Divorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family Law

Top 5 Tips for Anyone Considering a Premarital Agreement In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya is joined by senior associate Elizabeth Rose Hardman to discuss the top five tips for anyone considering a premarital agreement in Colorado. Unlike prior episodes that focused on the litigation risks and challenges to prenups, this conversation highlights the practical benefits of premar...

Understanding Financial Abuse in Divorce  In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya speaks with Lisa Zeiderman, a New York matrimonial attorney and expert on financial abuse. Lisa shares how financial abuse often shows up in marriage and divorce, why it is fundamentally about control, and what victims can do to protect themselves. The conversation explores the warning signs of financi...

Ryan unravel the complexities of permanent alimony or maintenance in a Colorado divorce from understanding the actual meaning of 'permanent' in this context to exploring the modification of spousal support post-divorce.  Leaning on real-world examples, Ryan further explains the purpose behind spousal support and its role in transitioning a party towards self-sufficiency and will help you...

Lessons from a Sabbatical, Perspective, and Preventing Burnout In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha step away from legal doctrine and court strategy to talk about something equally important for professionals and families alike: rest, perspective, and burnout prevention. Ryan shares insights from his two-month sabbatical in Spain and Portugal, where he traveled wit...

Kevin Costner’s Divorce, Prenuptial Agreements, and Discovery Battles In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss the highly publicized divorce of Kevin Costner and Christine Baumgartner, focusing on the legal issues surrounding their premarital agreement. While the case is based in California and the hosts are not involved, they use the headlines and reported fac...

Parental alienation is a frequently used term in custody cases, but it's essential to understand that there are two distinct types: unintentional and intentional parental alienation. In this re-broadcasted informative discussion with Ryan Kalamaya on Divorce at Altitude, family law attorney Jill Coil highlights the differences between these types and provides practical strategies and advice f...

Are Maintenance Waivers in Prenuptial Agreements Enforceable in Colorado? In this short educational episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya explains what happens in a Colorado divorce when a premarital agreement includes a waiver of maintenance. Many couples sign prenuptial agreements before marriage that attempt to eliminate spousal support obligations, but Ryan explains that these waivers...

Understanding a Maintenance Buyout in a Colorado Divorce | Divorce at Altitude In this short how-to episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya explains what a maintenance buyout means in a Colorado divorce and how it works in practice. He breaks down the concept using the podcast’s hypothetical divorce clients, Eric and Melanie Wolf, to show how a lump-sum payment can replace future monthly ma...

Positive Divorce, Mediation, and the Better Apart Approach | Divorce at Altitude In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya speaks with Gabrielle Hartley, a family lawyer, mediator, author, and creator of the Better Apart approach to divorce. Gabrielle shares her personal connection to divorce, her experience growing up in a highly functional divorced family, and how that shaped her ph...

Understanding Temporary Alimony in Colorado Divorce | Divorce at Altitude In this short Divorce at Altitude lesson, Ryan Kalamaya explains the concept of temporary alimony, known in Colorado as temporary maintenance. He walks listeners through what temporary maintenance is, when it applies, and how it differs from what many people commonly refer to as permanent alimony. Ryan uses the example of th...

Podcast Summary: Understanding High-Conflict Divorce | Divorce at Altitude In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Amy Goscha is joined by mediator and divorce coach Liz Merrill to discuss the realities of high-conflict divorce. Liz shares both her professional insight and personal experience, explaining how high-conflict cases differ from typical divorce matters and why they require a more thoug...

In this short how-to episode, Ryan Kalamaya gives a short introduction into the topic of spousal support, also known as alimony or maintenance, as part of our comprehensive coverage of support issues in a Colorado divorce.  The most important thing when it comes to spousal support is that it hinges on the distribution of property. We will explore other factors such as income, reasonable needs, and...

Temporary vs. Permanent Alimony in Colorado Divorce In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya explains the key differences between Temporary alimony and what is commonly referred to as Permanent alimony, also known in Colorado as spousal maintenance. Financial support after divorce can significantly impact both spouses, and understanding how Colorado courts evaluate maintenance is cri...

Podcast Summary: Navigating Premarital Agreements and Family Wealth | Divorce at Altitude In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Jennifer Goode, a former attorney and now Director of the Institute for Trusts and Estates at Bernstein Private Wealth Management. Jennifer discusses the importance of premarital agreements, asset protection, and financial planning when famil...

Podcast Summary: Navigating Divorce and Business with Jennifer Goode | Divorce at Altitude In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Jennifer Goode, a former attorney turned Director of Trusts and Estates at Bernstein Private Wealth Management. They discuss premarital agreements, asset protection, and how to handle difficult financial decisions before, during, and after d...

Podcast Summary: Navigating Divorce and Business Values | Divorce at Altitude In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Peter Glennon, a business lawyer and divorce attorney based in Rochester, New York. Together, they discuss the intersection of business values, mission statements, and navigating divorce when a business is involved. Peter shares his expertise on how busi...

Podcast Summary: Achieving Balance as a Lawyer | Divorce at Altitude In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya is joined by his good friend and fellow lawyer, Luke Van Arsdale, to discuss the concept of balance—especially in the legal profession. Luke, the founding partner of JVAM, a law firm specializing in real estate, business litigation, and transactional work, shares his insights...

Podcast Summary: Navigating Divorce with Children with Special Needs | Divorce at Altitude In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss the unique challenges of divorcing when children with special needs are involved. They delve into the critical aspects of parenting plans, medical and educational services, and the impact of stress on children during divorce. Tracy...

How to Deal with a Narcissist in Divorce: Top 3 Tips | Divorce at Altitude Podcast In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha are joined by Tracy Malone, an international divorce coach and author, to discuss how to navigate a divorce with a narcissist. In this two-part series, they explore the top three tips for dealing with a narcissist before, during, and after the div...

What to Do If You Think Your Spouse Is Hiding Money in Divorce | Divorce at Altitude Podcast In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss the often complex issue of asset hiding in divorce. If you suspect that your spouse is hiding money or assets, it’s critical to understand how to recognize the signs, what steps to take, and the legal remedies available to uncove...

Staying Safe Leaving an Abusive Spouse: Top 10 Tips | Divorce at Altitude Podcast In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha are joined by Tracy Malone, an international coach specializing in narcissistic divorces and abuse. Together, they provide practical advice for those leaving abusive relationships, especially when children are involved. The episode focuses on how t...

International Child Custody & Parental Kidnapping: A Conversation with Brian Walters | Divorce at Altitude Podcast In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss the complex issues surrounding international child custody and parental kidnapping. Joined by Brian Walters, a family law attorney based in Texas, they dive deep into the legal challenges that arise when...

Divorce Arbitration in Colorado | Divorce at Altitude Podcast In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss Divorce Arbitration in Colorado and its role in resolving post-divorce disputes. The episode covers the pros and cons of using arbitration, especially for family law matters like parenting decisions, child support, and asset division. They explore how arbitrat...

Parenting Coordinators and Decision Makers in Colorado Family Law | Divorce at Altitude Podcast In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha are joined by David Lamb, a family law attorney with vast experience in child protection and domestic violence cases. David shares insights into the role of Parenting Coordinators and Decision Makers (PCDMs) in Colorado family law. Th...

The Impact of Marijuana Use on Child Custody in Colorado | Divorce at Altitude Podcast In this episode of Divorce at Altitude , Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha delve into the nuanced topic of marijuana use and its effects on child custody in Colorado. As marijuana becomes legalized for both recreational and medicinal purposes, questions arise about its impact on parenting, children's well-being,...