Brendan Gates & Marissa Bohrer

Dear Queers™

Society EN ↓ 75 episodes

Have you ever wanted all your burning questions about sex and relationships to be answered by a bisexual therapist and a gay filmmaker? Good thing you found this podcast, then! Every episode, Marissa and Brendan answer listener-submitted "queer-ies" on sexuality, dating, LGBTQ+ issues, and more. It's the advice podcast you never knew you needed and the puns you wish never existed.

Author

Brendan Gates & Marissa Bohrer

Category

Society

Podcast website

dearqueers.blogspot.com

Latest episode

Apr 6, 2026

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Episodes

Dear Speech & Voice (with Speech-Language Pathologist Janet Hawley) 04.10.2021

Our first guest of season 2 has arrived! Janet Hawley is a speech pathologist and a professor in the University of Arizona's school of Speech, Language, and Hearing Sciences. Janet describes her work in this field, and in particular her passion for trans voice and working with the trans community.  For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com &nbsp...

Dear Hookups 20.09.2021

Welcome back everyone!!! We hope you enjoyed your summer, and thought it would be a good idea to talk about something that has been on many people's minds recently: hooking up. We'll also update you on some of our own summer shenanigans and debauchery.   For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.queers ...

P.S. Or Else!!! 30.06.2021

Surprise! You thought you could get rid of us that easily?! Have you been listening to the end of every episode? Have you been liking, subscribing, commenting, reviewing, sending questions, and supporting? If not, you may want to listen to this.  We have been serving you threats all season, so we thought we would remind you of what will happen to you if you disobey our requests. For business...

Dear Vacation 10.05.2021

It's the end of season 1 of Dear Queers!!! In honor of us taking a little break, this episode is all about vacations.  We love all of you, and we look forward to returning to your ear holes soon! For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.queers  Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact  &n...

Dear Friendship 26.04.2021

As friends, we feel very qualified to give you advice on how to handle your own friendships. From bothersome bridesmaids to internalized homophobia, we know what needs to be done to keep your friend engine running smoothly.  For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.queers  Submit questions at dearqueerspod.w...

Dear Plants 12.04.2021

Plants! plants... PLANTS!!!!!! They're so mysterious, and magical, and....gay? Dive head first into Spring with this exploration and discussion about our green and leafy friends. For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.queers  Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact     Original mu...

Dear Doctors (with Dr. Crystal Beal of QueerDoc) 29.03.2021

Today we're talking with Dr. Crystal Beal, the creator of QueerDoc, which is one of the first online queer focused medical practices! We discuss everything from queer medical training, to insurance drama, to working with patients remotely.  You don't want to miss it!! For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.quee...

Dear TV & Film (with Writer/Comedian/Filmmaker Chik Agwuna) 15.03.2021

Chik is here with us to discuss queerness and where it fits into the entertainment landscape.  Should straight actors be allowed to play queer characters? What queer content should or shouldn't you watch?? Listen to find out! For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.queers  Submit questions at dearqueerspod....

Dear Breakups 01.03.2021

Breakups can be really hard to deal with, we know, but we're here to put you back together again! For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.queers  Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact     Original music by Andrew Linn https://andrewlinnmusic.com | @andrewlinnmusic   &nb...

Dear Masturbation 15.02.2021

Choking the chicken, beating the meat, flicking the bean, charming the one-eyed snake, shucking the oyster.  It goes by many names, but however you refer to it, we have the answers you seek. For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.queers  Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact   &...

Dear Dating Apps 01.02.2021

Whether you're curious and already in a relationship or desperately needing advice on navigating the "frog jacuzzi" world of dating apps, this episode will ease your troubled mind. For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.queers  Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact     Original...

Dear Reproductive Healthcare (with Reproductive Health Specialist Tenaya Drapkin) 18.01.2021

This week we are joined by Tenaya Drapkin to discuss reproductive healthcare for queer folk, PrEP and PEP, and abortion access. For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.queers  Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact     Original music by Andrew Linn https://andrewlinnmusic.com | @a...

Dear Crushes 04.01.2021

It has been a crushing year in so many ways, so why not bring it to a close and usher in a new beginning by talking about crushes?   For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.queers  Submit questions at https://dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact     Original music by Andrew Linn https://andrew...

Dear Holidays 21.12.2020

Happy holidays! Merry times! Today, we're talking about how to navigate the festive season from dealing with your family to buying gifts. Also featuring some beautiful songs sung by your dear hosts! (We are not responsible for any bleeding from your ears as a result). For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram | @dear.queers&nb...

Dear Porn (with Adult Film Performer Daisy Ducati) 07.12.2020

This week we're answering all of your burning questions about porn, sex work, and everything in between with Daisy Ducati!  What are some ways to be a conscientious porn consumer?  How have things changed in the past few months?  Listen to find out!  Also, visit out website for some links and resources related to the episode. Connect with Daisy: daisyducati.com | @daisyducati F...

Dear Judaism (with Lior Gross & Eyal Rivlin from The Nonbinary Hebrew Project) 23.11.2020

This week, Marissa and Brendan are joined by Lior  and Eyal, creators of The Nonbinary Hebrew Project! They discuss finding ways to use Hebrew in a gender inclusive manner and how to create space for queerness in Judaism. To access Lior's detailed resource list to accompany this episode, visit our website. The Nonbinary Hebrew Project: https://www.nonbinaryhebrew.com/ For business inquiries o...

Dear Coming Out 09.11.2020

Come out, come out, wherever you are!  This episode is for anyone in any stage of the coming out process or anyone who just wants to know more about what this process means.  Stay tuned until the end for a special bonus coming out template that you can use for any of your coming out needs! For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow u...

Dear Sexuality 26.10.2020

Sexual identity is complicated and deeply personal.  In this episode, Marissa and Brendan discuss the contentious relationship between bisexuality and pansexuality and debate whether or not straight people actually exist. For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram @dear.queers  Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpr...

Dear Partners 12.10.2020

Have you ever had issues with a long-term partner?  If so, this episode might be for you!  We discuss when to go from engaged to married, and how to be more open (your butthole specifically) with each other. For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  Follow us on instagram @dear.queers  Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/c...

Dear Gender 28.09.2020

Brendan and Marissa break down the nuances of gender identity for you as well as why gender reveal parties are a big no no. For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com Follow us on instagram @dear.queers   Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact     Original music by Andrew Linn  https://andrewlinnmusic.com/  @a...

Dear Vaginas (with OB/GYN Med Student Jessie Klugman) 14.09.2020

In this episode, we're talking all things vaginal health with OB/GYN med student Jessie Klugman!  We'll cover who should be getting the HPV vaccine and what you should and shouldn't do to keep your vulva clean. For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com   Follow us on instagram @dear.queers   Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/c...

Dear Marissa & Brendan 31.08.2020

Hello!  We are the Queers, Brendan and Marissa.  Let us introduce ourselves and tell you about why we wanted to start this show. For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com Follow us on instagram @dear.queers Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact Original music by Andrew Linn https://andrewlinnmusic.com/ @andrewlinnmusic Cover ar...

Dear Queers 31.08.2020

In the inaugural episode, Brendan and Marissa answer your questions about what it means to be queer and how to support a friend coming out as demisexual. For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com Follow us on instagram @dear.queers Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact Original music by Andrew Linn https://andrewlinnmusic.com/ @andrewlin...

Dear Quarantine 31.08.2020

Feeling trapped in quarantine? Brendan and Marissa help listeners sort out what to do when your partner is too much and when no partner isn't enough. For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com Follow us on instagram @dear.queers Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact Original music by Andrew Linn https://andrewlinnmusic.com/ @andrewlinnmus...

Dear Queers™ (Trailer) 23.07.2020

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