Dear Shandy

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 2! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription! Time Stamps: 0:00 -...

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! Our Word Watch sponsor! - Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.c...

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the Season Premiere! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Head to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping...

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by overwhelmingly beautiful power couple for a Love Fest that has been nearly a year in the making! In what has been your top-requested Love Fest to date, celebrated pop sensation Hayley Kiyoko and Becca Tilley (Bachelor S19 and S20) join Shandy from their Los Angeles home to share the ins and outs of their partnership! Today Hayley and Becca share th...

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth. Elizabeth and her boyfriend have a great relationship but there's one issue, and it's an elephant in the room: his jealousy. An event occurs where she's invited out by a colleague, sending her boyfriend into a jealous frenzy. Was Elizabeth the "A-hole" in how she handled that situation, or is her boyfriend's mistrust a red flag? Liste...

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 3 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received quite the selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of laughs, rabbit holes, and analogies. We deeply appreciate you and th...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it weird if your partner wants a private, locked room in your shared home? What are Shandy's thoughts on "Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater"? Is there a "right" way to break up with someone? And let's help a Shandy find friends in her new city! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to htt...

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined AT HOME for their third ever in-person Love Fest, by a couple whose relationship Shandy got to witness firsthand when Sharleen hosted Bachelor In Paradise Canada! Last Summer Chelsea Vaughn (Bachelor S25 & BIP S7) and Austin Tinsley (Bachelorette S17) met on Canadian soil and left as a couple in love. Because the season didn't air until a near yea...

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Kelly. Kelly's cousin's choices in her relationship have had a ripple effect in their shared friend circle and Kelly has wound up more involved than she ever intended to be or would have liked. When is someone else's infidelity your information to share, and in Kelly's case, should she have done anything differently? Listen on for the Shandy tak...

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/SHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www. FastGrowingTrees.com/SHANDY NOW to get FIFTEEN PERCENT OFF your entire order! - Head to https://www.skims.com and get fr...

Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to tackle the ever-relevant topic of NARCISSISM since Dear Shandy's inception, however, we insisted on waiting until we could get the best of the best to join us. Our patience paid off as today we're joined by the acclaimed, unparalleled expert on narcissism, the one and only Dr. Ramani. Trust us, she does NOT disappoint! Today Dr. Ramani sets the reco...

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down Men Tell All! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a red flag if your date leads with compliments about your physical appearance? If your mother's wedding gift is a check that seems to be missing a "0", is it worth bringing up? And if your brother has created a web of lies so big you're forced to play a part in the charade, when is enough enough? Come join us in our living room...

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7, aka Fantasy Suite Week! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app...

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor Nation's favorite "dolphin", Alexis Waters (Bachelor S21) and her fiancé, Tyler Fernandez! We knew going into this Love Fest that the "fun meter" would not be a concern, but we did not expect our cheeks to hurt as much as they did from laughing so hard! Today Alexis and Tyler join Shandy to share how they were introduced by former Bachelorette...

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50...

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Cierrah. Cierrah lives in the basement suite of her parents' house but they haven't been displaying the most role model-esque behavior of late. Is she within her right to pick a side and get involved, or is her parents' dynamic their business and no one else's? Should what happens between our parents STAY between our parents? Listen on for the S...

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.fabfitfun.com/DEARSHANDY and get 20% off your new membership! - Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.athenaclub....

Have you ever found yourself wondering "where are they now?" when listening to our caller episodes and Q&As? Well... drumroll, please... UPDATES ARE BACK, BABY! This is our second ever installment of what we hope to make a biannual tradition. We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, good or bad! Come join us in...

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend still has "favorited" photos of his ex on his phone, is that cause for concern? Are you shallow if you'd like your partner to make a cosmetic change? If your mother-in-law's perfume stays in the house long after she's gone, is it worth saying something? And whatever happened to taking things slow? Come join us in ou...

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www. TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.earth...

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Riley who is calling about her 6 year relationship. Riley made some poor financial decisions in the past which has caused her boyfriend to pull back and distrust her. Can he get over this, what does this mean for their partnership, and how long is too long to be punished for past mistakes? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! -...

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.hellotushy.com /SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order! - Head to https://www.manukora.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to get a free pack of honey sticks with your order - a $15 value! - Head to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on...

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today is our second ever in-person Love Fest and an absolutely epic one! You watched them meet and get engaged on Paradise S7, and now 2 years later, Bachelor Power Couple® Joe Amabile and Serena Pitt join us in the living room to dissect the ins and outs of their relationship. Today Joe and Serena share their honest first impressions of each other—in Serena's eyes, was Joe...