an expert in Regulation First Parenting™ and emotional dysregulation in children. When stress takes over, it can feel like your body is running the show. You may know you need to calm down, but you don’t know whe...

When big emotions take over, knowing what to do can feel overwhelming. Understanding how to help your child regulate big emotions with the LOVE Pause® highlights how small moments of regulation can change what happens next. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge brings 30 years of expertise in Regulation First Parenting™ and childhood emotional dysregulation. When your child’s emotions explode, it can feel lik...

Inside The Dysregulated Kid starts with a powerful shift: stop blaming yourself or your child and look beneath the behavior. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, an expert in Regulation First Parenting™ and childhood emotional dysregulation, helps parents find a calmer path forward. If you’ve ever wondered, “What am I missing? Why isn’t anything working?” you’re not alone. Parenting a dysregulated child can...

When your child melts down, the first few minutes matter. Learn what to do in the first 5 minutes of a meltdown to reduce escalation and support regulation. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, an expert in Regulation First Parenting™ and emotional dysregulation, shows parents what to do. When your child is screaming, arguing, throwing things, or shutting down, it can feel impossible to know what to do. You...

When you’ve tried everything to help your child regulate, you may wonder what you’re missing. The real reason why I wrote The Dysregulated Kid and who it’s really for reveals a different path forward, guided by Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge’s expertise in Regulation First Parenting™ and emotional dysregulation in children. When you’ve tried therapy, school supports, behavior charts, diets, books, and...

Before calling your child defiant, pause and look deeper. These 5 questions to ask before you call it defiance can reveal whether behavior is driven by dysregulation. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge teaches Regulation First Parenting™ to help families understand and regulate the brain. Your child refuses homework, melts down during transitions, or suddenly explodes—and you’re left wondering, “Are they b...

When teachers and family misread your child's behavior, parents may question their instincts when others don’t see the struggle. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge helps parents understand emotional dysregulation through Regulation First Parenting™ and calm the brain first. When your child seems fine at school but falls apart at home, it’s easy to wonder, Am I doing something wrong? You’re not alone. When...

When your child’s behavior feels overwhelming, it may be communicating more than defiance. The reason why behavior is the signal, not the problem, explains what’s beneath big reactions and how regulation changes everything. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge is an expert in Regulation First Parenting™ and childhood dysregulation. When your child melts down, argues, or refuses, it’s easy to focus on stoppin...

Is Something in Your Home Quietly Affecting Your Family's Nervous System? Hidden everyday habits may be adding stress to your child's brain without you realizing it. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge shares practical, science-backed strategies through her Regulation First Parenting™ approach to help families reduce emotional dysregulation and build calmer, more resilient nervous systems. Many parents focu...

Wondering if your child's struggles are ADHD, Anxiety, or Dysregulation? The answer may be deeper than a diagnosis. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge explains how Regulation First Parenting™ helps parents understand emotional dysregulation and support lasting calm by addressing the nervous system first. Parents often ask, "Is it ADHD? Anxiety? Or something else?" If you've been caught in an endless cycle...

If you've ever wondered why dysregulated kids need calm authority , the answer starts with the parent who leads instead of reacts. In this episode, Dr. Roseann shares a powerful lesson from her mother and explains how Regulation First Parenting™ helps families build emotional safety, resilience, and lasting regulation. If you've ever felt like you have to be louder, stricter, or more forceful to g...

When life feels overwhelming, a 10-Minute Reset for Meltdowns, Stress, and Big Reactions can help calm your nervous system and transform how you respond to your child. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, creator of Regulation First Parenting™, shares practical, brain-based strategies to help families reduce emotional dysregulation and build lasting resilience. If you're constantly putting out fires, you're...

If you've wondered why moms feel more anxious, overwhelmed, and reactive after 40 , you're not alone. Hormonal changes can affect your brain, stress response, and parenting in surprising ways. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge shares how Regulation First Parenting™ helps families navigate emotional dysregulation with confidence and calm. Parenting is already demanding, but when perimenopause enters the pi...

If you've been wondering, how can I be less emotionally reactive? , the answer starts with understanding what your child's behavior is really communicating. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, creator of Regulation First Parenting™, explains how calming the nervous system creates lasting change for the whole family. Parenting a dysregulated child can leave you feeling like you're constantly putting out fir...

If you've been wondering why does nothing I try actually work and what to do instead , you're not alone. Learn why calming the nervous system—not trying harder—is the key to lasting change with Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, creator of Regulation First Parenting™ and a leading expert in childhood emotional dysregulation. Parenting a dysregulated child can leave you questioning everything. You're tryin...

If you've been asking yourself, why does my child melt down over everything , you're not alone. Learn why emotional outbursts are often signs of nervous system overload—not bad behavior. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge shares her Regulation First Parenting™ approach to help families create lasting calm and connection. Every parent has experienced it—that moment when asking your child to put on a shirt,...

When you realize your child isn’t giving you a hard time—they’re having a hard time , everything about your response begins to change. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, creator of Regulation First Parenting™, helps families understand emotional dysregulation so they can calm the brain first, strengthen connection, and create lasting change. You're not imagining it—when your child screams, refuses, or las...

Parents often correct behavior before calming the brain—and that's why it backfires. Discover the parenting order that works and learn how small changes in timing can reduce power struggles and build cooperation. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, creator of Regulation First Parenting™, helps families understand emotional dysregulation so lasting change can begin. If every request seems to turn into an ar...

If you've ever wondered why you lose it faster when you're already overloaded , the answer may lie in your nervous system—not your parenting. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, founder of Regulation First Parenting™, helps families calm emotional dysregulation so lasting change can begin. Ever wonder why a tiny comment from your child suddenly pushes you over the edge? Why you lose it faster when you're a...