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We all need constants in life amidst all the ups and downs but what if what we considered as "constant" suddenly changes the game? Does our whole world crumble and most importantly,can we still be grateful ?Join Uche in this story as she shares from a personal experience. Enjoy

Every year we seem to have a list by which sometimes determines how grateful we are at the end of the year but what if we make another kind of list of the things we want to complain about and see how we are faring as that might indeed be an eye opener  and would help us be more grateful

One of the surprising things we get to learn is that Gratitude does not come mnaturally to us. It is an attitude we must choose consciously and live by consciously. It has indeed been scientifically proven to boost better mental and physical health and once again using true life stories, this article highlights why it must be our choice in this season

As the year comes to an end, it is important that we adopt the right attitude , being grateful rather than complaining and throughout the onth of December, we will be looking at true stories that revolve around Gratitude as a relationship enhancer and the wise choice 

As we celebrate the International Day for Eliminating Violence against Women and Girls ,Gracilis shares lessons from practical situations and what we can all do to ensure we are all acting responsibly to ensure that women and girls are safe 

This post is specially dedicated to all the men in our lives and to celebrate the International Men's Day. Why is it so difficult sometimes for men to celebrate themselves or accept celebration by others?

Love is usually shown by actions and when our actions on a consistent basis do not show love and consideration for our partners, abuse is inevitable. Gracilis shares insights from true stories when people found out that the professed love to them was a lie.

We all have different expectations in our relationships but not communicating them usually causes some trouble .Understanding how to do this can either mar or make our relationships .Gracilis shares insights using a true story from her god daughter on learning to comunicate our desires 

Friendship is a gift we all can give and receive . It is also one of those relationships that we at Dishusbandmata care about 

The journey to the altar is different for different people and for various reasons. In our post today. our writer shares her surprisingly interesting story with so many lessoms for us to glean 

The way you start a marriage will definitely impact the marriage. There are several wrong reasons why people marry and becoming pregnant seems to be one of them. Gracilis looks at this reason and whyit should not be the reason for contracting a marriage using many pratical live examples . Enjoy  

 Our marriages sometimes take a different turn from what we initially envisaged and Benny continues her story  today sharing with us how she navigated living apart from her spouse. Enjoy 

Sometimes we have to look inwards and enjoy who we are and what we are becoming and not allow our joy to be stolen by woulda, coulda . and when. If we are ever going to enjoy our lives and relationships, we must learnto celebrate and relish in the present . Our writer for today shares her story. Enjoy 

Sometimes people make some phrases  that can affect us . Our writer for today  shares how she heard this phrase from so many a gentleman when she was single and the impact this phrase eventually had on her when she got married . Enjoy 

Have you ever met those women who did not know they were pregnant till they gotinto labput? Sometimes we wonder how that happens and today, although she didnt discover in the labour room, Benny shares her true life story on discovering she was pregnant until 24 weeks. Enjoy 

Our children can teach us things if we only pay attention. In this LOT series, Unyeme shares again with us lessons she learnt from her children and the need for us not to hold on to what might be sabotaging us in thee long run. Enjoy 

Another place that could bring drama in the church is the phrase "God said". It has caused a lot of drama, heartaches most times and if only , we could actually hear for ourselves. Joke shares her practical lessons she learnt using her story. Enjoy 

Food is another thing that can easily generate drama in the church. It is the one thing that could serve both as a sign of acceptance or rejection and sometimes cause unnecessary malice. Enjoy 

Wecontinue our series on Church Drama and Gracilis relishes on some memories and lessons learnt while grouing up and being part of a church .

We are excited to begin this series in a setting we have never really done officially. Most of us beleieve in God and attend church . And with attendance, we have certain expexctations. How can we manage ourrelationships at church, maximize them , ensuring that the drama does not totally rob us of the benefits of the place and the people.

Keisha decides to round up pur series on Frenemies by looking at who a true friend is.and sharing from her own experience how true  friendship has affected her life positively. She celebrates her friends and says that the gains of friendship cannot be fully quantified.

Having enemies as friends can be tough and the relationship most times , ends up being toxic .When it comes to frenemies, we will never really be able to enjoy the friendship as it is usually one-sided. Gracilis continues this week as she shares about frenemies and sheds some more light on them . Enjoy 

A card once read, "God knew mothers could not be everywhere and he created friends." The blessing of good friends is so precious but what do we do with some pretend friends who are actually enemies . Interestingly, a word has been coined for them and in this post, Gracilis shares what she has learnt about frenemies .

Little Ones Teaching - There is so much we can learn by just observing children around us and Unyinme once again shows us practical lessons she learnt from observing her set of twins in this post. Enjoy .

Sometimes a single person can be faced with the challenge of knowing who to settle down with .Our writer for today shares her personal experience and why she decided on her current husband as the one. She has been married for almost 9 years and hopes to mark her 10th year wedding anniversary next year.