Do You Ever Feel Like?

The gals discuss girl dinner, the internet and everyone taking everything too seriously... it ain't that deep. But and also? Is it? 🧐 CW: eating disorders, food addiction They discuss: Why Jacque cannot seem to clap at the same time as Phoebe Phoebe's plans for her 29th birthday What exactly is girl dinner?  Why did the Summer of the girl have us so on fire?  Women, domestic labor, and food -- So...

In a twist of horrible irony this episode came out "late" (time is fake) because the girlies were...going out too much. We are now  back home safe on our couches. 💆🏻‍♀️ Jacque asks, Do You Ever Feel Like...leaving your house? Obviously, no. The girlies chat: The news, internet, media literacy, and advocacy and activism  Women and running 🏃‍♀️ Sucking it up and leaving the house  What maybe Kim...

~Editing Phoebe note~ The audio is a bit goofy for the first 10ish minutes  of the episode but gets better after the intro! Thanks for stickin with us 💕 The girlies discuss HOW to have a Gilmore Girl Autumn, embracing the basic in us all, the intersection of Christian Girl Autumn, dumb ass Pharrell felt hats, and slapping on some pumpkin spice and hittin the town for a fall activity!  Thank you f...

Introducing our first guest back from Summer break, Alexis Rockley! Alexis chats about her practice, the personal growth industrial complex, capitalism and self care, and how to stay true to yourself and your purpose inside of a world that makes that hard.  We chat: practicing unmasking - who gets to show up authentically in a space? reimagining a new world for all  idea seeds - art and creativity...

WE'RE BACK!  Is it still Season 2?! Is it Season 3!? Who knows? Who cares!  Jacqueline asks "Do you ever feel like...you're a bridezilla?" Phoebe and Jacque explore the wedding patriarchy trap, and question if women ever really have a choice? Jacqueline shares her messy, vulnerable, "shouldn't"- say-out-loud feelings about having a wedding party and wearing a white dress.  OTHER FUN TIDBITS: SUMME...

This week Phoebe asks...do you ever feel like...it's really okay to talk about the climate? The girlies chat all about the one thing people don't want to talk about...the climate.  They examine: Why does talking about the climate ends in... crickets? Their own implicit bias around "environmentalists"  Intersectional Environmentalism  What talking about the climate does to our nervous systems and h...

*A CORRECTION* Janelle Monáe uses they/them pronouns. This week Jacque asks...do you ever feel like...going on a trip? The girlies plan trips and travels and running around the world!  They discuss: the difference between a trip vs. a vacation where they wanna go the rituals of travel in a social media world and while also/always holding two things at the same time - they ask: who gets to travel?...

A secret third thing this week! Jacque and Phoebe ask... do you ever feel like making business feel like art? We think a new world is possible, and we will guide you through in this little mini workshop pod!  OTHER FUN TIDBITS: A PLAY!  WORKSHOP: What if Business Felt Like Art? Using your creativity and genius, let’s reimagine your business as art, and your art as business. We zero in on what you...

This week the girlies ponder… do you ever feel like being a teenager again? Phoebe brings the nostalgia in a deep dive exploration of what it means to be a teenager, how we should leave teenagers alone (and also protect them fiercely) and how we can all embrace our inner teen spirit!  We chat The very special gift and journey of being a teen, and what we can learn from teenagers How we should just...

CW: We chat body stuff, reproductive rights, and access to healthcare in this episode. Take care of yourself! This week the girlies wonder… how do we not bleed all over our jeans each month? Is free bleeding the answer? Should we be ashamed and why do I feel so horrible on the 15th day of the month? Periods have been treated as something to be ashamed of or hidden away – Consiously Cait aka Caitli...

Today the girlies are back and Jacques asks, do you ever feel like you're Anti Anti-Ageing? Where we're taking on the multi-billion dollar anti-aging industry. Every day, we're bombarded with ads promising to turn back the clock, to smooth out wrinkles and erase lines. But who is really benefitting from our insecurities and .... who gets to actually age? Phoebe screams about sueing all the men tha...

This week Phoebe asks: Do you ever feel like...being in your capitalist girl boss era? The girlies discuss their ever evolving relationship to work, running a business, work life balance, and the girl boss era's negative impact on women. They discuss the martyrdom grind, the intersections of capitalism and feminism, and what really is "the work"? They question if anyone even has the discipline any...

CW: We chat about bodily fluidy stuff on this episode, if you're a queasy babe - proceed lightly.  Do you ever feel like...you're/we are too obsessed with your/our romantic relationships? Phoebe and Jacque discuss the mindfuck that is being a human walking around everyday with other humans, the falsities and let downs of romantic relationships, and if all of these "couples resources" are actually...

Phoebe + Jacque are joined by Emily Cassel (Founder + CEO of WMNûp). They discuss being a woman in all the ways...in friendship, in business, in relationships, on the internet. Emily shares what guides her in business and life, running an ethical business as a woman, the coaching industry, and her most recent pivot to launch WMNûp. OTHER FUN TIDBITS: CULT DOCUMENTARIES! Big thank you to Emily for...

We're BACK! The girlies are back with SEASON TWO of DYEFL! Phoebe + Jacque discuss their break, where Season two is headed (werk, b***h), and Phoebe asks "Do you ever feel like... you want to be a stay at home girlfriend?" They discuss the choices within feminism, what a new world of work and labor would even look like, and how the TikTok trend may be onto something... Other fun tidbits: NEW PATRE...

The girlies celebrate SEASON ONE of Do You Ever Feel Like with a Holiday extravaganza eleganza, a wrap of their fans and favs, the good stuff this year, a year in review, plus the Do You Ever Feel Like Big Fat Quiz of 2022 where Phoebe ruins Jacqueline's life!  We will be back for season two at the end of January but for now you can find us here! 👇 Thank you so much for supporting Season One of D...

This week Phoebe and Jacque are joined by the incredible Flory Huang! The gals chat all about exploring and playing through life, the problematic side of the mindfulness/burnout/rest IG carousel world, and the deep exploration and trust that comes with truly answering the creative call. Flory chats through the shifts and changes of seeking a creative life, how they listen in and trust, and how to...

Jacque asks Phoebe: Do you ever feel like... everyone is having more sex than you? Phoebe and Jacque discuss the obnoxious and very irrelevant (but also somehow still influential) question of how much sex is enough sex. They discuss how millennials are redefining what is important in their sex lives, our societal obsession with the sex lives of partnered people, and how these questions pop up in t...

ATTN: This conversation lit up a lot in Phoebe + Jacque and is definitely turning into a series. Folks out there parenting/mothering or folks out there that made the decision not to mother - please write us, leave an anchor message, dm us a voice note - whatever! We want to hear from you and your stories around becoming (or not becoming) a parent.  --  Phoebe asks: is motherhood a scam? In a maybe...

Jacqueline asks, do you ever feel like... women are the project managers of the world? Phoebe and Jacque yell about the burdens women carry such as over responsibility for family, friendships, partnerships, jobs, and like...the world. They discuss all women are considering, thinking, planning, at any given time - and where this emotional labor started and stems from. They also ask YOU listener - w...

Phoebe surprises Jacque with the question of the season: Do you ever feel like Gilmore Girls won't go away? Phoebe and Jacque discuss why Gilmore Girls still has such a grip on us all, the good, bad, and annoying of the show, as well as their personal critique and relationship to the show. Other fun tidbts: the lalalalas + A GAME!  Thank you for listening to  DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE?  Follow and rat...

Phoebe and Jacque ask their FIRST GUEST (Podcast Expert and Host of "In My Non Expert Opinion"), Chelsea Riffe: Do you ever feel like you're not an expert? Chelsea shares about showing up consistently, being messy, why podcasts are needed, why you should make the thing that exists anyways, and attachment styles. Thank you, thank you to Chelsea for coming on the pod! Thank you for listening to  DO...

Jacque asks: Do you ever feel like you cancel everything all the time? Phoebe and Jacque discuss the elements of cancelling, the expectations of cancelling, and how what you cancel on may be able to tell you a lot about yourself and your relationships. Other fun tidbits: ALL THE THINGS WE NEED TO SLEEP! Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get y...

Phoebe and Jacque discuss using all the tools to be OKAY, and everything they need to stay okay. They discuss intersectionality, consumerism, conflict vs. abuse, celebrity, their own internalized misogyny, and how we ALL hate women. Other fun tidbits: MERCURY RETROGRADE.  Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE?   Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts!  Our artwork is...

Phoebe and Jacque discuss the complication of friends, friendship, codependency, vulnerability, and if they are alone in the everyone-seems-to-think-they-are-closer-to-me-then-I-feel-to-them-feeling? Other fun tidbits: Jacque YELLS about wedding planning stress, Phoebe and Jacque are craving less, a check in about how they think the pod is going, and dogs barking! Thank you for listening to DO YOU...