Dear Matchmaker

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  Join me for a unique episode as I get interviewed by Dean & Miles from The Legion Lifestyle Podcast where we discuss all things dating, sex, attachment styles and more!  Want more information about Cat?  Visit here: www.theheartagency.com  

Dear listeners, join me, Cat Cantrill, in a deeply personal exploration of what it means to step back into the dating world as a single mom in this week's episode of "Dear Matchmaker." In today’s heart-to-heart episode, I’ll be sharing stories and gentle advice from my own experiences, weaving through the joys and hurdles of merging the delicate worlds of new love and parenthood.  Want more i...

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  Join us as we dive deep into the mysterious world of 'ghosting' – the unsettling act of ending a relationship by suddenly going silent without any explanation. In this introspective episode, we draw from personal anecdotes, listener experiences, and my own understanding to unpack the psychology behind ghosting. Discover why some choose to disapp...

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  In today's digital age, where instant messaging is second nature, have we lost the beauty of anticipation? This episode delves deep into the art and psychology of communication, specifically focusing on the period leading up to the coveted first date. We explore why resisting the urge to text might not only heighten excitement and curiosity but...

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  Please help me welcome Linda Clemons!  Linda Clemons is a charismatic speaker and corporate trainer with more than three decades’ experience helping clients boost their sales. As a nonverbal communications expert, she provides sales and leadership teams with an awareness of how body language can improve performance and outcomes. Based...

Welcome to another episode to Dear Matchmaker! In this week's episode, we talk about the topic of intimidating men and whether women should be concerned or change themselves. I share my own personal experience of being told I was intimidating and how I initially considered changing myself to attract love.  Take a listen!  You can find more info about my services here: www.theheartagency....

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!    In this episode, I discuss the difference between dating for Mr. or Ms. Right Now versus dating for a long-term partner. I talk about the importance of compatibility and vulnerability in a relationship. I also touch on the challenges of dating someone significantly younger or older and the importance of shared values and goals.   Its time to stop settl...

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  In this week's episode, I do a bit of a catsplanation of what a TRUE red flag is.  I dive into the issue that people are very quick to label others and the lack of empathy in the dating world. Take a listen!  Website: www.theheartagency.com Submit a question: www.dearmatchmaker.com Email me: cat@theheartagency.com  

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  On this episode, Cat interviews Treva Brandon Scharf an International Coaching Federation-certified life/dating/relationship coach, former fitness professional, midlife marriage first-timer, and author of Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer’s Guide to Love. www.trevabrandonscharf.com Podcast Done Being Single  https://donebeingsingle.com/ Her...

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  This week, I have a very special guest, Astrologer Lucy Porter! Lucy Porter is an Astrologer focused on love, sex and relationships. Her passion is the re-emergence of mysticism in a humorous, accessible and juicy way. She is an initiated High Priestess & Certified Matchmaker, she calls herself a ‘Priestess in the City'—like a spiritual Carrie B...

On this episode of Dear Matchmaker Cat gives her Cat-spin on the topic “Love Bombing”, What is it? The difference between Love Bombing and Anxious Attachment, The 4 Phases of love bombing, and the 9 Signs you should look for to avoid this toxic behavior.  Link to previous episodes: Love Addiction, Codependency & Narcissism  My Love Story  Visit Us: www.theheartagency.com Email us: m...

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  Today's episode, I have a special guest - Men's Dating Coach Ege Reynolds.  In this episode, Ege shares his own personal journey as an introverted man in the dating world and how it led him to become a dating coach. Ege shares the four principles he teaches to help his clients create the greatest connection.   We discuss how intro...

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  In this episode I talk about my first relationship out of my divorce.  This one is a doozy!   Here is the episode I refer to in this episode: https://pod.link/1551679405/episode/973d055e40068550fb7cf5b96268c5ec   Do you have a question or a dating story for me?  Send me your questions at www.dearmatchmaker.com . You can...

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  In this week's episode, I answer a question submitted to me by IG: "How do you accept generosity and intention from your partner?  This is all new to me!" Do you have a question for me?  Submit it at www.dearmatchmaker.com You can find out more information about The Heart Agency here: www.theheartagency.com  

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  This week I interview my fiancé Brian!  Take a listen!  You can see the video I mention in the episode here:  https://youtu.be/hU28vBcTthA   You can sign up for our Free workshop this Monday - click here: https://alltakes.com/the-agency/beyourownvalentine   You can find out more information about my services here: www.theheartagency.com &n...

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  In this episode I answer the question:  "How do you heal from past relationship trauma so you don't sabotage your new relationship? " If you wish to ask a question, you can submit yours here:  www.dearmatchmaker.com To find out more info, go here: www.theheartagency.com      

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  In today's episode, I get the honor of interviewing my colleague and friend, May Bugenhagen.   May Bugenhagen is a Professional Matchmaker and dating and relationship coach. May is the owner of the boutique matchmaking company Two Asian Matchmakers. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Huffington Post, and many other publications. May...

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  January is right around the corner and everyone is thinking about creating a dating profile.  I am here to help you pick the right photos to get the best results.   In this episode, I share: 1. How many photos you should upload; 2. What poses and types of photos you should use; 3. Which colors men and women should wear; 4. The importance of great on...

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  This week I welcome my friend, Barb Ranck to talk about all things enneagram!   Barb is a passionate educator and coach, having over 25 years' experience in the corporate workplace. It wasn't until she became a certified life coach that Barb knew she had found her calling. Barb loves helping people understand what motivates them, what drains them, and ho...

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  In this episode I answer the question: "Is there validity to the “transition person” theory?  Where You never want to be the first person someone dates after they are divorced or widowed?     I’ve seen the results both ways, good and bad. I know it’s situational based on each person but would love to hear your viewpoint on that. M...

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  In this episode, we cover every singles favorite topic - Cuffing Season. How do you prevent yourself from settling this cuffing season?  Listen up! I give you my top 3 ways on how you can surivive!  You can find the previous episode mentioned here:  https://pod.link/1551679405/episode/ef36b113e30f60d5a2da825f7fdfae30   Access Cat's Align 9: Ema...

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  Please help me welcome back Kim Coffin back to Dear Matchmaker!  Kim is a Trauma Informed Somatic Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, as well as an Empowerment & Sexuality Coach, Female Sexuality Coach, Tantric Sex Coach and founder of Get Your Sexy Back! She specializes in empowerment, confidence, creating trust and safety in our bodies and in our mind...

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  I am thrilled to bring Kirstie Wilson to the show!   Kirstie is a weight loss coach who works with women 45+ to build a sustainable lifestyle for lasting weight loss. Staunchly against the diet culture, Kirstie has developed a program that helps women design their optimal eating and activity plan, as well as guides them on managing their stress and impro...

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  Ahhhh, yes.  I am sure you have heard this a million times.  Come and join me as I unwrap the truth about this phenomenon.  Here are the links I discussed in the episode: Brian's Movie for Me: https://youtu.be/hU28vBcTthA Online Dating and How You Have it All Wrong: https://www.alltakes.com/the-agency/online-dating   Quiz: https://theheartagenc...

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  This week I welcome the beautiful & talented Celeste Moore to Dear Matchmaker.   Celeste Moore is a personal image and dating consultant for men. Like the female version of Will Smith in Hitch, she gives them the confidence they need by helping them look and feel better about themselves, so they can step out of their comfort zones and into the arms of a...