Dr. Gary Bell's Absurd Psychology

The world is full of bullies and butt-holes. The real issue is how to deal with them when you can't avoid them. So many of our children are subjected to bullies causing some to alienate themselves, become severely depressed, self-injure and even decide to injure others. Many adults are subjected to the same issues at work, at home and as they go about their lives. The episode takes on the butt-hol...

As we grow older and take on more responsibilities, our personal needs begin to quickly slide away. They are replaced by children, money, jobs, family, needy spouses, home, friends and the hope for a moment of peace. This show is about reclaiming and discovering our soul's purpose in life. Where is our passion? Who are we? What is our meaning? We will analyse and solve how we get lost in our life...

Dealing with the role reversal of being the decision maker for your parents and elderly can be a life changer for all involved. The fact that the elderly do not often want their free will imposed on is even more challenging. There are so many options in this circumstance. The communication that must be done carefully and with very important boundaries and contracts. For those who are faced with th...

Over 3.3 million Adult children remain or have returned to their parent's home. This complex situation can create enormous stressors for both the parent(s) and their children. Relationships shift, people are taken for granted and often the ugliness of watching an adult child not move on with their life is a gigantic disappointment. Some parents want to try to fix what they can't. Some parents nag...

Affairs can be physical, emotional, deep, unending and almost always secretive. They are the most hurtful and destructive thing anyone can do to committed monogamous relationship. It is the ultimate betrayal of trust. Yet the vast majority of people in a committed relationship are not monogamous throughout the course. Relationships can be the loneliest places in the world when they are not working...

Forgiveness is such a beautiful word, but so few in this world are truly capable of giving it. Many live their lives harboring a mountain full of bitterness and trust issues. Every relationship, mood, event and life experience is grossly hindered by the burden of anger and the incapacity to fully forgive others. As humans, we all fail, do stupid things, violate each other and completely betray tho...

Obesity is at epidemic levels in most evolved countries around the world. People are eating their way into death, loss of self and quality of life. Fat consumes and replaces everything including sex, libido, self image, hope, health and happiness. No all people have these issues, but I can guarantee someone in your life does. I am on a journey to fix my fat ass, so join me. This show is about recl...

Growing Apart happens to nearly every relationship. However, growing back together does not. The real victims are the children, if the relationship has them. This episode is about the loss over love, intimacy, trust, feelings, desire and the emptiness that follows. It is about how to stop coping and start thriving in the stale, beaten down tired relationship you have. The commitment and energy it...

We will dive deep into the world of couples who marry partners of different races, cultures and values. This show is explosive! We all are interracial in our make up from over 150,000 years of recorded human history. However, our insecure nature drive us into places where we can identify and hide behind hidden boundaries differentiating our value from others as a group. Couples who rise to the cha...

Divorce is detrimental to every person involved. However, as parents choose to move on children carry the scars of divorce the rest of their lives. The way parents conduct themselves has everything to do with how a child survives. Children are the true victims. Parents move on, often put children between them, choose new partners and drag their children through an entire childhood of change, adapt...

The universe is made up of energy. We humans emit all kinds of energy as way to communicate subconsciously with each other. I am fortunate to be joined by internationally acclaimed authors and psychic psychologists John Freidlander (psychic) and Gloria Hemsher (clairvoyant). We will discuss how psychic healing factors can be found within all people and how the psychic world can help people find a...

Molestation is the single most common form of child abuse there is. It happens each day, in each moment of our lives, all over the world. The continuous damage molestation causes will alter one's personality, soul and direction of nearly every child it comes in contact with. I will profile molesters, give ideas how to identify and teach you what signs show up in children after. We will discuss com...

Whether you are a parent, step parent, grandparent, uncle or aunt, you will at some point have to deal with a nasty teenager. By nature, all teenagers are nasty. The period of life they are in is nasty and it effects everything and everyone they come in contact with. This show will explore the teen brain, motives, communication, sexuality, process and life's purpose. To cope with that, I will prov...

The Mind-Body connection is what keeps us in balance. When we are going through health issues with our body, the attitude and perception of the health issue has everything to do with how well we heal. Stress is our biggest enemy. It can tear down our immune system (white blood cell count) and make us vulnerable to every kind of illness. When our body is not taken care of, our mind becomes insecure...

Anger is just an emotion. Emotional Intelligence is required to manage it. Some people have ZERO to a toddlers Emotional Intelligence. It must be managed before it grows into rage. Rage is the reason we need Anger Management. It is the most destructive and psychotic emotion we have. Rage is where a human being is no longer human, just an uncaged animal lashing out of fear and the deepest insecurit...

If you think getting caught masturbating as a kid is embarrassing, try witnessing someone trapped in their Mid-Life Crisis. Suddenly, without anyone seeing it coming, people burst out of their traditional lives and turn into beasts of passion ripping the fabric of their lives into shreds. It happens like clockwork all corners of the world every day of our lives. We will explore this predictable ph...

Abusive relationships have been a worldwide epidemic since the dawn of man. In the day and age we are in, people have created all new ingenious ways to be shittier than before. Women and men are nearly equal on the abusive scale. Unfortunately, we as people are often too stupid to recognize it (look at the state of our education system and lack of role models). When idiots get angry (especially un...

This episode is an absolutely crazy and candid journey into the ludicrous world of dating. We will span the ages looking at how people meet, first dates, middle age dating, internet dating, dating websites, social media and the deep dark world of deception. I will pull no punches and call out how the super creeps operate. Give you quick ways to access if you are dating a dog turd. Dating can be a...

Over 63% of our US population admit to having or had secret lives. Those secret lives run anywhere from fulfilling kinky sex cravings, having affairs, wearing dirty women's panties under suits at work, drugs and alcohol and more than your current imagination can envision. I remember as a child passing a farmers barn and hearing very stressed out sheep behind the door. However, I can absolutely ass...

Children with mental issues will push any parent to absolute hysteria. Raising a normal child is hard enough. I will cover as broad a spectrum of childhood disorders and give you insight, indicators and tools to help all parents. Understanding how these children operate and their intentions is key. You can spend your life on the internet trying to figure it out or we can get down finding the answe...

Suicide, Death and Grieving are issues nearly every individual will come in contact in their life. I am taking a sharp and direct approach to challenging the thinking behind these issues and how to work through them. The weight of these issues can either take over your life or you can move through them. The choice is yours. The legacy of people's lives are so much more important than how they die....

Wellness has everything to do with how we conduct our lives, are mindful of our health and manage stress. Dr. Nancy Bohl-Penrod is my special guest discussing incredible techniques and insight into how we can heal and improve. We will take a deep dive into stress, nutrition, spirituality, relationships, exercise and medication. Wellness impacts our coping and ability to work. Instead of living as...

Walking among us are millions of functional people with jobs, families and relatively normal lives, but leave a shadow of destruction and chaos everywhere they go. Personality Disorders are people who are driven by odd and eccentric behavior; dramatic and erratic behavior; and/or anxious and fearful behavior. Their lives consume and destroy the peace in everyone they encounter. When you first meet...

Critical Incident Stress is trauma that is so overpowering it is beyond our ability to cope. We have nothing that has prepared us to face its aftermath. Critical incidents can be come from conflict, abuse, war, natural disasters, man made disasters, death, witnessing trauma, near death, threats, extreme fear and the list goes on. The aftermath is Post Traumatic Stress Disorder if not treated immed...

With the Divorce rate rising well above 64%, the prospect of having to go through a world of trauma is likely. Also, the prospect of having to deal with a new partner's untrained thankless hoodlums is likely in the cards. Many people attend counseling over the conflict of step-parenting and having to deal with being married repeatedly. Of course, the kids are the real victims. No one can save them...