Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

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Author

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dontblameme.show

Latest episode

Oct 5, 2026

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Episodes

S3E21: Guest: Meredith Foster - Taking Ownership of Your Sexuality 22.04.2019

Meredith Foster is here this week to share her advice. We’re answering your questions on entertaining a fuckboy even though you have a boyfriend, dealing with your parents with Empty Nest Syndrome, dating with cancer, and how to confront your roommate that’s hanging out with cokeheads. In Don’t Blame Them we have a listener sharing her advice about body image. References: “Sex and Cancer” Book 3 W...

S3E20: Guest: Joslyn Davis - Co-Worker Doesn’t Like Me 15.04.2019

Joslyn Davis is back this week! We’re sharing advice on what to do if your boyfriend’s brother doesn’t want you to see his baby, handing your fiance’s mom being in competition with you, confronting your boyfriend’s friend that isn’t as mature as you, and being kicked out of your living situation. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on what to do if a family member is using a death for...

S3E19: M&M - Casual But Exclusive? 08.04.2019

This week we are sharing our advice on how to deal with your friend being engaged to a guy you hooked up with, being caught in the middle of roommate/guy drama, handling your boyfriend coming too fast, and if you should engage in a 3 way with your friend and her boyfriend. In “Don’t Blame Them” a listener offers her advice to the caller about pegging. Follow Us! @meghanrienks @dontblamemepod @shei...

S3E18: Guest: Alexi Wasser - Being in a Relationship Without Mind-Blowing Sex 01.04.2019

Alexi Wasser, actress and host of LOVE ALEXI podcast is here to share her advice. We’re answering your questions on how to get over a breakup, dating someone with mental issues, drug addict boyfriend not wanting to have sex anymore, and pregnant teenager not wanting to be with the baby father. In Don’t Blame Me we have a caller sharing her advice on siblings changing in front of each other. Follow...

S3E17: Guest: Arden Rose - Dad Cheated on Mom Again 25.03.2019

Arden Rose is back to share her advice! We’re answering your questions on building your confidence to enter a drag show, how to handle your friend warning you that your boyfriend is controlling, dealing with starting over with a new therapist, and how to rebuild your relationship with yourself. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice about the caller who wanted to reach out to her ex that...

S3E16: Guest: Alison Stevenson - Can’t Properly Ride D***? 18.03.2019

Alison Stevenson, writer and co-host of V. Single Podcast, is here to share her her advice! We’re answering your questions on what to do if you like two guys for very different reasons, if you’re a bad person for sleeping with a guy that’s on a break, and how to handle your fiance that won’t go down on you anymore. In Don’t Blame Them we have a listener sharing her advice on having secretive boyfr...

S3E15: M&M - Craigslist Sex Addiction? 11.03.2019

Here’s your March fix of M&M. We share our advice on questioning your sexuality, being inappropriate at work, falling for a man that’s unavailable, and helping a friend that’s being abused. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on weed allergies. *On average, it takes a victim seven times to leave before staying away for good. More information here. Follow Us! @meghanrienks @dontblameme...

S3E14: Guest: Kati Morton - Moonwalking Out of a Situation 04.03.2019

Licensed therapist Kati Morton is here this week! We’re sharing our advice on what to do if your ex joins a dating app immediately after breaking up with you, confronting your friend about making bad choices, invading a co-worker’s privacy, and being comfortable in your own sadness. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on not being happy in your first year of college. Buy Kati’s Book:...

S3E13: Guest: Elle Mills - Break Up with Partner to Hook Up with an Ex? 25.02.2019

Elle Mills is here this week to share her advice! We’re answering your questions on what to do if you drunk dial an old fling, struggling with body positivity, dealing with annoying siblings, and how to handle a friend that has one-sided feelings for you. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on how she told her husband that she’s pansexual. Follow Us! @meghanrienks @elle.mills (instagr...

S3E12: Guest: Mats - Into Bad Boys? 18.02.2019

My boyfriend Mats is back for another episode! This time we’re sharing our advice on what to do if you have a crush on your study buddy’s roommate, how to deal with lying to your boyfriend about how many partners you’ve had, worrying about your friend marrying a guy to help him get his green card, and comforting a spouse with mental health issues. We also have someone sharing their advice on getti...

S3E11: M&M: Pegging! 11.02.2019

Here’s your February M&M ep! This week Melisa and I share our advice on what to do if your non-boyfriend is using you for your car, dealing with a judgemental friend, sharing a class with a hookup you ghosted, and if you should break up with your fiance with racist parents. And in Don’t Blame Them,  a listener shares her advice on dating as a bisexual. Follow Us! @dontblamemepod @meghanrienks @she...

S3E10: Guest: Kelsey Darragh - Not Touched Enough 04.02.2019

**TRIGGER WARNING** - Question 3 is about rape. Kelsey Darragh is here this week to share advice! We’re answering your questions on how to get over your ex that you have a child with, supporting your boyfriend with an estranged father, forgiving your friend who sexually assaulted his girlfriend, and how to  ignore your aunt who pretends to be your murdered grandfather’s biggest fan. We also have a...

S3E9: Guest: Shereen Lani Younes - Siblings Changing In Front of Each Other? 28.01.2019

Fellow podcast host Shereen Lani Younes is here this week to share advice! We’re answering your questions on what to do if your mom is pressuring you to date, how to enjoy sex with a micro-hymen, if you should tell your boyfriend that you’re bi, and how to tell your boyfriend to go down on you. We also have a listener sharing her advice on what to do if you have a crush on your boyfriend’s friend....

S3E8: Guest: Zach Kornfeld - Falling Out of Love 21.01.2019

Zach Kornfeld from the Try Guys is here this week to share advice! We’re answering your questions on what to do if your live-in boyfriend offers no financial security, if your boyfriend hangs out with your other female roommate more than you, dealing with being shamed into having sex, and how to get rid of an ex that’s stalking you. Follow Us! @dontblamemepod @meghanrienks @korndiddy @sheisnotmeli...

S3E7: M&M: Hooking Up With Friend’s Crush 14.01.2019

You guys wanted episode with just Melisa and I, so here you go! This week we’re sharing our advice on catching your friend at your ex’s house, meeting your boyfriend’s abusive parents, moving away from being friends with benefits, and getting rejected because you’re bi. We also have a caller sharing her own advice about a clingy roommate. Follow Us! @dontblamemepod @meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa L...

S3E6: Guest: Brittani Louise Taylor - Creepy Coworkers 07.01.2019

Brittani Louise Taylor is here this week to share advice! We’re answering your questions on what to do when you’re a homesick military wife, dealing with an annoying ex, bad roommates, and being hung up on a perfect but shitty guy. We also have a listener sharing her advice on mama's boys. Follow Us! @dontblamemepod @meghanrienks @brittanitaylor @sheisnotmelissa Buy Brittani’s Book: https://goo.gl...

S3E5: Guest: Alexandra Tweten - Serial Ghosting 31.12.2018

Alexandra Tweten, author and creator of the Instagram Account @byefelipe, is here this week to share her wisdom. We’re giving our advice on online dating, comparing yourself to others, marrying an unhonest guy, and dealing with being the ugly friend. We also have a listener sharing her own advice on psychic abilities. Follow Us! @dontblamemepod @meghanrienks @alexandratweten @byefelipe @sheisnotme...

S3E4: Guest: Aislinn Paul - Dad Sleeping with Brother’s Wife? 24.12.2018

Merry Christmas!!! Our gift to you is Aislinn Paul. She’s back and we’re sharing our advice on what to do if your boyfriend’s mom thinks your boobs too small, how to take a mental health break from your friend, dealing with your friend wanting to hit your boyfriend with a car, and what to do if your boyfriend double taps porn star’s pictures. We also have a caller sharing her advice on dating some...

S3E3: Guest: Lindsey Simcik - No Longer Attracted to Boyfriend? 17.12.2018

Lindsey Simcik, the other half of Almost 30 podcast, is here this week to share advice. We’re answering your questions about getting out of the friendzone with a guy you’re hooking up with, discovering your bisexuality, dropping out of college, and going back to a guy that cheated on you. We also have a caller sharing her advice on having second thought about marriage. Follow Us! @dontblamemepod @...

S3E2: Guest: Krista Williams - Let The D*ck Graduate! 10.12.2018

Trigger Warning for Eating Disorders (Call 2). Krista Williams from Almost 30 Podcast is here this week to share her advice! We’re answering your questions on setting boundaries, how to handle being horny on your period, what to do if a guy tries to stop being fuck buddies mid-coitus, and gaining sexual confidence. We also had a listener share her advice on how she deals with her partner having a...

S3E1: Guest: Nikki Limo - He Murdered Someone on Accident? 03.12.2018

Welcome to a brand new season of Don’t Blame Me! Actress Nikki Limo is here to share her amazing advice. We’re answering your questions about being homesick, weed allergies, dating in college, being harassed by a guy with little man syndrome, and reaching out to an ex that murdered someone. We also have a listener sharing support for the caller that was sexually assaulted by her co-worker’s fiance...

S2E25: Guest: Leo Howard - Dating a Momma's Boy 26.10.2018

My twin Leo Howard is back! We’re sharing our advice on bi boyfriend cheating, rushing relationships, and pocket pussies. We also have a listener sharing her wisdom on Muslim dating. This is our Season 2 finale! We’re taking a short hiatus and we’ll be back in December! Keep calling in and we’ll get back to you soon. Follow Us!@meghanrienks@whoisleo (instagram); @iamLeoHoward (twitter)@sheisnotmel...

S2E24: Guest: Andrea Russett - How To Win Back Your Ex 19.10.2018

We finally have Andrea Russett as a guest! We’re sharing our wisdom on how to dump a reformed fuckboi, tapping into pyschic abilities, and (trigger warning) regaining control of your body after being raped. We also have a listener sharing her own insight on getting off on same sex porn. Follow Us!@meghanrienks@andrearussett@sheisnotmelissa@dontblamemepodNeed Advice?www.dontblameme.showDomestic Lis...

S2E23: Guest: Jarrett Sleeper - Losing Your V-Card to Your Friend?! 12.10.2018

Jarrett Sleeper is back this week! We’re sharing advice on what to do if your roommate asks your boyfriend out to lunch, having ADHD and making friends, and your boyfriend pushing you away. We also have a listener sharing advice on having an introverted significant other. Follow Us!@meghanrienks@jarrettsleeper@sheisnotmelissa@dontblamemepodNeed Advice?www.dontblameme.showDomestic Listeners Call: (...

S2E22: Guest: Cat Valdes - Dating Your Step Brother 05.10.2018

Cat Valdes is here this week! We’re sharing advice on new found lesbianism with your boss, having a crush on your boyfriend’s friend, and how to give a good blow job. We also have a listener sharing advice on low libido. Follow Us!@meghanrienks@catrific@sheisnotmelissa@dontblamemepodNeed Advice?www.dontblameme.showDomestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To:...

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