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In this episode of Do the Work, Carla is alone in the studio discussing how so many people over her lifetime have tried to quiet her. Now that she has found her voice, she won't be silent and she teaches her daughters the same. The lessons we teach our kids aren't always the easy ones, but they are necessary. It takes baby steps and some toughness to raise a confident child; and even more so a con...

Sometime a womans passion for what she wants can be intense and people view it as her being crazy. A recent incident with Carla and Az, reminded her of this. Carla thinking Az forgot their anniversary, caused her to give him a little attitude, when she had the date wrong by one day. Carla from the beginning told AZ she didn't like the romantic gesture of roses, but now she wants him to show up lik...

In this episode of Do the Work, for years AZ and Carla struggled with the roles they held in their relationship. Until you are honest and understand, trust and respect your partner in their role, you will never be on the same page. Marriages can suffer when you are both holding each other back, and not having your spouses back. Define the roles in your marriage and then communicate what that is; l...

In this episode of Do the Work, getting comfortable in your relationship can happen over time causing a breakdown in communication. Finding a place for honesty with your partner even if it brings conflict will eventually cause growth. Focusing on what your spouse needs to change to make it work isn't your concern. Look within yourself and ask the tough questions to begin the change in you, which c...

In this episode of Do the Work, when a married couple that catches Carla's eye while shopping, reminds her of how far she has come in her relationship with AZ, the couple were taken back to a time when Carla was not empowered. As she readies for her event coming up next month, AZ encourages all women to take that step to propel their lives forward. Carla being all in, every day, is what pushes AZ...

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla are in the studio and discussing sexless marriages. Has the passion with your partner gone to the wind? The couple had their share of ugly times and would only connect intimately if they were drinking. Making your spouse feel sorry for you, using guilt or even using sex as a tool of leverage, are all signs of trouble. You need to be able to change for t...

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ is in the studio solo to talk to his boys about Carla and her upcoming Women's Only Event. If you want your woman to start showing up powerfully, quit trying to make her happy. It is your job to be the best you to show up in your marriage and business. It is her job to make herself happy, be empowered and find her voice. This conference is for every woman, and it...

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla talk about the low blows that can happen in an argument between couples. When we know all the ins and outs of someone, it is easy to go for the jugular to get the quick results. Knowing what is off limits and knowing what triggers you can bring peace more rapidly to an otherwise hotbed of discontent. When a simple conversation goes ugly, look for the un...

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla would like to dedicate this Podcast to her Daughters. She has created a lot of content for her daughters their whole lives, by her actions. Never apologize for being a powerful woman, never submit to a man; speak for other women and be their backbones. There are thousands of men who try to keep her down and the number of women who fucking hate her; double that...

In this episode of Do The Work, Az and Carla have discovered their growth not just as individuals but as parents. Changing the patterns that you blame on others for your finances, your health, and your business is crucial to your success as a person and a parent. Giving your kids the tools to identify what will trigger them and give them the permission and the tools to overcome it. Whether you are...

In this episode of Do the Work, Az and Carla the couple share with their listeners about the ups and downs of being in business with your spouse. Roles at home don't necessarily carry over into the workplace, and vice versa. Setting firm boundaries and clear guidelines won't make things perfect but will push you forward towards success. Treat your spouse like an equal to give them the confidence t...

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how when your spouse feels down, you should also. Or should you? Trying to entice your partner into an argument when you are not up to par, is just a form of sabotage. Recognizing that your spouse is being triggered by something and stepping back is a form of growth. When you do this you will be able to connect in your marriage at a deeper level...

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how entitlement in your relationship can lead to conflict; Spending your time trying to figure out what may be bothering your spouse, when all they need is space is a slippery slope. Give your partner that space to figure out what is triggering them, instead of mirroring their anger. When you step back, the real trigger will disappear and so wil...

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla addresses how parenting is hard, and judgemental; People are always shaming other parents. The pressure of the perfect first day social media post, kids perfectly dressed standing in front of a chalkboard announcing the excitement of the day. The reality; juggling the house, job, school shopping,doctors appointments, figuring out the scheduling challenges;the...

In this episode of Do The Work, AZ and Carla are in the studio discussing Trolling. A recent run-in with an internet troll has given Carla the ability to exercise her power and show that you shouldn't mess with a strong woman. If you are obsessed with bringing others down, expending all of your energy on negativity, you risk running into that individual who will stop you in your tracks. Focus your...

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla is solo in the studio and ready to get started. Shame is conditioned and comes out from somewhere in our lives; It overtakes us. Shame caused Carla to be hateful, because of jealousy, and comparison; we create the stories of shame. We show up this way in our relationship and our business because we cannot overcome shame. Why do you feel shame? Are you asking y...

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how significant changes are coming their way and to this podcast. Although being pumped up for what is happening, they need not get overwhelmed and focus on the small tasks each day. Putting in the reps every day has put them where they are. Looking back at where they were, fuels them forward to be where they want to be. ________________________...

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla is in the studio alone using those pipes God gave her to share her story about all the Reps in her life that she has done to get to where she is. Carla chose to be all in and if you want to be all in you need to be all in. She has suffered through failed businesses and failing marriage, and she shared it all and by doing that removed all the fear. Don't let pe...

  In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla tackle the topic of Agendas. They are on everybody's mind. A compliment, an email, a text message rarely comes without an agenda attached to it. Whether it's yours or someone else's, your time is the most valuable asset. You need to learn to manage others people's agendas, so those meeting that isn't a priority won't manipulate your time. This is the...

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla uses an incident that happened while she was out shopping with her daughters, as a lesson in taking a stand for yourself. Standing in your power and knowing what you believe in takes courage. It's important to realize that your behavior impacts people. Carla leveled the playing field, and let them know they fucked with the wrong person. Take back your power fr...

In this episode of Do the Work, the couple discusses how "Flow" is in the house and Carla is working over her capacity. Finding a way to control the side effects of the monthly drain that is "Flow," Carla has learned to harness that energy for good instead of evil. Men don't understand how it feels to be kicked in the balls for 2 weeks straight, but women take "Flow" on, toe to toe. Take that time...

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how their morning started off rough because Carla was ranting. Misdirecting your anger at someone who wasn't your trigger, is a hazard of housing negative energy. By stepping back and assessing the root of the problem, you can reach a solution on your own, and have a productive outcome. __________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podca...

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how placing the blame when things go wrong in your life, is a weak excuse for failure. Empower yourself with the experiences you have had, to make your decisions with thoughtful purpose. Stop blaming others for where your unhappiness lies, and grab ahold of your backbone and own your own shit. ___________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WO...

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how disempowering your man, doesn't just mean taking his balls and putting them in your purse. It starts with not being supportive of his efforts, while he is trying to lead his home. Men are task focused and women can do it all, but if they make it a team effort the couple can enjoy the have it all lifestyle together. __________________________...

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss insecurity, resistance, and empowerment. How you view yourself should be your focus and the voices of your naysayers the fuel that fires you forward. Don't get caught in the comparison game. Do the Work and the reps, to live the have it all lifestyle. ___________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the...