Dr. Nicolya Show

In the United States alone, over 200 million people dream of writing a book. Yet, the number of writers who go on to actually finish their manuscript is estimated to be just 3% Of those, only 20% will go on to become published.  Of course, everyone won't write a book. They'll come up with plenty of good excuses for why they shouldn’t , they will let writers block take over but if it’s been on...

I know the value of support not only from me being able to give it to other people, but also from my own experiences. I have had counselors in the past. I've had coaches in the past, and I've had things that haven't worked, and I've had things that have worked. But for the most part, my support has allowed me to achieve the success that I truly desire, and to some extent some of the things that I...

A traditional business model for coaches and solopreneurs is to charge hourly for their coaching sessions. We’re all trained to think that way, from the time we get our first jobs as teens at a fast food joint and it’s an easy mentality to carry with us through adulthood. But if you hold onto that pattern, you’ll soon realize that you’ve created a finite ceiling to how much you can make as there a...

When we are going after goals we have this pressure to bring them to fruition. And I’m turn we operate from a place of force instead of operating from a place of flow.  This is because we are tied and attached to a specific outcome. While that seems normal it’s one of the worst habits to get into if you want to bring your goal to fruition.    Detaching from the outcome is so importa...

Have you ever heard that you can't really make good money passively? I bought into this belief for years and it kept me playing super small.  What about the idea that if you are earning passive income it's a scam- meaning basically you're getting something but the people that bought from you receive nothing? That felt super icky to me. Especially since one of my top values is impact.   O...

Maybe you're new to the NLP space or considering investing in a coaching certification program. We know that these certification programs can require a significant investment.  This is the very reason I love when clients ask: How much money do NLP practitioners make?  While I would love to give you an exact number, the reality is the amount that NLP practitioners make varies. It varies o...

Coaches spend most of their time helping people transform their lives, but in doing so, may often neglect themselves in the process. The truth is coaching can be fulfilling and lucrative- but only if done right. In todays video I am going to walk you through the biggest mistakes coaches make that prevent them from making money and how you can avoid them! If you’re ready to incorporate a passive in...

Have you bought into the idea that you have to show up for every single dollar you earn? Well I’m here to change the narrative. What if I told you that you could earn money on demand. Whether you’re traveling whether you’re sleeping or maybe you’re even working you still can call in income. In today’s episode I’m going to walk you through different ideas and strategies that you can leverage in you...

Whether you have taken off for surgery leave, maternity leave, or a vacation it can often be hard to pick up the momentum upon your return.  Today we are going to discuss how you can get back into the rhythm and come back stronger than before   The steps you need to incorporate are   Set a goal  Create a schedule  Give yourself grace  Move your body  Clear your s...

The concept of “the calling” (not just a “job” or “vocation”) has been widely used to describe our personal purpose in life. Our calling is the reason why we were born and the legacy we will leave to the world. It seems so easy for some people: they go to school and know the major to choose. Then, they graduate and know the exact path their career and life will take. They have found their life’s c...

A question I got recently is how can you be a hypnotherapist and Christian? And the answer is yes you can be both!!! YES I am an unapologetic believer! Christ is my savior and God's son. He died on the cross for my sins and I am forever thankful for Him. And yes I am also a certified hypnotherapist as well.  While to me, I recognize you can be both I know that most people don't understand how....a...

In 2022 I set a goal different than any other goal I have ever set. The goal was to have a calm and regulated nervous system. It’s been a crazy journey but so impactful. One of the best things that has come of it is strengthening my self trust. In todays bonus episode I am going to talk all about developing your intuition. Intuition can be a hard thing to understand, but we all have these powerful...

Many coaches in the business space will tell you that you have niche down in order to be successful. I’ll be honest I have a very contradictory view of niching. For me niching depends on whether or not you feel aligned with it. In today’s video, I talk about two different business organizational structures so that you can learn about each and lean in to which feels most aligned. Sign up for your b...

Decision fatigue is a state of mental overload that can impede our ability to make additional decisions. A more simplified way to explain this is that decision fatigue refers to the mental exhaustion a person experiences after making a lot of decisions. And essentially it is the assumption that the less decisions you have to make the less exhausted or overwhelmed you will feel. Psychologists consi...

In the coaching space there are so many terms being thrown around that it can be so confusing about what means what. In today’s blog I am going to give you a description of each ! Let’s begin with the difference between a mastermind, group coaching program and a course! Courses and group coaching programs were created in order to teach people something and to be able to access people from all over...

Does the idea of creating content overwhelm you? Maybe you find yourself creating never ending content just to have very minimal engagement Or maybe you don’t even know what to create We have to do away with the idea of creating content just for creation’s sake. When you think about the content you’re creating would you say it… aligns with your brands values? Meets your clients where they currentl...

I firmly believe that every coach has their own unique approach to coaching, However, most coaching sessions share a common structure and unfold in much the same way. So today we will talk about how you can run a coaching session from start to finish without the overwhelm. 1. Build rapport 2. Listen to your client 3. Support your client 4. Tasking for your client 5. Close Out Being organized and h...

While still down with covid I started to reflect on the three pillars that helped me build the foundation for seeing my vision through. In today's podcast episode I stripped audio from a brief motivational live I did about these pillars and why you should take time to consider and reflect on them today.

Covid kicked my butt....but it taught me a lot. So for the last two weeks I have been forced to be still and thanks to my undefined sacral that was super hard for me. I realized that even though I had loads of content pre-batched and ready to go I was worried how things would change if I was just laying in bed all day. I had such a massive quantum leap the month before and the idea of "loosing mom...

I have worked with some of the most powerful coaches who unfortunately have burned the candles at both ends or hustled their way to burn out. I don't know about you, but I know I can relate to that. They leave the nine to five just to find out that they're working 60 to 80 hours a week for themselves making less money and maybe even less of an impact. Or they move into business and they're trying...

One way to attract more customers to your business is through amazing launch events (Challenges, Webinars etc.). With a single event, you can offer information, demonstrate your expertise, and win over some prospects and even new customers. Show your prospects that you’re an authority in what you do. However, there is a little hurdle to pass through: Getting people in those seats. Launch events ar...

As a coach or a solopreneur, do you send out emails regularly to your subscribers? If not you're losing out on a great opportunity to nurture your list and build a trusting relationship with them. Believe it or not, sending emails is still one of the most effective marketing strategies. You have tried it but didn’t get results? Maybe you didn’t apply it the right way. Many brands still send out em...

When my clients are working to create something amazing I often recommend a daily power hour and sometimes it’s meant with resistance because let’s be honest it can feel like we have no time. I recently did some recent research and found that the average American wastes 2.09 hours per day. If I could be honest I think that number may actually be a lot higher. We often spend our time watching tv an...

I spent the last 12 months fully committing to myself thanks to a podcast I heard from manifestation babe. It really motivated me! After listening to her story I realized I would never for forgive myself if I never tried. Around the same time I read an article about the top 5 regrets of the dying and one that stuck out to me was : I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the l...

As we start a new year, goal-setting is typically on the radar for many. While initial motivation for change may be high, statistics show the majority of New Year’s resolutions are broken by mid January.  I’ve found SMART goal-setting has been extremely helpful for accomplishing my goals over the last few years , but using the NLP model has taken it to an entirely new level.  Since I am...