Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

Author

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dontblameme.show

Latest episode

Jul 6, 2026

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Episodes

BAIW: Is it Fall Yet? 12.08.2024

But Am I Wrong: Melisa - Stop the trans attacks on athletes Meghan - Stop accepting apologies that are not for you But Are You Wrong Sister's family wants to stay in your small apartment Decorating for Hallowing But Are They Wrong Melisa - Nassau County/Mask Ban Meghan - Tasha Paige Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.megha...

FF: Birthdays, Twisters, The Sims, and a Side of Seine 09.08.2024

Meghan and Melisa dive deep into a whirlwind of topics this week! From birthday celebrations and movie nights to Olympic obsessions and gaming adventures, this episode has it all. Meghan spills the tea on her newfound love for "Twisters" while Melisa introduces us to her latest obsession, "The Sims." They also debate the hottest sport at the Olympics. Plus, Melisa’s literary success continues to s...

DBM: Extreme Almond Mom 08.08.2024

Content Warning for Submission #4 - Disordered Eating This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: If you should get married Repairing a friendship Loneliness after a breakup Mom trying to force you into dieting Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamond...

SYNT: But Am I Wrong Results - Bride Wants a Clean Cut Wedding 06.08.2024

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Bride Wants a Clean Cut Wedding. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BAIW: Boyfriend is Too Close to His Girl Friend 05.08.2024

But Am I Wrong: Meghan - Get rid of Non-Olympic sports in the Olympics  Melisa - Men's gymnastics needs more sparkle But Are You Wrong Asking your boyfriend to set boundaries with his female friend Wanting your boyfriend to keep his gory work stories away from the dinner table But Are They Wrong Meghan - Danielle Bernstein Melisa - Gavin Newsome Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in...

FF: Wedding Bells and Olympic Dreams 02.08.2024

Join Melisa and Meghan as they dive into the world of wedding planning and novel writing! Did Meghan find the one dress? Find out in this week's episode. From a Grease-filled movie night turned bug-infested nightmare to Olympic-inspired hobbies, this episode has it all. Plus, Melisa has a major petition for Beyonce that you won't want to miss. Get ready for laughs, drama, and plenty of girl talk!...

DBM: Inviting a Third Into the Bedroom 01.08.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Asking your date about their goals Girlfriend is awful at communicating Super messy friend Talking to your spouse about a threesome Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Need Adv...

SYNT: BAIW Wrong Results - People Think I Hooked Up With My Roomie 30.07.2024

ANNOUNCEMENT: We have a new schedule! Monday - But Am I Wrong? Tuesday - See You Next Tuesday (But Am I Wrong Votes) Thursday - Don't Blame Me! Friday - Fisting Friday (Weekly Catch Up) Meghan and Melisa share the results from the But Am I Wrong episode that aired Jul 18th 2024. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoi...

BAIW: Pillow Ear Sympathizer 29.07.2024

ANNOUNCEMENT: We have a new schedule! Monday - But Am I Wrong? Tuesday - See You Next Tuesday (But Am I Wrong Votes) Thursday - Don't Blame Me! Friday - Fisting Friday (Weekly Catch Up) But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Stop spreading lies about Kamala Harris Meghan: You need to let American people play British people with bad accents But Are You Wrong Paying for a birthday dinner Believing that violence is...

FF: New Schedule, New Ventures, New Drama 26.07.2024

ANNOUNCEMENT: We have a new schedule! Monday - But Am I Wrong? Tuesday - See You Next Tuesday (But Am I Wrong Votes) Thursday - Don't Blame Me! Friday - Fisting Friday (Weekly Catch Up) Meghan and Melisa are officially business partners! Get ready for exciting updates on their new venture. We're diving headfirst into the Love Is Blind finale drama, and then switching gears to discuss the potential...

BAIW: Bride Wants a Clean Cut Wedding 25.07.2024

But Am I Wrong: Meghan - The Olympics should only be in a handful of cities, forever. Melisa - The National Anthem should be sung at games at the skill level that the country is operating at at the moment. But Are You Wrong: Bride wants bridesmaids to cover our tats Friends want to borrow my unreliable car But Are They Wrong Meghan - Sticker Mules Melisa - Delta Airlines Write In: butamiwrongpod@g...

SYNT: It's a Hodgepodge of Hot Topics! 23.07.2024

Meghan's on a mission! Can she finally convince Melisa to find love on Love Island? ️Meanwhile, Melisa flips the script and introduces Meghan to the wild world of... Raw Dogging Flights? Buckle up! ✈️ Plus: The latest on the Cody Ko drama - what does Brittany Broski think? Melisa makes a shocking announcement: she's retiring from gaming! (But what's next?) Donna Kelce is joining the cast of Holida...

DBM: Don’t Know My Sex Buddy’s Name 22.07.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Content Warning: Body weight for submission #3  Introducing your dad to your partner Everyone’s Living Their Best Lives, And I’m In Debt Dealing with trolls online as a microinfluencer Calling your hook up by his embarrassing nickname Don’t Blame Them: Quitting Your Hobby Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanri...

FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: Depriving Kids of Independence Day 19.07.2024

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong Episode: Depriving Kids of Independence Day. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BAIW: People Think I Hooked Up With My Roomie 18.07.2024

Content Warning: Baby Death (Meghan's BATW) But Am I Wrong: Melisa - Don’t be a greedy bitch and pay people what they’re worth Meghan - Billboard needs to cap chart rankings But Are You Wrong: Questioned about dating your room mate Babysitter not doing activities with kids But Are They Wrong Melisa - Oklahoma Judge Brian Lovell Meghan - Matthew and Alyssa Wroblewski Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail....

SYNT: Love Island and General Hospital Controversies 16.07.2024

Meghan's got a lip-smackingly bad week! A mosquito bite and a broken AC have her feeling the heat. But that’s not all - she’s diving headfirst into the drama of Love Island, sharing her hot takes on the latest controversies. Melisa's got a juicy General Hospital tale that’ll make your jaw drop - we're talking weird incest storylines! And Meghan's on a mission to convert Melisa into a Derry Girls d...

DBM: My Parents Hate That I’m Single 15.07.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Staying in a relationship while going to different colleges (June 10, 2024) Unblocking your family after a fight Getting out of going to college Making a great living but hating your job Finding out your parter swiped right to men on Tinder Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com...

FF: But Am I Wrong? - Backing Out of a Date 12.07.2024

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong from July 4, 2024. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BAIW: Depriving Kids of Independence Day 11.07.2024

But Am I Wrong: Meghan - Catch and release fishing is inhumane Melisa - Hosting is letting people into your home and they need to follow your fucking rules But Are You Wrong: Not attending a mean girl's party Not celebrating July 4th But Are They Wrong Meghan - MyKayla Skinner Melisa - Dutch National Olympic Committee, International Volleyball Federation, Steven Van de Velde Write In: butamiwrongp...

SYNT: Fireworks Fury and Summer Struggles 09.07.2024

Melisa and Meghan are firing off about the never-ending fireworks. To cool down, Melisa unveils a strange summer treat (you won't believe it!), and then they commiserate over their terrible allergies. Buckle up for some science as Melisa explains the L.A. mosquito problem. Plus, she shares an update on her Vicks experiment (spoiler alert: it's interesting!). Meghan spills the tea on Olivia Culpo's...

DBM: Basing Your Self-Worth On the Love From Another 08.07.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Working with a verbally abusive boss (June 3, 2024) How not to be in a relationship Pacing yourself in dating Establishing boundaries and labels Calling it quits in a friendship Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa in...

BAIW: Backing Out of a Date 04.07.2024

But Am I Wrong: Melisa - Stop disrespecting Angel Reese Meghan - Bring more chairs into the workforce But Are You Wrong: Giving false hope to a potential date Sharing thoughts on a former classmate But Are They Wrong Melisa - Donald Ray Lantz and Jeanne Kay Whitefeather Meghan - Cody Ko Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.m...

SYNT: This Week's Regrets 02.07.2024

This week, Meghan and Melisa are feeling...backed up. Let's just say they're both taking for granted the simple joys of daily regularity. In a desperate attempt to escape the beige food era (think beige walls, beige clothes, beige...), they dive into their recent DNA test results (thanks, 23andMe!). But enough about their guts and genes! They also dish on Victoria Monet's new sister, dissect a rec...

DBM: Nagging for Sex 01.07.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Chain-gate Keeping a hobby Traveling with men for work Sister bringing up sexual orientation  Husband is mad at no postpartum sex Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Need Advic...

FF: But Am I Wrong? Results - Caught Insta-Stalking 28.06.2024

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong? published on June 13, 2024. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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