Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful

Love coach Shilpa and her husband Isaac dive into the controversial idea that men need "training" in relationships. They explore how childhood experiences shape adult behavior, discuss the challenges modern couples face, and offer insights on effective communication and personal growth. This episode provides valuable perspectives for single women navigating the dating world and seeking t...

You know how I'm always preaching about deep work? Well, I just got served a heaping dose of my own medicine, and let me tell you, it's  powerful. I did one of my own visualization exercises (yeah, the ones I use with my clients) and  It hit me like a ton of bricks. We're talking childhood trauma, confusion, and all the messy stuff we think we've dealt with but is still lurking...

Discover how to tap into your "spicy queen energy" to inspire profound changes in your love life. Learn the art of setting standards, communicating needs, and fostering deep connections that last a lifetime. This episode empowers you to break past patterns and create the love you truly deserve. Grab You're the Prize: https://www.shilpacacho.com/offers/2WLhBLeF/checkout DM me: https:...

Shilpa and her husband Isaac discuss Shilpa's journey from feeling  behind in life to moving forward becoming a confident woman. They talk about the healing and transformation that occurred in their marriage and the importance of doing the inner work. They also discuss the challenges and judgments they faced from others during and after the divorce. They emphasize the power of community and g...

Ditch the Princess Complex: Why You're Cock-Blocking Your Own Happily Ever After In this conversation, Shilpa discusses the importance of ditching the princess complex and taking ownership of one's own happiness in relationships and life. She emphasizes the need to stop blaming others and instead focus on personal responsibility. Shilpa highlights the significance of cultivating self-wor...

Get ready for a wild ride, Queen! Shilpa and Libby are spilling the tea on shame, and it's about to get real AF.  These Spicy Queens dive deep into: • Why kicking shame to the curb is your ticket to living your best life • Juicy confessions: Shilpa's cheating story and Libby's recovery  • The magic that happens when you bare your soul (spoiler: it's f*cking liberating) • Why em...

 Libby Christenson, my life coach, is  with us today! I literally started this podcast because of my work with her.  Libby introduced me to the world of human design and how it plays a role in who we are. My initial session with her has drastically changed how I view myself, how I communicate my needs in my relationships, and how I tap into my intuition, and manifest my dreams into reality. We wan...

The power of manifestation and the law of attraction have transformed my life and I knew I had to share the secrets with you all. That is why I just had to have Becky, a manifestation and mindset coach, on with us! Becky is a living example of how powerful manifesting and the law of attraction can be. After years of battling with mental health issues, crippling debt and lack of purpose Becky hit r...

I have Isaac back again to discuss how we've survived jealousy, fights, family disapproval, and a whole lot more to create a relationship that we never imagined we could have.  Having gone through a divorce myself and Isaac and I cheating in past relationships, we had no idea what a healthy and happy relationship even looked like. As a couple, we have uncovered  tidbits of knowledge along the...

My interview with Dr. Maha is packed with info about how to overcome relationship hurdles, dealing with the in-laws, tackling mismatched sex drives, and how to survive the first year of marriage and create a healthy relationship that can last. Dr. Maha is passionate about helping people live, love, and sexually connect more authentically, courageously, and freely, through meaningful and challengin...

My interview with sexpert, Goody Howard, is one you have to hear if you're wanting to learn more about how to spice things up in the bedroom. I know many women struggle with experiencing the "Big O". I used to be one of them. This is why I knew I had to make this a podcast topic. We're also talking about how to talk to your kids about sex, sex toys, and oral sex tips and tricks...

 With Chantal Heide's massive following on TikTok  and years of experience with helping people find true love, I figured there must be some truth to this no kissing for 3 months rule of hers. Tune in to learn how to stop kissing frogs and find your prince or princess, or as I like to say your king or queen.  Chantal Heide is a Dating & Relationship Coach and Author from Ontario. Chantal’s...

This week's episode was inspired by the horrific murder of Fort Hood soldier, Vanessa Guillen and all of the brave military members who have shared their stories of sexual assault and mistreatment by the military, after being outraged by Vanessa's death. One of the ways to eliminate this crime is by speaking about it openly. Let it no longer be taboo. Let us learn how to speak up. Let us...

 "You just don't know what you don't know". In today's episode, we dive into abusive relationships and domestic violence. I know many will think this information does not pertain to them but having this knowledge can save lives of loved ones. We discuss red flags that might indicate a potential batterer, how to support loved ones in abusive relationships, and how to create...

Are you confused on how to communicate your sexual desires to your partner? Then, this is the episode for you! Janel Vitale is a sexual empowerment & shame-free relationship coach on a mission to help you transform fear, jealousy and insecurity into deeper connection and more fulfilling sex. Her passion is empowering people to unlearn false beliefs about sex and relationships that are holding...

According to the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, about 45% of men and 35% of women have admitted to having an emotional affair. That's a pretty big percentage! After polling my Instagram followers on whether or not infidelity meant divorce, the results showed that about 50% were willing to work through it. This podcast is not only for people dealing with infidelity in the...

Does being in a relationship mean you have to stop having sex with other people? According to my guests, Steven and Pri, a couple that lives by the motto "life without limits", the door to their relationship remains open to possible sexual encounters and connections with other women.  Follow them on Instagram, where they share their love for travel and their poly journey: @vicarious.tv ...

Not all relationships are created equal:  Meet Sabrina, a doctor from Germany, who talks about how adding a third person into her once monogamous relationship salvaged their connection, deepened their bond, and introduced an amount of joy they could never have imagined.   Follow their journey on Instagram: @Greene_Triad DM me on Instagram for future episode inspiration: @MakeupbyShilpa Follow me o...

After a week of reflecting, reading, listening, researching, we finally feel ready to share our thoughts on our experiences with racism, what we've learned over the last week, and what we hope for moving forward.  Follow Isaac on Instagram @TheCachoExperience Follow Shilpa on Instagram @MakeupbyShilpa Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho https://www.instagram.com/shilpacacho/ Work with me Ready for...

On this episode, I have Isaac back on along with one of our good friends, who has struggled with not quite living up to the standards for masculinity set by his Mexican American parents and society. Having to hide his love for art and feeling as if he was lacking as a man, he turned to sex with men as a way to cope which quickly turned into an addiction. Hear how he pulled himself out and is now r...

In episode three, I interview my super talented friend, Ayman, and we discuss his journey with identifying as non-binary and gay. I met Ayman when I lived in LA and we fell in love right away. Despite coming from a traditional Pakistani, Muslim family, he courageously lives his truth proudly and it has inspired many others to do the same.  Follow his journey and check out his insane makeup skills...

Can two cheaters come together and change their ways? I have my husband on as a guest to discuss how we got together and how we went from cheating on exes and living a double life to creating an honest and loving relationship.   Feel free to send me episode inspiration or if you would like to be a guest: Instagram: @MakeupbyShilpa   Shilpa@chiclotus.com    Www. Chiclotus.com Follow me on IG: @Shil...

I wanted to start by sharing my own story to explain how this podcast came about.  A journey of an Indian American woman battling her confusion between who she is and who she is expected to be, eventually flipping her life upside down in order to find freedom and herself.  Feel free to send me questions, feedback, and future topic ideas to:  Instagram: @MakeupbyShilpa  Email: Shilpa@Chiclotus.com...