Discerning Marriage

Can a celibate priest really give good marriage advice? In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby breaks down this common question with powerful insights. Drawing from theology, experience, and the wisdom of priests who deeply understand God’s design for marriage, she explains why their counsel is not only valuable but essential. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you o...

Are you afraid that God might call you to something you don’t want? Fear distorts discernment, but the truth is liberating. In this episode, Elizabeth Busby breaks down how to discern marriage, priesthood, or religious life with clarity and confidence. Learn why fear of celibacy might be holding you back, why desire plays a key role in God’s plan, and how to trust Him fully in your vocation. If yo...

What physical intimacy is appropriate within marriage? In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby dives deep into the topic of healthy boundaries after marriage. With her expertise as a Master Theologian and licensed marriage and family therapist, she unpacks what truly upholds the dignity of both spouses in marital intimacy. https://youtu.be/dBxWCU1eUNc?si=CRMYNRvF4-bNelki https://ww...

Struggling with a partner’s pornography addiction? You’re not alone. In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby shares practical and compassionate guidance on how to navigate this challenging situation. Learn why seeking professional help is crucial, why you shouldn’t be your partner’s accountability partner, and why incorporating pornography into your relationship is never the answer...

Are romantic conversations before marriage okay? What about discussing desires for each other? In this video, Elizabeth Busby answers a viewer's question about boundaries in pre-marital relationships. She explains the difference between healthy expressions of love and conversations that may lead to inappropriate arousal. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to di...

In this video, Elizabeth Busby dives into clear steps, real-life examples, and essential strategies to build intentional habits in your dating life. Whether you’re starting fresh or getting back on track, learn how to craft an environment that supports your goals and aligns with your values. Discover practical and actionable boundaries to help you honor your decision to wait until marriage. On The...

In today’s episode, we’re flipping the script and focusing on the positives of dating—specifically, the green flags you should look for in a potential partner. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God’s will for you, and if you already know that you’re called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're m...

In this heartfelt and honest video, Elizabeth Busby dives into the myths, fears, and truths surrounding intimacy for couples who choose to wait until their wedding night. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God’s will for you, and if you already know that you’re called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. Y...

In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby dives into some of the most overlooked red flags in dating that can impact your relationships and your future. While red flags like communication issues or dishonesty are often discussed, these subtle but significant factors might be flying under your radar. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if ma...

Are you a single Catholic who’s never been in a relationship and feeling unsure about dating? You’re not alone! In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby dives into why not having dating experience isn’t a disadvantage. She challenges the idea that dating more prepares you better for marriage and shares the beautiful advantages of approaching relationships with a fresh heart. On The...

Elizabeth addresses a thought-provoking question from Instagram: Does God reveal to us who our future spouse is? Elizabeth dives into examples from Scripture and the lives of saints, discussing how rare it is for God to give direct instructions about a future spouse. Instead, she emphasizes the importance of free will, discernment, and trust in God’s guidance as you navigate dating and marriage. T...

Discover how men can embrace modesty in their daily lives while upholding dignity and respect for themselves and others. In this insightful video, Elizabeth explores the often-overlooked topic of masculine modesty and provides practical advice for dressing in a way that upholds the dignity of both men and women. Learn how to make thoughtful choices that reflect your inner values and support the we...

Elizabeth dives into the topic of commitment—specifically, when fear of commitment is a red flag and when it's a normal and healthy part of relationship discernment. Elizabeth shares insights for those dating, engaged, or contemplating marriage, helping you understand whether your hesitation is a sign to pause or just part of the natural process. Tune in to gain clarity on navigating your rela...

Elizabeth reflects on the passion and excitement surrounding the Paris 2024 Olympics and explores how our love for Olympic excellence mirrors our innate desire for eternal victory in Heaven. Whether you watched the Olympics or boycotted them, there's a spark within us all that yearns for greatness. Elizabeth dives deep into why this fire exists and how we can channel it towards achieving spiri...

Elizabeth discusses the challenges many women face in embracing their femininity and the desire for motherhood in today's post-feminist movement era. She offers insightful advice on how to rekindle a longing for motherhood by understanding the intrinsic value of femininity, the importance of surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals, and the significant role of a woman’s menstrual cycl...

In this episode, Elizabeth Busby discusses three key qualities that Christian women find attractive in men. Whether you're single and looking for love or seeking to improve your relationship, these insights can help you become the man that a godly woman desires. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God’s will for you, and if you already...

Join Elizabeth as she provides practical advice on how to manage your anxiety as a Christian. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God’s will for you, and if you already know that you’re called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube Try Next Step: A Co...

Elizabeth dives into the significance of being friends first in a marriage. She answers a question from Instagram about why friendship is crucial for a healthy and lasting marriage. Drawing from her experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist, she explores insights from John Gottman's research and discusses practical ways to build and maintain a strong friendship with your spouse. O...

Elizabeth Busby dives into the challenging topic of nudity and gratuitous sexual content in popular films. Elizabeth shares her heartfelt thoughts on how these scenes impact viewers and how to respond from a faith-based perspective. She also discusses the biological and psychological effects of such content and offers guidance on maintaining personal and relational integrity. If you have ever stru...

Elizabeth delves into the complex topic of modesty, bikinis, and the responsibility of both men and women in upholding dignity. Should women to cover up, or should men be solely responsible for controlling their lustful thoughts? On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God’s will for you, and if you already know that you’re called to marriage,...

Join Elizabeth as she dives deep into the crucial topic of debt and financial freedom from a Christian perspective. Discover why getting out of debt is essential not just for married couples, but for everyone striving for authentic Christian living. Elizabeth shares practical advice, historical insights, and spiritual wisdom to help you align your financial habits with your faith. On The Discernin...

Elizabeth shares her passionate insights on the importance of being debt-free in marriage. Discover how financial freedom can lead to a healthier, happier marriage and explore practical tips to achieve it. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God’s will for you, and if you already know that you’re called to marriage, we want to help you bri...

Elizabeth addresses if a woman should go through with her wedding despite discovering her fiancé's porn addiction during marriage prep. Elizabeth offers compassionate advice on navigating this difficult situation, exploring the essential aspects of engagement, and the importance of freedom in marriage. If you're facing similar challenges or need guidance on engagement and marriage, this vi...

Breaking up after a long-term relationship can feel like losing a piece of yourself, especially when you've shared deep physical and emotional connections. In this video, we discuss practical and spiritual steps to heal after such a devastating loss. From understanding the emotional and physiological impacts of breakups to finding comfort in faith and healthy coping mechanisms, we cover it all...

Are you a parent of teens wondering whether to allow them to date? In this video, we dive deep into the complexities of teen dating from a Catholic Christian perspective. Learn about the importance of parental guidance, understanding adolescence, and the purpose of dating. Discover practical tips to help your teens navigate relationships with wisdom and discernment. Hold On To Your Kids book: http...