Dying Alone, Together

Omicron got us gals. JJ and Jack start off by recapping their recent quarantines before heading to Tinder to decide how many cats is a dealbreaker. The guest this week is LGBTQ+ musician Vegas Valentine ( www.instagram.com/vegasvalentinemusic ) who plays Good Giving and Game. Finally JJ picks a fight with his commute while Jack gives love and light to his audience. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dy...

Your children are sending disappearing photos to Jack on Instagram that he will NEVER open for fear of having to introduce himself to his neighbors for the rest of his life, while JJ has a reverse-teachable moment with an 18-year-old on Scruff. Instead of swiping, in segment two Jack presents his current roster of suitors to JJ for inspection, and afterwards Marcus "Zebra" Smith ( www.instagram.co...

Jack's got two stories of communication fails this week and reveals that he'd spend more time on revenge if he only had the bandwidth. The boys swipe couples, travelers and robots on Grindr and are then joined by LGBTQ+ musician Dan Kiernan ( www.instagram.com/dankiernanmusic ) to figure out his dealbreakers. Jack picks a fight with people who won't stay out of his business and JJ leaves love and...

JJ wants to talk about the joys of premature ejaculation, and Jack gets interrupted by some Sunday morning sexts. The app of the day is Tinder and a discussion of body image arises. Today’s guest is stand-up and writer Brittany Carney ( www.instagram.com/james_earlbones ) who plays a game of best/worst with the boys. Finally, JJ leaves love and light to nerd-dom and Jack picks a fight with his for...

Jack’s matchmaking endeavors take a hard right into the center lane with a man who wanted to make sure he wasn’t a “crazy liberal.” Yikes. After the catchup, JJ pulls the boys into a successful round of OKCupid swiping where Jack reveals he has a thing for men wearing glasses during oral sex. Today’s guest is a fan favorite from Jack’s successful web series History—Will Cohen ( www.instagram.com/o...

It's a new year and JJ blew a tire...his special tire (love tire?). Join us for a discussion of sex injuries, an exploration of the apps and dealbreakers with the legendary DJ Chauncey Dandridge ( www.instagram.com/djchaunceyd ). Jack closes by leaving love and light to his dancers, and JJ shouts out his new apartment. Brought to you exclusively by Aaron Carre Skincare. www.aaroncarre.com . Use co...

Nothing but the hits babyyyyyy....we're off for 2 weeks so here's a collection of our favorite segments. Minivans, games and our favorite soundbites. See you next year! Brought to you exclusively by Aaron Carre Skincare. www.aaroncarre.com . Use code PODCAST at checkout for 25% off. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give...

Nothing but the hits babyyyyyy....we're off for 2 weeks so here's a collection of our favorite segments. Minivans, games and our favorite soundbites. See you next year! Brought to you exclusively by Aaron Carre Skincare. www.aaroncarre.com. Use code PODCAST at checkout for 25% off. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give...

Clean holes, full hearts, can't lose! This week the podcast starts with a discussion of "freshness" and answer the important question "who is Brian?" After the break, the boys take a mustache journey on Grindr. Fellow creative Kodi Maurice Doggette joins to talk about dating Jack, and his decision to stop dating Jack--which Jack gets to hear for the first time! Eeeeeeeeek! Finally, JJ picks a figh...

Jack has stories from his matchmaking endeavors, and JJ is eager to hear them in segment one. After the break, the boys explore Scruff's new Thirst Trap feature, before Matthew Blum joins to play Good, GIving and Game. JJ then leaves love and light to Butt Magazine, and Jack praises his matchmaker. Brought to you exclusively by Aaron Carre Skincare. www.aaroncarre.com Follow Matthew: https://www.i...

Jack and JJ’s VCRs are dusty AF so they start this week’s episode with their individual poppers journeys. In segment two, the boys swipe Hinge and disqualify potential matches based on poor tattoo, hair and instagram choices. They are then joined by lawyer/rocker Joshua Freda to hear about his career change and how he handled a mental health crisis during the pandemic. Finally, JJ leaves love and...

Daddy (Jack) made a new song...and it's called Daddy Made It! The boys give you a preview and Jack talks about what it's like to go on dates while making music, podcasts and shows. After the break, the boys swipe Scruff and talk about the new Thirst Trap feature (though fail to access it). Today's guest is Jordan Burns, Illinois-based choreographer and dancer, who has the boys pimp him out for cas...

JJ is late for recording yet again and yet again it's because he can't find his wallet. Jack gives him a handy new trick to try to keep ahold of it. In segment two the boys swipe Jack's Tinder to find a string of empty profiles and someone Jack thinks will eventually murder him. Next, Jack's choreographer Julz Romell swings by to swap stories on best/worst performances. Finally, JJ leaves love and...

Jack and JJ are getting back to business—cum and erections.  In the first segment the boys discuss having sex without the inevitable conclusion.  In segment two, they swipe Jack’s OKCupid to find yet another collection of perfect matches for Jack—one from Turkey and one yet another bottom.  This week’s guest is Albany’s own Ebro, joining to play Virtue Signal.  Finally, Jack le...

Jack just filmed a new music video for his song “Daddy Made It” and in our first segment Jack talks about the shoot where EVERYTHING WENT WRONG. Next, Jack and JJ share their best and worst Fire Island stories, before being joined by comedian Jaye McBride to play Virtue Signal. Don’t miss Jaye’s headlining show during this year’s New York City Comedy Festival on November 9th! Tickets here: https:/...

OUR VERY FIRST LIVE SHOW! Recorded back in August 2021 at the Dixon Place Theater in NYC, Jack and JJ start by discussing the then-recent news item about Matt Damon's use of the f-slur. In segment two, the boys adapted their app-swipe game for a live audience and then were joined by award winning musical theater writer and LGBTQ+ musician Brandon James Gwinn to play a brand new game called "Jack,...

Today is all about breakups. In the first segment, Jack and JJ talk about best practices and recent experiences, while in segment two they play a game of Best/Worst with respect to how they've been broke up with in the past. Then, Freddie Cosmo--not a ghost--joins to share red flags. Finally, Jack picks a fight with the word, and concept, of "cuddle" while JJ fights with birds--all of them. Follow...

The boys have some big changes in their lives! Jack has hired a professional matchmaker, and walks JJ through his decision to do so in the first segment, then after the break JJ reveals that he has finally gotten a Scruff profile. LGBTQ+ musician and variety show host Billy Mick trade their worst performance stories. To close out, JJ gives love and light to "me time" and Jack picks a fight with Di...

This week the boys start out with a discussion about the concept of being "out of someone's league." What does that mean, how do we handle it? After the break, we find our way back to swiping, this time on Hinge. We come across some strange choices. Our guest today is LGBTQ recording artist and all around content creator Mel Lennon who has a story about walking an Atlanta highway at 3am to hookup,...

Our libidos are out of control, and we aren’t ashamed to talk about it.  At the top of this week’s episode, Jack and JJ describe their recently supercharged libidos and how it complicates looking for a serious long-term relationship. In segment two, we borrow a game from a much more famous podcast and play Best/Worst in which Jack and JJ each reveal their best and worst hookup. After the brea...

Jack and JJ own the awkwardness of being attracted to someone you're dating's friend. They also consider the reverse, what happens when someone you like likes one of your friends. In segment two the boys have a philosophical debate about the expectation of privacy when sharing nude pictures on the hookup apps. Today’s special guest is NYC-based recording artist Benji Bradshaw, who joins the boys t...

Jack is back from Provincetown Bear Week, and he is feeling himself. He talks with JJ about his time there and his use of statement tanks to make friends. In segment two the boys take a break from swiping and discuss their "bottom journeys." Today’s special guest is LA-based writer and comedian Oscar Montoya who joins the boys for a WILD game of Good Giving and Game! Finally, Jack leaves love and...

Brazil loves Jack, and the feeling is mutual. At the top of today’s show Jack relays a conversation with a recent Brazilian lover explaining why his romances with men of that particular ethnicity tend to go sour. The boys then dive into a discussion on racial fetishes more broadly. In segment two the boys take another week off of swiping to discuss their love language. No gifts please. Today’s spe...

Condom use, PREP and STIs oh my! In segment one, the boys talk about their safer sex strategies and perceptions around STIs. In segment two the boys go back to swiping Tinder and discuss Jack swiping and chatting with a former lover of JJ's. We also find a thirst trap filled profile adamantly decrying people seeking hookups. After the break, the boys are joined by friend of the pod and host of Bes...

The boys discuss the post-pandemic resurfacing of old flames, attempts to rekindle and desire for closure. It turns into a conversation of how each deals with lovesickness and heartbreak. In segment two, the boys skip swiping in order to review the “Art of Seduction” types and figure out which one they match with. After the break, Jack and JJ pimp out Necessary Outlet fan Brennen Savon—a sexy arti...