Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

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Author

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dontblameme.show

Latest episode

Oct 5, 2026

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Episodes

Found A Sibling w/ Candice King 06.02.2023

TW: Gun Violence - Call 4 We have our first guest in years! Actor and friend Candice King joins us for part of the episode, but don't worry, she'll be back again soon! They give advice on: Finding something unexpected in your genealogy test Not living up to your mother's dream Having your first kiss Being threatened by your uncle Update: Regifting Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections...

But Am I Wrong? Results: Biggest Loser Tradition 03.02.2023

Meghan and Melisa read the results of But Am I Wrong? Episode 58. They also discuss Love Island and How to Build a Sex Room. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Privileged Friends 02.02.2023

For But Am I Wrong Meghan: BridalTok is one of the worst sides of influencing Melisa: Gun violence needs to end and it starts with the manufacturers In But Am You Wrong: Distancing yourself from friends Taking break from a friend Big dog, little kitten During chores during a potential exposure And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: Madison Russo Melisa: Pat Grass...

Pad Your Body 31.01.2023

See You Next Tuesday Meghan would make a terrible spy/finds mold in her garden level. Melisa is preparing for her birthday party. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Becoming a Sugar Baby 30.01.2023

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Little white lies Tips on casual sex Not inviting a friend on a trip Getting an offer from a Sugar Daddy Don't Blame Them: Trouble finding a job Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter...

But Am I Wrong? Results: I Should Be More Important Than My Boyfriend's Friends 27.01.2023

Meghan and Melisa share the results of But Am Wrong? I Should Be More Important Than My Boyfriend's Friends. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Biggest Loser Tradition 26.01.2023

tw: Writer #4 - weight loss For But Am I Wrong Melisa: Stop posting videos about white people not washing their bodies Meghan: Body trends do not exist in the way people claim they do In But Am You Wrong: Calling a tow truck on someone Avoiding your roommate Best friend's ex bringing his new girl on a trip Teachers pushing a "Biggest Loser" Challenge And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The We...

Trainer Set Me Up With His Brother-In-Law 23.01.2023

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Found out dad is cheating on mom Keeping a sex buddy casual Irresponsible grandmother Don't Blame Them: Drinking when you turn 21 Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotme...

But Am I Wrong? Results: Pity Wedding Party Invitation 20.01.2023

Meghan and Melisa read the results to But Am I Wrong? Episode: Pity Wedding Party Invitation then discuss Sorority Life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I Should Be More Important Than My Boyfriend's Friends 19.01.2023

For But Am I Wrong Melisa: People who are disrespectful to service workers shouldn't be in your life Meghan: The aesthetic-fication is too much In But Am You Wrong: Buying friends a belated wedding gift Telling your employer you were overpaid Raising your voice at a family member Spending time with your boyfriend And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: •Melisa: Askern Med...

Disney Pixar's DSM-5 17.01.2023

Extra Content - See You Next Tuesday Meghan and Melisa Discuss: Nickelodeon Auditions Free Food Shark Tank Pitch She-Hulk The MCU The Defenders Bing Bong Hot Take Love of Captain Raymond Hold Marvel's Runaways Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Regifting 16.01.2023

TW: Call 3- Self-harm Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Ending a friendship Update-ish: Husband won't get a vasectomy Not liking a present Ending a friendship with someone you think will hurt themselves Asking for a monetary gift Don't Blame Them: Issues with living alone Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks h...

But Am I Wrong? Results: Apologized But Left on Read 13.01.2023

Meghan and Melisa read the result from But Am I Wrong? 1.5.2023. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Pity Wedding Party Invitation 12.01.2023

Trigger Warning Writer #3: Sex Offender For But Am I Wrong Melisa: White people shouldn't vacation on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Meghan: Dippin' Dots isn't the ice cream of the future In But Am You Wrong: Asked to be an usher for a wedding All White people Picking up items from an ex Laundry mishap And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Melisa: Akon Meghan: Brittany Daw...

Good Morning Charlie 10.01.2023

See You Next Tuesday Meghan asks Melisa about Soap Opera characters then shares her love of Uptown Girls. They then discuss all the eras of Charlie's Angels and the lack of respect of women led films. New Years hobbies include Meghan buying a dollhouse and Melisa taking swimming lessons. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone....

Messy Friends 09.01.2023

TW: 1st Call - Disordered eating and fatphobia Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Cutting off an emotionally abusive father Turning 21 but not wanting to drink Friend dating a racist Don't Blame Them: Losing Interest during sex and deconstructing fatphobia Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/me...

But Am I Wrong? Results: Surprise! I'm Not Going to My Party 06.01.2023

Melisa and Meghan debate the difference of the Kids Choice Awards and Teen Choice Awards, then have a spirited discussion about Scream Queens. Finally they reveal the results of But Am I Wrong episode from December 29, 2022. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apologized But Left on Read 05.01.2023

Trigger Warning in both But Are They Wrong: Ezra Miller, Endangerment of a Minor, and Sexual Coercion For But Am I Wrong Meghan: Stop posting people opening gifts Melisa: Keeping distance from a former friend In But Am You Wrong: Invisible to brother-in-law Upstaging the bride Not responding to a friend's apology Stealing a name And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meg...

Who Should Run Twitter? 03.01.2023

Meghan and Melisa discuss who should run Twitter. https://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/elon-musk-or-this-other-guy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Husband Makes Me Wrap My Own Gifts 02.01.2023

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Keeping a Christmas gift from an ex Inconsiderate gift giving Mother who keeps trash Losing interest during sex Don't Blame Them: Winning Back an Ex Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twi...

But Am I Wrong? Results: Kissing Mother on the Lips 30.12.2022

Meghan and Melisa read the results from But Am I Wrong: Kissing Mother on the Lips Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Surprise! I'm Not Going to My Party 29.12.2022

For But Am I Wrong Melisa: New Year's Rants Meghan: Big Quicksand In But Am You Wrong: Not going to boyfriend's mom's birthday dinner Party you didn't ask to be planned Brody Jenner sexualizing his stepsister Neighbors shoveling show in a handicap space And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Melisa: Rep. Elect George Santos Meghan: New York Times Crossword Puzzle Write I...

Smash or Pass Christmas Food 27.12.2022

Melisa is deep into holiday/birthday parties in Arkansas and Meghan is prepping for her trip to Colorado. They then take a Buzzfeed quiz on holiday foods and rave about their love of Schär foods. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sucky Friends 26.12.2022

Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Getting more out of a sex buddy If you should use pronouns on social media Failed Friendships Don't Blame Them: Dating a Virgin Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmeli...

But Am I Wrong? Results: Laxative in the Creamer 23.12.2022

The long awaited results (do y'all still even care) from December 1, 2022. Plus our thoughts on Margot Robbie kissing Brad Pitt As well as the greatest Marvel Romance never told: Carol Danvers and Maria Rambeau And Melisa tries to convince Meghan to watch The Sex Lives of College Girls Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm...

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