Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

Author

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dontblameme.show

Latest episode

Jul 6, 2026

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Episodes

FF: CHALLENGERS + But am I Wrong? Results - Wanting a "High Value Man" 10.05.2024

Meghan and Melisa discuss the results from the But Am I Wrong Episode: Wanting a "High Value Man" and then the incredible film CHALLENGERS. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BAIW: Husband Starting Standup Comedy 09.05.2024

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Drew Barrymore should stick to acting Meghan: Charging people to get out of debt is wrong But Are You Wrong: Selling stolen artwork Supporting your husband's delusional dream But Are They Wrong Youthforia, Jerry Seinfeld, Aaron Rodgers, Boeing and more! Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and....

SYNT: OVHO! 07.05.2024

This episode is a wild ride! Buckle up as Melisa celebrates Kendrick Lamar's diss track aimed at her least favorite rapper (you can probably guess who). Meghan discusses the whole Katherine Asplundh username debacle. We get an update on the important dip-n-dots legacy, and then talk about Barbara Streisand's social media Boomer moment. Need a break from reality? We've got you covered with a Kirsti...

DBM: Starting Birth Control 06.05.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update/Advice: Moving past a racist therapist (May 22, 2023) Boyfriend being jealous of guy friends Living with a partner for the first time Getting pranked Boyfriend using my instagram for his private time Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twi...

FF: But Am I Wrong Results - Reporting Influencers 03.05.2024

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BAIW CLASSIC: Boyfriend Want to Go Into Law Enforcement 02.05.2024

Original Air Date: Sep 15th 2022 For But Am I Wrong Meghan: Forbes Lists aren't real Melisa: We shouldn’t reward people for giving away money when they don’t need it In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Fixing a problem within a system Snitching on a "friend" And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate Meghan nominates Brittany Kerr Mel...

SYNT: Gratefulness, Gross Discoveries & New Beginnings! 30.04.2024

Ever wake up feeling full of thanks? Melisa starts the episode on a high note, sharing what she's grateful for. Meanwhile, Meghan's dealing with a creepy crawly situation involving... well, let's just say it's not ideal. (Hint: Think tiny, furry, and unwelcome!) Things are looking up for Melisa though! She dives into details about filming her new movie project. But wait, there's more! Meghan also...

DBM CLASSIC: Be An Informant 29.04.2024

Aug 29th 2022 Melisa tells about her day from hell and then... Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update - Boyfriend feels entitled to my body (10.1) Roommates left apartment filthy Inviting friend's toxic +1 to your wedding Kicked off ex's cellphone plan Don't Blame Them - Friend not supporting your move (10.6) Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new...

BAIW CLASSIC: Should I Ghost My Tinder Date? 25.04.2024

Original Air Date: Oct 13th 2022 For But Am I Wrong Melisa: Not speaking to have the check came (Note: LA restaurants don't split checks) Meghan: If something is cheap, someone is paying for it In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Exes mom wanting her son to visit your dog Someone thinking they/them pronouns are disrespectful Tinder date giving you the ick...

SYNT: New WNBA Fans 23.04.2024

This week, Meghan regales Melisa (again) with tales of Chapel Roan. Meghan visits her neighbors with chickens and tell them of Melisa's love of Grease Live. Plus, Mariska Hargitay proves she's a hero on and off-screen! In true WNBA fan fashion, the dynamic duo celebrates Caitlyn Clark's SNL appearance and reminisce about Kyla Pratt's iconic WNBA commercial intro. Meghan finally catches up on Hustl...

DBM: Flirting With An Older Coworker 22.04.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Lying cohorts Finishing school vs. taking a job Going into acting Boss wants to report a man flirting with me\ Don't Blame Them: Roommate Gets It In With The Door Open (4.15.2024) Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @m...

BAIW: Wanting a "High Value Man" 18.04.2024

Content Warning: Melisa's BATW - Child Trafficking But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Hiding behind Disney doesn't make you less racist Meghan: Streetlights are the new headlights But Are You Wrong: Difficult coworkers A friend who wants a dusty But Are They Wrong Meghan: Disney's disability program Melisa: Mother/Son Duo - Kedria Grisby and Roger Magee Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in th...

SYNT: Episode Description: Monopoly Mayhem, Movie Magic, and Desperate Housewives 16.04.2024

This week, Meghan and Melisa dive headfirst into the ruthless world of Monopoly GO! Will Meghan's epic mudslide come in handy during this cutthroat game? (Spoiler alert: probably not!) Plus, get ready for a double dose of soapy goodness. Meghan gets Mats hooked on Desperate Housewives, and Melisa recommends the addictive follow-up, Devious Maids. We also get a glimpse into Melisa's busy life! From...

DBM: Roommate Gets It In With the Door Open 15.04.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Friend is a Pickmeisha Being the nosey neighbor Mom doesn't trust men Bestie has sex with the door open Don't Blame Them: ADHD in the workplace (4.8.2024) Book Rec: Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter....

BAIW: Reporting Influencers 11.04.2024

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Liking animals more than you like humans is a red flag Melisa: Going to an alpha male bootcamp is the most beta male thing you can do, next to running an alpha male bootcamp But Are You Wrong: Disclosing paid sponsorships Declining inheritance But Are They Wrong Meghan: Sam Doll Melisa: Wet Pants Denim Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on...

SYNT: Cowboy Carter 09.04.2024

Ever wonder what the difference is between a question and a quandary? We do! Join Meghan and Melisa as they delve into the world of words and Spelling Bees. This week's challenge: Quamoclit. Do you know what that means? We also dish on the latest pop culture happenings. Did Meghan conquer "The Holdovers" and "Dumb Money"? Did Melisa live up to her weekend plans of Beyonce marathons and country cro...

DBM: Student Won't Hold Brown Kids' Hands 08.04.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: ADHD in the workplace Can't get off from penetration Student being taught racism Leaning on your partner during mental health struggle Don't Blame Them: Getting Your Sister Out of a Bad Relationship (3/25/2024) Book Rec: Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisn...

FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: My Hookup Said "I Love You" 05.04.2024

Meghan and Melisa read the results for But Am I Wrong episode: My Hookup Said "I Love You" Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BAIW: Putting Your Daughter on Birth Control 04.04.2024

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: DEI Is the new "n" word with a hard "r" Meghan: Writing is for women But Are You Wrong: Preventing a teenage pregnancy Going to church on Easter But Are They Wrong Melisa: Mario Perron Meghan: Men punching women in NYC Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://stor...

SYNT: Have You Ever Had A Warm Nut In Your Mouth? 02.04.2024

Hold onto your Stetsons, because Melisa and Meghan are back for another episode of See You Next Tuesday. Get ready for deep dives into celebrity news, wild tangents, and maybe a sprinkle of digital stalking (don't worry, it's all in good fun). This episode is packed with: Movie Magic: The gals brainstorm dream projects for Elizabeth Banks, and Anne Hathaway's press tour takes a hilarious turn. Gre...

DBM: Help With Sex 01.04.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Making your own friends Moving on from a bad friendship but she's your boyfriend's sister Not enjoying sex Tired of being a bridesmaid Don't Blame Them: Talking to your red-state of mind family members (From Episode My Friend's Friends Don't Treat Me Like a Friend - 3/25/2024) Sex Toy Recs: The Rose Heartthrob The Snail Book Rec: Supercommunicators...

BAIW: My Hookup Said "I Love You" 28.03.2024

But Am I Wrong: Meghan - Airplanes Are The New Printers Melisa: A Rant on Hypocritical Politicians and TikTok But Are You Wrong: Love and a 2 year fling Referring a "friend" for a job But Are They Wrong Meghan: Nickelodeon Melisa: Starbucks Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store....

SYNT: Foxes, Fan Girls & Fantasy! 26.03.2024

This episode is a wild ride! First, Melisa digs up a heartwarming story about humans dressing up as foxes to stop imprinting that leads Meghan on a tangent about her enduring love for Kristen Stewart. Buckle up, Twilight fans! Then, things get heated when Melisa reveals a shocking truth: Meghan has never seen "The Craft!" Prepare for a deep dive into 90s nostalgia (and maybe some unsolicited movie...

DBM: My Friend's Friends Don't Treat Me Like a Friend 25.03.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Getting Your Sister Out of a Bad Relationship (January 29, 2024) Getting stood up by your "friends" Telling your conservative parents you're moving in with your boyfriend Talking to your red-state of mind family members Hypothetical questions to ask your partner Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanr...

FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: Ghosting Your Therapist 22.03.2024

Meghan and Melisa share the result from But Am I Wrong: Ghosting Your Therapist. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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