Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

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Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

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Fyre Fest 2 Is Coming 25.04.2023 31:19

Melisa is locked in and writing. Meghan is making new friends. They want nothing but the best for Ego Nwodim, and FYRE FEST IS BACK BABY. Invite us Billy. Take our survey: https://dontblameme.show/survey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How Not to Friend Zone Yourself 24.04.2023 1:05:11

Fill out our survey! https://www.dontblameme.show/survey This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Uncomfortable with partner drinking Inexperienced dating Telling your boss that you're going to grad school Don't Blame Them Yeast Infections Asking Boyfriend if He Would Sleep With my Friends Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.c...

But Am I Wrong Results: Post-It Notes 21.04.2023 28:29

Meghan and Melisa read the results from 4.13.2023. Please take our survey: https://www.dontblameme.show/survey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shark Tat 20.04.2023 1:14:06

Content Warning: Transphobia (last write in) But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Joining the LED light problem Melisa: Fake employees But Are You Wrong: Being friends with your friend's situationship Boyfriend who doesn't tip Standing up for a service worker Fixing a tattoo But Are The Wrong: Tennessee Republicans Kimesha Munford Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagra...

The Barbie Movie 18.04.2023 42:25

Meghan and Melisa talk about the Barbie movie, Meghan being scared by Santa and Melisa's delicious Easter meal. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Asking Boyfriend if He Would Sleep With my Friends 17.04.2023 1:22:48

Fill out our survey! https://www.dontblameme.show/survey This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Is this racist? Getting into a physical altercation with a friend Are we dating the same guy? Self-sabotoging Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.insta...

But Am I Wrong Results: Boyfriend is No Longer "In Love" With Me 14.04.2023 20:44

We're pitching a new idea for a show so make sure you listen! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Post-It Notes 13.04.2023 1:14:04

Content Warning: Suicidal Ideation (Call 3) But Am I Wrong: Melisa: declining to do free labor from a book publisher Meghan: naming adults, not babies But Are You Wrong: Friend's boyfriend who is afraid of needles Boyfriend being weird about a female friend Telling your ex's sister that he's depressed Wanting a clean working environment But Are The Wrong: Joanne Marian Segovia California Governmen...

I Did it My Way 11.04.2023 31:40

We're back! Meghan got a new car. Melisa is having a moment. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is This Racist? 10.04.2023 1:19:40

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: A friend's drinking problem Moving guilt Trying to get back with your ex Microaggressions Don't Blame Them: Not wanting to go to med school Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://tw...

REPLAY: His Mom Came to Our Anniversary Dinner 06.04.2023 53:59

Original Air Date: December 2, 2021 Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault, Racism, Anti-Semitism, Homophobia Melisa is tired of the media not holding men accountable and Meghan reported a woman who threatened her. They then give their thoughts if a listener was wrong in the following situations: Mom wanting access to her college child’s information Boyfriend inviting his mom to his anniversary dinner I...

REPLAY - Guest: Jessi Smiles - Dog Licks Sheets After Sex 03.04.2023 1:12:34

Original Airdate: January 6th, 2020 Jessi Smiles joins us this week to answer your questions on what to do if your co-worker acts coldly around the guy you’re dating, how to handle your boyfriend making fun of your fake tan, easing your boyfriend’s concerns about selling feet pics, and confronting your boyfriend about his addiction to porn. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares their own advice on...

We're Struggling 28.03.2023 40:12

Meghan and Melisa are having a rough few days. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dad Asked Me to Sign Immigration Paperwork 27.03.2023 1:05:43

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: White person asking a Black classmate about white racism Apologizing to a friend that didn't understand boundaries Dad reappearing in your life Going on a trip with a cousin who may not be boosted Don't Blame Them: Telling your parents you aren't religious Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.inst...

Just Gabbing 24.03.2023 35:28

Since there wasn't a new episode of But Am I Wrong, we're just using this time to discuss: our love of Tabitha Brown, weird hair growth, Scandal, and milking nuts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Boyfriend is No Longer "In Love" With Me 23.03.2023 1:15:48

But Am I Wrong: Meghan - Blind items are fucked Melisa - Sharing Kate Campbell's thoughts on how we track violence But Are You Wrong: Brother's girlfriend who always makes snarky responses to your instagram If you should block your friend Being left in a club Love vs. In Love But Are They Wrong: The Weeknd and Sam Levinson Principal/Coach Philip Koons Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: v...

Do We Have a Mole? 21.03.2023 28:34

Melisa took a 24 hour trip to Las Vegas and separately met a new cool friend. Meghan has mouth sores, spent some quality time with her nephew, and is starting a new house project. They then discuss Law Roach retiring, and have a slightly delusional conversation about influence, Tony Goldwyn, and of course, Scandal. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your...

Not Wanting to be a Mean Girl 20.03.2023 1:26:52

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Trio Friendships Maneuvering a relationship with a transphobic friend Update Ex lying to sleep with someone (3.6.2023) Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmel...

But Am I Wrong Results: Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex (+Scandoval Pt 2) 17.03.2023 38:52

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex and then discuss more Vanderpump Rules even though they've never seen an episode. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

REPLAY: My Boyfriend Doesn't Want to Try to Have Sex Again 16.03.2023 1:07:43

Original Air Day Feb 17, 2022 Meghan believes that the upper middle class is worse than the rich. Melisa is over the commercialization of Valentine's Day, looking at you Build-A-Bear After Dark. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Strangers obsessing over your dog Not including a friend in your bridal shower Anti-vaxx classmate's mother's death Bad sex with long...

Wakanda Forever 14.03.2023 48:12

Meghan and Melisa discuss Black Panther: Wakanda Forever. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Guilt Over a Mutual Break Up 13.03.2023 1:05:27

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Telling your parents you aren't religious anymore Found out your boyfriend physically and emotionally cheated Losing your best friend/ex Don't Blame Them: Standing up to a parent, communicating with your partner, postpartum depression Becoming a Sugar Baby Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.inst...

But Am I Wrong Results: F Off, Partner (Plus Scandoval Chat) 10.03.2023 47:24

Meghan and Melisa share the results of BAIW: F Off Partner. The also recap the Scandoval... but have never watched Vanderpump Rules. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex 09.03.2023 1:16:39

For But Am I Wrong Meghan thinks that jobs should have built in maintenance/admin day Melisa believes that God is a cis man - based on period pains In But Am You Wrong: Boyfriend wants you to recreate his ex's sexy phot Sister's new boyfriend wants to attend your grandmothers' tombstone unveiling Reporting a teacher for being racist Boyfriend hanging out with his friends after being deployed And i...

LA Weather Woes + What We're Watching 07.03.2023 42:44

Meghan and Melisa discuss the stress the LA weather is putting them through, then chat about the TV shows they're watching: Scandal Poker Face Meredith's Exist From Grey's Anatomy Treason Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices