Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast

✏️RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE! Have conflicts in your marriage? Of course. Wish you handled them better? Of course. Managing conflict well is a massive growth area for most couples. Usually, we either stuff it, we detach, or we blow up. None of those are healthy so we need a new way. The new way is what I call the diamond. At the top of the diamond someone calls flooded, which means the...

✏️RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE! Micro-cheating is a new buzz word more and more people are discussing. You may be wondering, "what is micro-cheating?" You also may be wondering "Is my partner micro-cheating or am I?" By definition, micro-cheating is when you're not being faithful to your partner visually, mentally, or emotionally but there's no physical cont...

✏️ RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE! Have you brought up concerns in your marriage just to have your partner tell you it's all in your head? That you're overthinking it. That you're being too sensitive. In those moments, who's right? Are you overthinking it, or is your partner minimizing and invalidating your concerns? In the episode today on the Dr. Wyatt Show I respond...

✏️RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE! Did you know that your temperament impacts how you approach intimacy? Makes sense if you think about it. Our temperament impacts everything else in our lives. For example, if you're an introvert you may be more timid or shy in the bedroom. If you're an extrovert, you might be more forward and bold in the bedroom. In today's episode on the Dr...

✏️RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE! Do you ever feel like you're working harder at your marriage than your partner? You're not alone. Many people feel this way and it often leads to burnout. When my wife and I were working through winter in our marriage I often felt this way. I felt like I was trying harder than my wife and I started feeling burned out. Therefore, I know how this f...

✏️RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE! This is a special day for my podcast because it's the first time I've offered a FREE couples therapy session. As you probably know, I have a private practice in Boulder, CO where I've been seeing clients live and virtually since 2004. Learn more about my marriage counseling here. However, I've never recorded a live session before for ot...

✏️RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE! Have you resolved your resentments and rebuilt your friendship and now you're ready to start flirting but not sure how? Moreover, do you want to start flirting but worried you'll lead your partner on?  It's a common concern. Especially for low libido partners. They think, "I don't want to flirt with my high libido partner because t...

✏️RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE!   In this call in episode, a listener describes how her husband has broken financial trust and she isn't sure how to start trusting again. If trust has been broken in your relationship, some of the principles covered may apply to you.  Check out my new article on effective marriage separation here. Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your mar...

✏️RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE! Most people have heard of husbands wanting intimacy more than their wives but it's more rare when it's the other way around. It also can be more difficult because everyone associates men with wanting intimacy all the time. Therefore, when your husband doesn't have sexual interest it can feel deeply personal. Listen in as I respond to this ca...

😊DOWNLOAD ( KTG) COUPLES APP HERE! Sometimes, the answer is not what we think. Sometimes, we must let go in order to receive. Sometimes, we must stop chasing for our partner to stop running away. I'm talking about sex. Too many low libido partners are under obligation sex. They feel pressured for intimacy. The more pressure they feel, the lower their libido because they no longer have voice...

Most marriages are made up of a stuffer and a criticizer. Stuffers stuff their feelings, which creates resentments. Criticizers are blunt and blindside their partner with critiques. Obviously, both are unhealthy. In this new episode of the Dr. Wyatt Show I discuss the solution. You'll want to listen to this one a few times with your partner. 5 Steps To Strengthen Your Intimacy 6/20. Grab your...

Being in a blended family creates its own unique set of challenges. Unfortunately, many of us aren't informed on how to do blended families right. Which means many of us do it wrong. I was raised in a blended family so I know firsthand some of the top mistakes to avoid. I've also seen the same mistakes play out with couples I see in my practice. In this archive episode on the Dr. Wyatt S...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! It's important to have a list of things to start doing in a relationship. Likewise, it's important to have a list of things to stop doing. In this archive episode of the Dr. Wyatt Show Podcast, I discuss the top behaviors to stop doing now. In fact, if you keep doing these things your marriage will get worse. You can count on it. Take a moment and lis...

IF YOU FOUND THIS VALUABLE, PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW! Learning to work through conflicts is a fact of life. Unfortunately, it's a fact of life most of us are never trained in. Without resolving conflicts, you and your partner can't stay close. Unresolved conflict creates division and walls. Walls break down intimacy. In this archive episode I'll teach you the simplest method for resolv...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW! Want to improve your marriage? Learn how to compromise. Want your partner to be happier? Learn how to compromise. Want to lower your divorce risk? Learn how to compromise. See the common denominator? This archive episode will walk you through how to start compromising like a pro. FREE Masterclass 5/6: How To Rebuild Your Marriage in 90 Days Want to have a peaceful summe...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! In this mini episode I discuss one of the most common mistakes I see couples make in conflict. Listen in to see if you're guilty of doing it too! Send me a DM on Instagram if you are. L eave a voicemail at 303-578-0618 24/7 with your questions and I'll respond to them on the next Tuesday podcast episode! Want to start improving your communication for...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! Welcome to another Tuesday call in episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show where I respond to voicemails that have come in from listeners. Today, I respond to a woman who says her husband has ED and blames it on her weight even though she only weighs 5 pounds more than when they first met. Listen to her voicemail and then hear my response.   L eave a voicemail at 303-578...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! Sick of feeling like roommates? Tired of feeling like siblings? Have you resolved your resentments? Have you rebuilt your friendship? If so, start nuddling! Nuddling is the perfect way to slowly start building your safety and security. Nuddling will bond you. Nuddling will make you feel like partners. Nuddling is your new homework assignment! In this new episod...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! We all have expectations of what marriage will be like. And what it won't be like. What our partner will be like. And what they won't be like. These expectations come from our family of origin and our culture. Most of us aren't aware of our expectations. But they are there. Influencing our reactions to our partner and our relationship. Well, I ha...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! Unfortunately, many people fall asleep in marriage. They stop trying. They stop putting in effort. They fall asleep. Hopelessness sets in quickly when you're on the other side of complacency. In this new call in episode, I share some steps to consider if you find yourself in a similar situation. Leave a voicemail at 303-578-0618 24/7 with your questions an...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! Want a better relationship? Yes, please. Have six hours to spare per week? Probably. Then I have the perfect solution for you. In this new episode of the Dr. Wyatt Show I break down 6 hours of activities you need to build your relationship each week. These six hours are intentional and transformational. Your relationship won't get better on its own. It nee...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! Leave a voicemail 24/7 with your marriage questions at 303-578-0618 then I'll respond to it on the next Tuesday podcast episode! Not feeling attracted to your partner? Not sure what to do? You want to bring it up but when you do your partner gets their feelings hurt. So you keep it inside. But keeping it inside makes you wall off and pull away. Or, you&apo...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW For More! Are you feeling bored in the bedroom? Are you tired of no intimacy or boring intimacy? You're not alone. Many couples struggle keeping the fire alive in the bedroom. That's why I explore 8 steps to spice things up in the bedroom in this new podcast episode. Listen to it with your partner to decide which steps would be most helpful for your relationshi...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE! Leave a voicemail 24/7 with your marriage questions at 303-578-0618 then I'll respond to it on the next Tuesday podcast episode of the Dr. Wyatt Show! There were two callers this past week for my new Tuesday podcast episode.  The first one was wondering how to improve communication. Especially when his partner was asking him to do things she's not doi...

RATE, REVIEW, & FOLLOW FOR MORE Wondering how to become a better partner? Wondering if you have the right ingredients? Wondering if you have the right raw materials? Being a good partner hinges greatly on what you believe. Your beliefs direct your actions. Therefore, developing certain beliefs will greatly impact how you show up as a partner. In this episode, I cover six beliefs that are vital...