Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

Society EN ↓ 872 episodes

Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

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Author

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dontblameme.show

Latest episode

Oct 5, 2026

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Episodes

Stressed Out Over Pride 22.05.2023

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Ex best friend and sister are now besties Friend's partner is comfortable around our friend group Trying to make everyone happy at Pride Fest Racist therapist Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisno...

Her Boyfriend Was Cuddling Another Girl 18.05.2023

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: The WGA Strike Meghan: Hollandaise But Are You Wrong: Changing party plans Sharing a salacious video Inappropriate comments Idle car But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Kouri Richins Meghan: @gen_laforce Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections...

Would A Penis By Any Other Name... 16.05.2023

It's been identified. We also make some discoveries about 7th Heaven and The Secret Life of the American Teen. And then Meghan gushes over Jury Duty (the TV show, not the civic duty). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Loving Your Own Company 15.05.2023

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Teased about your friend with benefits Learning to enjoy you Annoying room mate Stop being so critical Don't Blame Them Girlfriend doesn't love me like she loved her ex Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.c...

To Know The Penis Is to Know Thy Penis 09.05.2023

Apparently it's Judd Apatow's. + Met Gala reviews continued. Follow along with us: https://www.vogue.com/slideshow/met-gala-2023-red-carpet-live-celebrity-fashion Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fart to the Face 08.05.2023

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Partner taking a dump in front of you Adult mean girls Rekindling a friendship Getting catfished Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.me...

But Am I Wrong Results: Going Off On An Ex + Met Gala Review 05.05.2023

Meghan and Melisa read the results from But Am I Wrong: Going Off On An Ex They also share their thoughts on Met Gala Fashion. Follow Along:https://www.vogue.com/slideshow/met-gala-2023-red-carpet-live-celebrity-fashion Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me Like She Loved Her Ex 01.05.2023

Fill out our survey! https://www.dontblameme.show/survey This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Not being happy for your friend in a relationship Girlfriend shared her inside thoughts Both the guys you're dating showing up to the hospital Best friend's girlfriend used to hook up with their work bully Don't Blame Them Standing up to racists Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/do...

But Am I Wrong Results: Shark Tat 28.04.2023

Meghan and Melisa share the results of But Am I Wrong: Shark Tat. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Going Off On An Ex 27.04.2023

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Stop ignoring the greatest health drink ever invented Meghan: Cancel interactive audience experiences But Are You Wrong: Hating your hateful relatives Confronting your ex Ending a friendship Sharing food storage But Are The Wrong: Arnold Schwarzenegger  Oklahoma Sheriff's Department Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://ww...

Fyre Fest 2 Is Coming 25.04.2023

Melisa is locked in and writing. Meghan is making new friends. They want nothing but the best for Ego Nwodim, and FYRE FEST IS BACK BABY. Invite us Billy. Take our survey: https://dontblameme.show/survey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How Not to Friend Zone Yourself 24.04.2023

Fill out our survey! https://www.dontblameme.show/survey This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Uncomfortable with partner drinking Inexperienced dating Telling your boss that you're going to grad school Don't Blame Them Yeast Infections Asking Boyfriend if He Would Sleep With my Friends Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.c...

But Am I Wrong Results: Post-It Notes 21.04.2023

Meghan and Melisa read the results from 4.13.2023. Please take our survey: https://www.dontblameme.show/survey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shark Tat 20.04.2023

Content Warning: Transphobia (last write in) But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Joining the LED light problem Melisa: Fake employees But Are You Wrong: Being friends with your friend's situationship Boyfriend who doesn't tip Standing up for a service worker Fixing a tattoo But Are The Wrong: Tennessee Republicans Kimesha Munford Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagra...

The Barbie Movie 18.04.2023

Meghan and Melisa talk about the Barbie movie, Meghan being scared by Santa and Melisa's delicious Easter meal. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Asking Boyfriend if He Would Sleep With my Friends 17.04.2023

Fill out our survey! https://www.dontblameme.show/survey This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Is this racist? Getting into a physical altercation with a friend Are we dating the same guy? Self-sabotoging Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.insta...

But Am I Wrong Results: Boyfriend is No Longer "In Love" With Me 14.04.2023

We're pitching a new idea for a show so make sure you listen! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Post-It Notes 13.04.2023

Content Warning: Suicidal Ideation (Call 3) But Am I Wrong: Melisa: declining to do free labor from a book publisher Meghan: naming adults, not babies But Are You Wrong: Friend's boyfriend who is afraid of needles Boyfriend being weird about a female friend Telling your ex's sister that he's depressed Wanting a clean working environment But Are The Wrong: Joanne Marian Segovia California Governmen...

I Did it My Way 11.04.2023

We're back! Meghan got a new car. Melisa is having a moment. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is This Racist? 10.04.2023

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: A friend's drinking problem Moving guilt Trying to get back with your ex Microaggressions Don't Blame Them: Not wanting to go to med school Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://tw...

REPLAY: His Mom Came to Our Anniversary Dinner 06.04.2023

Original Air Date: December 2, 2021 Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault, Racism, Anti-Semitism, Homophobia Melisa is tired of the media not holding men accountable and Meghan reported a woman who threatened her.  They then give their thoughts if a listener was wrong in the following situations: Mom wanting access to her college child’s information Boyfriend inviting his mom to his anniversary dinner I...

REPLAY - Guest: Jessi Smiles - Dog Licks Sheets After Sex 03.04.2023

Original Airdate: January 6th, 2020 Jessi Smiles joins us this week to answer your questions on what to do if your co-worker acts coldly around the guy you’re dating, how to handle your boyfriend making fun of your fake tan, easing your boyfriend’s concerns about selling feet pics, and confronting your boyfriend about his addiction to porn. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares their own advice on...

We're Struggling 28.03.2023

Meghan and Melisa are having a rough few days. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dad Asked Me to Sign Immigration Paperwork 27.03.2023

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: White person asking a Black classmate about white racism Apologizing to a friend that didn't understand boundaries Dad reappearing in your life Going on a trip with a cousin who may not be boosted Don't Blame Them: Telling your parents you aren't religious Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.inst...

Just Gabbing 24.03.2023

Since there wasn't a new episode of But Am I Wrong, we're just using this time to discuss: our love of Tabitha Brown, weird hair growth, Scandal, and milking nuts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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