Dear Future Hubby Podcast

The Bible says, “It is Better to be on the rooftop than in a house with a contentious woman!” And yet, there are a lot of houses filled with contentious women! I used to be One of those Women! Nothing to brag about, I’m just stating the facts. Check in to see how I turned that around. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Hunnie, When people show you who they are… Believe them! However, this does not just mean when a person is showing you a negative side of themselves, it goes for when you see the positive in someone as well! And when someone is showing you a highlight of themselves, telling you some great news, expressing genuine joy, are you rejoicing with them or nah? Checkout my latest episode. I hope this Epis...

What does “Constant” even mean? Well, according to the dictionary, it means, “to occur continuously over a period of time. It is a situation or a state of affairs that doesn’t change no matter the circumstance”. So Let’s talk about “Constant Rejection” and what that looks like, as well as, Being your own Constant and Affirming Yourself daily! You are what you say! Therefore what are you Constantly...

If Nothing else, this message is to my Future Hubby and our seeds. I want to ensure that I cancel the Spirit of Laban off of everything and everyone attached to us and our destiny! Genesis chapter 31 has me warring on Our Behalf! No weapon that is formed against us will prosper! I will decree that now and always! May GOD bind the spirit of retaliation and every familiar spirit attached to it. This...

Questions: If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? Would it be something that everyone sees? Would it be the side of yourself that no one sees? Would it be One of your habits? Or would it be One of your flaws? Checkout the latest episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

A question that most of us feel some type of way when we hear it, “Who Hurt You?!” However, during this season of singleness, this is a very critical question to ask. “Who Hurt You?!” Well, for me, I’ve had a lot of time and moments to reflect and process a few times when I was hurt by someone whom I held near and dear to my heart. The truth can be painful, but in my opinion, it is necessary for G...

Are You a Dreamer? Well, I am! I’ve been dreaming for many, many years. I have even written a lot of my Dreams down and looked over them years later. As a matter of fact, I came across a dream that I had over a decade ago. Well, listen in if you’d like to see what it was all about. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

For the past few weeks, I have felt the unction to wake up between the hours of 3 am and 4 am. Until this morning, I had never considered writing in my journal when I am awakened at this hour. If you’d like to know what I discovered, please take a listen to my most recent episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

🚨Trigger alert!!! If you are easily triggered when it comes to hearing about STD’s or the like, please do not listen to this Episode🚨 On this Podcast, I believe in being RAW, which is the Acronym for “Real and Wise”. However, on this Episode I didn’t use Wisdom at All! Although I am extremely transparent and I keep it Real!… In my opinion, everyone has their breaking point! Well, on September 28...

Not every relationship that ends has to be the end all to be all, respectfully! Our past relationships should teach us Something! What have you learned about Yourself from your past Relationships? Are you a better person now than you were back then? I sure hope the answer is yes! However, in my opinion, although we should become Better, sometimes we become Bitter! Which one are you? Better or Bitt...

This Episode is Dedicated to Our Black Men!!! You Are Beautiful!!! I hope this Episode Encourages Someone! Enjoy!

As with Everything else, people will have a difference of opinion when it comes to Their definition of what it means to have a Strongwilled Mind! And that is completely okay with me. Trust me, I am not here to “change your mind”. I am merely here to express My Thoughts as best as I can, for as long as GOD will allow me. Some may agree, some may agree to disagree. Whichever way you choose, I simply...

It’s said so often, “Everything You Need Is Already Inside of You”. If this is True, why do we often look outside of ourselves for answers?! Could it be that we have been so programmed by Corporate America for example, to believe that Their definition of our “worth” is all that we are worth?! Or could it be because we have never once thought about what it would look like if we monetized the very t...

I often hear, “When People Show You WHO They Are, Believe Them”! However, is this really easier said than done?! In my opinion, a lot of people have shown me who they were but I Still chose to keep them in my Life! Maybe because I learned at an early age, people will be people! However, I still believe that we each should have someone or a few someone’s to hold us accountable for our actions, word...

It’s true, sometimes it may take a moment for you to figure out that the Man whom you are so into is truly a Mama’s Boy! And even though we are Taught to look at How a Man treats his Mother because we are told that this will give us a preview of How he will treat us! Please keep in mind that this really depends on the Man!!! Because for Some Men, it doesn’t matter How well he treats his Mother, he...

Sometimes a person just has to pull from the Archive of their Mind! Back to those moments in times when you experienced something Absolutely Extraordinary! Where you weren’t concerned with Bills, Whose turn it is to pick up the baby from daycare, did you miss choir practice, again?! Tune in to hear the latest episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Sometimes I wonder if this is where the coined phrase, “Do it Scared” derived from. If it popped up at that moment when the individual knew what FEAR actually stood for, “False Evidence Appearing Real” and made a conscious decision to do it Anyway! Maybe I will never truly know what was on that person’s mind, however, I have had to do it scared during this journey we call “Life” a few times! Check...

Yes, to Love Yourself beyond Words, Beyond the Opinions of Others, Beyond the Naysayers, Beyond the Doubting Thomas’s, Beyond the Kevin Samuel’s of this World may seem Harder than Anything you have Ever Done, but Don’t You Dare Give Up on You!!! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Have you ever noticed how right before a Rated R movie comes on, there is a message that pops up and it says, “Viewer Discretion is Advised”? Well, why exactly do you think this is? Tune in to this Episode to find out why I believe this is and see if you agree or Nah. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Do you remember your first Puppy Love Experience? Wasn’t is so endearing? Notice how when I bring it up, fond memories tend to come to mind. Well can you experience Puppy Love only Once in your Lifetime? Or can it be Puppy Love at Any Age, at This Age? Checkout the latest episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

How Dare I Expect to be Found by My Purpose Partner at age 47! Well, the fact of the matter is, I am enjoying this Process. It has been so very enlightening along the way. It’s true, I have found Myself Living Out Loud and to be quite Frank with you, I am loving it! Did you know that there is something liberating about enjoying the Process?! Choose Love! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enj...

I must admit, I had a moment on today where I found myself Missing “Pillow Talks”. Plus, I covered some very interesting subjects with a Surprise Guest. Listen in on my latest Episode to see who the Surprise guest is! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Now, if you are Extremely serious all of the Time, have Never Truly learned how to Laugh at Yourself in Fun or Cannot seem to Not Judge Anyone even when They are having Fun, this Episode may Not be the Episode for you to hear because I have Left the Door Wide Open to Laugh at Myself and I enjoy doing Just That! Too often we take like Way Too Seriously and because of this, we suffer Silently! As th...

I understand a lot of us don’t want to hear about the exes. However, not every teacher from our past has been an ex. Some of the lessons we have learned have just been from the opposite sex. On this Episode, I read one of my Original Poems, entitled “Each Man” and I talk about what I learned from each one. Take a listen if you will. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Inquiring minds want to know! Well, my scenario may be a bit outlandish but I hope you get the point! I tend to be a little extreme for remembrance sake. But have you ever settled in a relationship and for a relationship?! Please do yourself a Huge favor and stop settling for Anything!!! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!