Dear Future Hubby Podcast

Well, I started off one way and ended in a whole different direction. However, I do not believe it was by accident. So, sorry not sorry! Nevertheless, I wanted to take a moment to say, “Thank you” to each and every one of my listeners! You are the real MVP’s. And I appreciate each and every one of you. Listen in as I speak from the matters of my heart. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be En...

The Bible says, “He that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD”. Well, in the book of Genesis 29:20-35;30:1-43, the story of Jacob and Rachel speaks to how Jacob favored Rachel. I have said it before, and I will say it again, I don’t want the “Spirit of Leah” because in the Bible, Leah was unloved. However, Jacob loved Rachel so much that he was willing to work for her,...

On today’s episode, I speak about Jacob and Leah’s marriage in Genesis chapter 29. It’s interesting to me how some of the details I see now in the Bible have never truly stood out to me until this particular season of my life. Listen in as I speak on this subject. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged!

As Promised, I have recorded Part 2. On this episode I attempt to unpack Hosea 1 and 2. I am not a Theologian. However, I do desire to learn more about myself and more in this journey of singleness. The book of Hosea speaks about Hosea and Gomer. Hosea is a prophet and Gomer is a prostitute. What an interesting marriage arrangement! On this Episode, I attempt to share my perspective on what I have...

This Episode was unexpected and unscripted but definitely interrupted! So we will call this Part I. My apologies in advance. However, I did Not want to erase what was already recorded. And as most of you know, on this Podcast, we are R.A.W. (Real and Wise) and what you hear is what you get! In the book of Hosea, chapters 1 and 2, I will be speaking about his Hosea’s wife, Gomer. My PSA Announcemen...

“Intermission” time has ended and it is time to resume my study of wives in the Bible! Today, I am reading out of the book of Ruth in the Message Bible, chapters 2-4. This is the story of Boaz and Ruth. Listen is as I speak on this subject and express my points of view of this particular story in the Bible. Also, to day is Memorial Day, remember to love on your loved ones Today. I hope this Episod...

I wanted to take a moment to clear up something I said on the “Have You Changed Your Perspective?” Episode (Episode22 Season4). I also wanted to speak more on changing our perspective. Consider this an extension of the “Intermission”. As I was unpacking my perspective on why it is necessary to pray for our enemies, especially the “inner me” within, I discovered something else about myself. Listen...

If you have been listening to any of my latest episodes, I have been reading scriptures in the Bible and speaking on the different wives in the Bible. However, consider today’s episode as the “Intermission” episode. As I prepare for the next wife in the Bible, I wanted to speak to changing our perspective(s). Today’s episode is extremely transparent, more than most. However, that’s because I wante...

Well, some of these questions I believe I must pose to evaluate myself in my NOW season. In my opinion, which is could become subject to change, preparing to become someone’s True Wife is not about the Title. Instead, I believe it is about the content of my character. Therefore, why leave some things to chance? I aspire to study as many wives in the Bible as I can, to glean from their wisdom and t...

First Off, Happy Mother’s Day to All of the Mother’s in this World! And to those of you who have lost your Mother’s and today feels much different for you, may your hearts be filled with the loving memories of your mothers on this Special Day! On Today’s episode, I wanted to talk about Lot’s Wife! And how she possibly turned into a pillar of salt! Allow me to use my own imagination, please and lis...

First, please allow me the opportunity to say “Thank You” from the bottom of my heart to each and every one of my true listeners! Today, we reached over 17K+ listens in 2 Years, 4 months and 5 Days!!! Y’all are the Real MVP’s and I am truly grateful for your love and support! Today, I am speaking about Sarah in the Bible and how it could look when we choose to take matters into our own hands rathe...

Today, I wanted to address a certain passage in scripture. It comes from the book of Job (one of my most favorite books in the Bible) Chapter 2 verses 9-13. In this particular scripture, Job’s wife tells him to “…Curse GOD and die”! Yes, she did!!! Listen in as I speak to this very thing and provide my perspective on WHY she would say something so harsh to her husband! And a few suggestions on how...

Today, I ask the question, “Who Do You Confide In” after reading the book of Esther in the Bible. Chapter 1:1-22 and Chapter 2:1-4. This passage speaks of Queen Vashti and King Xerxes. However, for those of you who have never heard any of my Episodes, I normally share my journey as a single, divorced mother of six adult children and I have one grandson. However, as of late, I have been on a differ...

After attending a phenomenal Women’s Conference in Atlanta, Georgia on April 21-22. Hosted by Pastor Kellie Agueze, of the Warrior Nation. My cup is still running over. So much so that a sermon was laid on my heart quite early this morning and I saw myself writing out the words. As I shared a snippet with my oldest daughter, she encouraged me to create an episode on my Podcast so that she could li...

Sometimes you just gotta let it go and laugh at your own self! Being serious all the time makes lines! Facial lines that is. When was the last time you just laughed at You?! Listen in as I share one of my “most embarrassing moments” and how I laughed about it for nearly an hour. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged!

The Day has Finally Arrived! One of my goals for 2023 was to have my Dad, the man who has been a part of my life since I was a toddler. He will remain nameless for obvious reasons. However, I had the honor and the privilege of having him on tonight’s episode. Listen in as my Dad talks about disappointments, forgiveness, goals, marriage, and money management! I hope this Episode encourages Someone!...

Do you find yourself guilty of self-criticizing? Do you wash you had the tools to combat the negative self-talk? Listen in as I unpack this subject: “Self-criticism. I may not have all of the answers but I have researched a few and added my R.A.W. insight too! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be Encouraged.

After 300+ Recorded Episodes and Four Seasons Later, the moment I think I have ran out of Content, low and behold, something else comes to my mind!!! The question for today is: Are You a Good Listener? Listen in as I unpack my thoughts on this question and talk about the traits of a good listener! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

Have you ever watched an interview, a podcast or even a video… Then heard a word and went to go look the definition of that word up? Well, I have! This is where my current Episode stems from. I was watching an interview with Judge Faith Jenkins on yesterday. This is when I heard her say the following words, (I am paraphrasing), “I used to be cynical“. Why did this spark a full on research of the w...

Have you ever heard, “It is not what you say, it is HOW you say it”? Well, Are You Practicing Self-Care? If the answer is “Why Yes, Yes I AM”, are you Considering others during your Self-care Journey? Listen in as I speak to this very subject and provide my perspective on this. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be Encouraged!

Have you ever heard someone say, “Pay Attention to Their Fruit”? What fruit? You may ask. Well, the fruit of their actions, behavior and/or words. We can learn a lot from those things. If we take the time to simply pay closer attention. Listen in as I unpack my perspective on how to pay attention to the fruit! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged!

Are you surrounded by the Right People or the Wrong People? Do you have at least One Person who is Willing to hold you accountable? Are you viewing your life through hurt lenses or healed lenses? Knowing the answers to these questions may help to set you free. Emotionally, Mentally or even Physically. Now, I am not a licensed Life Coach, Therapist or Counselor. I am simply a divorced, single mothe...

As I continue to go through the process of Self- Awareness and Self-Reflection, it dawned on me that it was time to “Thank” my exes publicly. You know Who you are! And I am grateful for the growth within. Because I can express my gratitude from a place that I never truly saw manifesting. For That I am grateful too. So to each and every one of MY Exes, I wholeheartedly say, “Thank You”. I hope this...

Sometimes I wonder “Why” certain thoughts pop up in my head, but nevertheless, I choose to speak on them instead! Bars… lol. With all seriousness, today, I want to speak on “Bullying”. Why? Well, if this is a trigger for you, please stop 🛑 And do not proceed with listening to this episode because today’s subject Is Bullying. Over the years, I have learned that Bullying comes in many shapes and si...

🛑 If You are Someone who is easily triggered by certain words, such as “fear, discrimination, hate” or the like, please do not listen to this Episode🛑 I have kept silent for many days. However, no more! I wanted to address the “elephant in the room”. My question today is, “Can We Just Get Along?” Listen in as I unpack one of my biggest challenges. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encou...