Diary of a Cat Mom

Have you ever noticed that when your cat gets sick after regular vet hours, it feels like your whole body goes into panic mode? In this podcast episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share my fears around emergency vet visits, the difficult decisions cat parents sometimes face in the middle of the night, and why I was surprised to learn about a new emergency veterinary model that cares for both the pet...

Have you ever felt like your vet only sees your cat and not you? As cat parents, we spend countless hours worrying, researching, medicating, cleaning, transporting, and doing everything we can to help our cats live healthier lives. In this Diary of a Cat Mom podcast episode, I share a recent experience with Snow White that reminded me how much it means when a veterinarian sees not only the patient...

Have you ever given your cat an extra treat because they looked at you with those irresistible eyes? For many cat parents, food becomes one of the easiest ways to show love. I did it too. Growing up, I watched my mom feed outdoor cats whenever they showed up hungry, so when I had cats of my own, I kept their bowls full and refilled them whenever they were empty. It wasn't until a veterinarian...

Have you ever loved a cat but not liked them very much? Many cat parents feel guilty admitting it, but some cats come with behaviors that test our patience every day. In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share the story of a cat who was passed from one home to another and struggled to feel secure. Over time, I learned that what looked like frustrating behavior wasn't really his personali...

When one of my rescue cats started suckling on blankets, my ears, and even my nose, I thought it was simply a cute kitten habit. Later I learned that this common feline behavior often has deeper emotional roots connected to comfort, security, and early life experiences. In this Diary of a Cat Mom podcast episode, I share his rescue story and what he taught me about understanding unusual cat behavi...

I love dancing. My cats make me happy. Naturally, I thought combining the two would be a wonderful idea. So every now and then, I would pick up one of my cats, hold them close, and dance around the room. In my mind, it was a beautiful bonding moment. My cats disagreed. In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share what happened when I tried dancing with my cats, what I learned from researching t...

Have you ever been petting your cat and everything seems perfectly fine... until suddenly his ears go back? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share what I discovered after noticing one of my senior cats pinning his ears back during cuddle sessions. At first, I worried something was wrong. But after researching cat body language, I learned that pinned-back ears can be an important sign that...

Have you ever felt your cat gently touch your cheek with his paw? Not a scratch. Not a swat. Just a soft little tap that feels incredibly intentional. In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share the heartwarming story of one of my cats who gently pets my face whenever I'm standing near his cat tree. Curious about what this behavior meant, I researched it and discovered it may be one of th...

Have you ever had your cat gently bump their forehead against yours? Many cat parents wonder whether this sweet behavior is simply a request for attention or something much deeper. In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share the story of Baby, one of my most affectionate cats, and the surprising meaning behind feline head bunting. What I discovered completely melted my cat mom heart. This simp...

Have you ever nearly tripped over your cat because they were rubbing so hard against your legs? Many cat moms wonder what this behavior really means. Is it love? Is it a request for food? Or is your cat trying to claim you as their human? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share the story of Toby, the most enthusiastic leg-rubber in my multi-cat household, and what I discovered when I resea...

In this Diary of a Cat Mom podcast entry, I share how I realized two of my shyest cats had quietly become feline friends. At first, I wasn't sure whether their behavior was playful, fearful, or something else entirely. By paying attention to their body language, grooming habits, and choice to spend time together, I discovered signs of trust and affection that made my cat mom heart very happy....

What would happen if you had to leave your home with your cat in just a few minutes? In this Diary of a Cat Mom entry, I share why I've been thinking about emergency preparedness for my cats and what I've learned about creating a simple emergency kit that could help keep them safe during hurricanes, tornadoes, wildfires, floods, power outages, or other unexpected situations. The goal isn...

Have you ever noticed your cat walking toward you with her tail held high in the air? Many cat moms see this every day but don't realize it's one of the clearest signs of trust, confidence, and affection in cat body language. In today's Diary of a Cat Mom podcast entry, I share what I learned by watching my youngest cat, Hope, and how understanding one simple tail position helped me...

What would happen to your cat if something happened to you? It's not a topic most cat parents enjoy thinking about, but it may be one of the most loving things we can do for the cats who depend on us. In this Diary of a Cat Mom podcast entry, I share what I learned while researching pet trusts, caregivers, and simple ways to prepare for your cat's future. What You'll Learn in this C...

Why does your cat's fur suddenly stand up? As a cat mom, I've seen this happen during happy moments, exciting moments, and even tense confrontations between outdoor cats. In this Diary of a Cat Mom podcast episode, I share what I learned about piloerection—the scientific term for raised fur in cats—and why the rest of your cat's body language matters more than the fur itself. What Y...

Aggressive behavior in cats can feel scary, confusing, and deeply personal — especially when your normally loving cat suddenly hisses, swats, growls, or bites. In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share what I learned from living with multiple cats and observing feral cats over the years. Often aggression is not about anger at all. Often it is fear, pain, stress, overwhelm, or self-protection...

Why does your cat rub her cheek on furniture, walls, cat trees, or even your legs? In this Diary of a Cat Mom episode, I share the emotional meaning behind this sweet cat behavior, what cats are actually doing when they rub against you, and when excessive rubbing could signal a possible health issue. What You'll Learn in this Cat Podcast Episode Why cats rub their cheeks on objects and people...

Has your cat ever knocked something off a table, jumped on your laptop, or started causing trouble with another cat the moment you got busy? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share what I learned from living with a cat who always seems to want attention at exactly the wrong time. What looked like destructive behavior at first turned out to be something very different. What You'll Lear...

Have you ever picked up your cat and heard her cry out? Or noticed that a cat who once loved being petted suddenly pulls away from your touch? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share how one of my senior cats taught me an important lesson about pain, aging, and listening more carefully to what our cats are trying to tell us. Sometimes what looks like grumpiness isn't a behavior proble...

Many people think cats are low-maintenance pets. Feed them, clean the litter box, and let them do their own thing. But anyone who has lived closely with cats knows the truth is very different. In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share what I learned after living with multiple cats, why every cat has a unique personality, and how understanding your cat often feels like learning an entirely ne...

Have you ever felt like your cat is trying to tell you something? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share a simple realization that changed the way I listen to my cats. What started with a few meows while I was working on my laptop turned into a deeper understanding of how cats communicate through sounds, touch, body language, and even emotional energy. If you live with a cat, you may disc...

Have you ever watched two cats quietly staring at each other and wondered what was really happening? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom , I share a moment between my cats Hope and Black Nosey that completely changed how I understand cat communication. What looked like a peaceful interaction at first turned out to be a conversation happening entirely through body language. We explore how cats co...

Why does your cat ignore the scratching pads you bought and head straight for your sofa instead? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom, I share what happened after I bought a new couch and watched one of my cats prepare to scratch it with complete determination. What looked like destructive behavior turned out to reveal something important about feline instincts, physical needs, and emotional well...

One moment your cat seems loving and affectionate. The next moment, they swat your hand away. As a cat mom, that can feel confusing and even a little hurtful. In this Diary of a Cat Mom podcast entry, I share the story of my cat Baby, a sweet gray domestic long-hair cat who taught me that swatting isn't always rejection. Sometimes it is overstimulation, irritation, frustration, or even discom...

When my beautiful white ragdoll cat SnowWhite suddenly started hiding underneath the bed for days, I feared the worst. Was she sick? In pain? Preparing to leave the world? As cat parents, we know how frightening sudden behavior changes can be, especially in senior cats. But what I eventually discovered had nothing to do with illness and everything to do with trust, stress, and how our cats experie...