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Todd and I continue to take a deep dive into the divorce process to explain why divorce cases can take so long.  This is the second part of a three part series, and we continue to explore examples of how little things can cause a case to take longer than we feel like it should.   Our hope is that this information will give you the tools to make decisions that shorten the process rather than expand...

One of the biggest complaints we hear from clients is that their divorce is taking too long.  Interestingly enough, we agree with those complaints.  The process can take too long, and the lawyers often become just as frustrated as the clients about the length of the divorce process.  In this episode, Todd and I begin to take a deeper dive into the divorce process, starting with the very beginning....

In a divorce context, communicating poorly can be as dangerous as pouring gasoline on a fire.  To help prevent that from happening, Leh and Todd break down some of the most common pitfalls in a divorce situation and how to avoid them.  They discuss the reasons why communication becomes harder in a divorce.  They also lay out the hierarchy of effective communication forms.  They explain why you sho...

Dr. Gary Chapman's book, The 5 Love Languages, has sold over 12 million copies and been translated into 50 different languages.  He has authored over 40 books and his life has been dedicated to building healthy, happy marriages.  In this rare opportunity, Leh and Todd interview Dr. Chapman.  During the interview, he shares his inspiration for the book, unpacks the 5 Love Languages, and discusses h...

Choosing the right lawyer for you can be intimidating.  In this episode, Leh Meriwether and Todd Orston break down what you need to know when choosing the right lawyer for you.  They answer some common questions, such as:  Do legal 'awards' matter?  Does the law school they went to matter?  Can I rely on online reviews?  Are there advantages to hiring a lawyer that specializes in my situation?  Wh...

In this show, Leh and Todd discuss a common struggle they see in many divorce cases . . . difficulty prioritizing the divorce action.  It can lead to all kinds of problems, including a poor outcome, higher attorney's fees, and a whole lot of frustration (just to name a few).  Tune in to learn why prioritization is so important; how it to make it a priority even when life throws you a curve ball; a...

One of the most powerful things you can do to help you get through a divorce, increase your likelihood of an amicable resolution, and make sure you learn from the experience is to own your part in the marriage and the divorce.  This can be painful to think about and hard to hear.  We are the worst at looking ourselves in the mirror.  In this show, Leh and Todd break down the 7 benefits of Owning Y...

In this show, Leh and Todd interview Audrey Silcox , the creator of Divorce Tool Box .  Audrey is a counselor,  Certified Divorce and Family Mediator, and divorce educator who has worked with divorcing couples since 1996.  She put Divorce Tool Box together for people to help them make good decisions during a stressful and complicated process.  It is designed to compliment the advice that your lawy...

Arguably the worst part of a divorce is its impact on children.  Most parents want to limit the emotional harm to their children, but they just don't know how.  In this episode, Todd and Leh interview Dr. Howard Drutman, the author of Divorce: The Art of Screwing Up Your Children.  They discuss the do's and don'ts of breaking the news to your children.  He shares some valuable insight into how chi...

If divorce has become your only option, breaking the news to your spouse the right way can set the tone for an amicable divorce.  Of course, that is not an easy conversation.  Sometimes it is easier in the short term to just hire a lawyer and let them handle those conversations. But, that usually is not the best way to start the case.  In this episode, we interview licensed, professional counselor...

This show is for those that have reached a point where divorce is upon them.  What do you do to plan an exit strategy that sets you up for an amicable divorce?  Is there a way to plan that will help minimize the harm to the children?  In this show, Todd and Leh talk about 6 essential steps to set yourself up for success.  If you or someone you know is at that stage, then this is something you and...

In today's show, we take on more challenging fact patterns.  These are real problems that some people are currently facing.  Leh and Todd tackle questions such as:  Who gets custody of the children if both parents are going to jail?  What is a mutual restraining order? When do I need an attorney for a trial?  Should I give my parents permanent guardianship?  If a parent is not involved with the ch...

In today's show, we take on some challenging fact patterns.  These are real problems that some people are currently facing.  Leh and Todd tackle questions such as:  What do you do to get custody of your grandchildren when both parents are addicted to meth and DFACS does not seem to be doing anything about it?  What do you do when your 13 year old comes home and tells you that she was the designate...

When someone manufactures evidence to have you arrested and gain an advantage in a divorce, what do you do?  How can you survive something so horrible?  Is there way to get through it and still have a positive outcome?   Leh and Todd explore several examples of bad and  worst case scenarios, how to navigate through those situations, and what were the ultimate outcomes.  Sometimes truth is stranger...

Untwinning the finances of two lives isn't easy.  If you aren't careful to attend to your finances, you can quickly find yourself in a major credit hole with no easy way out.  After that, good luck financing a home, car, or business investment with a damaged credit history.  Fortunately, the more you learn, the better you are able to manage your credit both during and after a divorce.  In this sho...

The Legal Process, especially in a divorce or family law action, is frustrating.  There is no question about it.  This leaves you with two options.  You can either choose to continue to be miserable and frustrated.  Or, you can learn about the process, change your mindset, and do something about it so that you can get through your divorce with considerably less headache.  In this episode, Todd and...

If you are a parent, then you already know how stressful the holidays can be. There are so many events to stay on top of and too little time to get all your to do's done, let alone trying to budget for all the upcoming expenses. When you add a divorce to the mix, it can be simply overwhelming for many. We routinely see parents who are in the middle of a divorce or have just gone through a divorce...

Do Vampires get divorced?  Does Frankenstein have a legitimate defense to his family violence action? Can Wolfman get out of a huge child support obligation?  If you are interested in hearing from these classic celebrities and the family law issues they face, then you won't want to miss the Meriwether & Tharp Radio Halloween special.  Apart from having a little fun,  Todd  and Leh managed to get t...

We have been fortunate to have a radio show on the air for nearly a year now, sharing important information with those who need it.  In September of this year, we were honored with the opportunity to move our radio show to NewsRadio 106.7 FM.  For our first show on the new station, we tried something a little different.  With a little dramatic flair, we discuss hypothetical situations based on pas...

There are a growing number of resources available for couples in crisis or married couples that want to take their marriage to the next level. The biggest challenge is getting the word out.  In this show, Leh talks to Tim Doughtery of Three Cord Strand , a faith based marriage ministry.  Tim and his wife Barbara have an 80% success rate for their Marriage Intensive weekends.  In other words, of th...

In this show, we are going to get into a topic that people tend to ignore a bit, or take for granted.  They set it and forget it.  What I am talking about is retirement accounts.  Most people set up a 401k or are part of a pension plan, but do not pay that close attention to it after setting it up.  Then, when we get to a divorce, they just assume it will be divided and do not pay attention to the...

If you or a loved one is dealing with a divorce situation involving children, coming up with a winning parenting plan can be challenging and painful.  In this show, David Canale and Leh Meriwether had the opportunity to talk with Marsha Schechtman , a Co-Parenting Counselor and Coordinator, about what parents can do to improve their chances to develop a winning parenting plan that works for them a...

In most divorces, the marital home is one of the larger assets.  It is also the place where the children grew up.  In many situations, however, parties buy a home together, but do not get married.  In this show, Leh and Todd interview real estate attorney  Jon Gottlieb  to the explore the challenges that Real Estate Law can bring to unmarried couples and married couples when their relationships fa...

Learning can be challenging sometimes, especially when the subject matter is painful or emotional.  One effective way to digest good information is through satire and sarcasm.  Humor can often break through certain learning barriers to help us learn better behaviors.   Dr. Howard Drutman has taken this form of teaching to a whole new level in his book: Divorce: The Art of Screwing Up Your Children...

In this show, Leh and Todd break down some big picture questions in a modification of child custody action .  Here are some of the questions they answer: When can you Bring a Child Custody Action? What is a "substantial change in circumstances"? What are some examples of substantial changes in circumstances? When should you not bring a modification of child custody action? This show is a must list...