Deeper Dating Podcast

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick are sociologists of the dating world: They live, work and study on the frontlines of the modern dating world. They are funny, wise, thoughtful, and all-around amazing. They will help us think about dating in new ways -- and help you create your own DIY  vision of your ideal relationship. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ L...

Your Gift Zone is the birthplace of intimacy within you. The more you live in your Gift Zone and act on its promptings, the more love, creativity, and aliveness you'll access in your life. This episode will teach you how to find your Gift Zone and use its beauty and humanity to enrich your life and your relationships.  SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPS...

Infatuation is such an important piece of the intimacy journey that we all need to face, so today I talk about how to navigate the pitfalls -- while also enjoying the delights -- of new love. While infatuation is commonplace, it is also a stepping stone where so many get stuck. I have had so many people ask questions about it, so in this episode, I share what happens to us in the infatuation stage...

Reclaiming our power, our heart, our truth and our love is an ongoing process of growth, learning, and experimentation. And it's truly one of the most important skills in life. In this episode, you'll learn a step-by-step process for reclaiming the precious parts of yourself that can so easily go into hiding! SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE...

I'm so excited to share this interview with my dear friend Arielle Ford, one of the most inspiring teachers (and storytellers) about love, relationships, and intimacy. Arielle shares her personal story and her practical yet magical vision of how we find true love. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcas...

What do you do when you like someone but you're just not that attracted? In Part 2 we’ll go into detail, describing specific techniques for building sexual and romantic attraction. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT WITH US! ——————————— FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ke...

What do you do when you like someone but you're just not that attracted? This is part 1 of a 2-part series where you'll learn research-backed techniques for building sexual and romantic attraction. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT WITH US! ——————————— FACEBOOK: https://ww...

Enlightened audacity is an almost magical recipe for creating excitement, tenderness, and deeper connection in your relationships. In this episode, you'll learn how to develop your own personal brand of enlightened audacity. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE:  https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT WITH US!...

Coming out is not just for LGBTQ people! The power of speaking your truth, even when it’s scary, is an act of courage that changes our lives, and our relationships. It’s scary, it’s exhilarating, and when it’s mixed with compassion for yourself and the ones you care about, it opens the door to freedom and love in whole new ways. In this episode, you’ll learn some beautiful practices to help you sp...

In this Deeper Dating Q&A episode, listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, and dating to Ken, and get his direct personal advice. In this episode, we explore how to distinguish Attractions of Deprivation from Attractions of Inspiration, how to get past chronic self-blame when a relationship ends, and lots more. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https:...

So much dating advice diminishes our personal magnetism, blurs our authenticity, and dissipates our sense of empowerment.  In this episode, you'll learn skills to deepen, empower and expand your unique, authentic magnetism, which will radically and wonderfully shift your entire intimacy journey. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THI...

There is a pledge that you can make that will change your future in love, which means changing your entire future. In this episode, you'll learn what that pledge is, and even take it yourself. And then...just watch the changes that will happen! SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CO...

There are four main attachment styles. Where do you fit in? What are the gifts and challenges for your attachment style that no one might have told you? And how can you use that information to find and cultivate healthy love? SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT WITH US! ————...

120 people described the biggest obstacles they experience in their search for love. Here were their biggest struggles -- and the solutions that emerged. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT WITH US! ——————————— FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/kenpagelcsw INSTAGRAM: https:...

Fear of rejection is so painful and holds us back in so many ways — including in our search for healthy love. How do you dramatically turn down the volume on your fear of rejection? In this episode, you'll learn how. If fear of rejection has been an issue for you, this episode could make a powerful difference.  SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEAR...

Would you like to create personal practices that let you uncover your unique intimacy-wisdom, are built for you, designed for you, and fit into the realities of your life?  Stay tuned to this DIY (Do It Yourself) episode of The Deeper Dating® Podcast and you'll learn how! SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deepe...

Why do our most intense romantic passions so often end in disaster? Why do these "attractions of deprivation" feel like real love -- even as they lead us off the edge of a cliff? You'll learn exactly why that happens in this episode.  SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT...

What are the three greatest challenges we face in the search for love? And what are the three points of possibility and empowerment at each of these points? In this episode, you'll learn why your relationship search is actually a hero's journey -- and how that insight can transform your dating life.  SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOU...

Should I go or should I stay? Is this the right relationship for me? Is this a healthy and good relationship? Is it one I should commit to? If you've ever asked yourself these questions (or if you're asking them now) this episode offers keys to help you to find your own answers. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://dee...

During this particularly busy period of my life, I thought that I would replay a truly essential episode from a few years back. I hope you love it! This is a big one: What is the single most important personality trait for having a happy and fulfilled life? In this episode, you'll find out what that trait is and how you can cultivate it! SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https:/...

Everyone's talking about The Ick; when you suddenly lose your attraction to someone you like. "The Ick" is the single greatest enemy of healthy new love--and no one teaches us what causes it or how to get past it! That's precisely what you'll learn here! If you've ever experienced this painful dynamic, don't miss this episode--it could change your future in love.  SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING O...

Do you worry that you may be oversensitive in your relationships? These research-backed insights prove that your intense sensitivity is actually a powerful tool for success in love! In this episode, you'll learn how to use the gift of your sensitivity more wisely and effectively.  SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: http...

Every time you embrace a new insight in your intimacy journey, you change your future and speed your path to love. In this episode, we're going to talk about these precious micro-doses of wisdom: How to invite them and then use them to transform your search for love and your life. If intimacy matters to you, don't miss these wonderful tools! SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: htt...

Every time you embrace a new insight in your intimacy journey, you change your future and speed your path to love. In this episode, we're going to talk about these precious micro-doses of wisdom: How to invite them and then use them to transform your search for love and your life. If intimacy matters to you, don't miss these wonderful tools! SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: htt...

How do you know you're truly in love? How do you tell if it's the kind of love that can last? And...how and when do you reveal to someone that you've fallen in love with them? Join us as we explore these exciting but complicated questions. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT...