Dear Future Hubby Podcast

I had forgotten all about this poem I wrote many years ago but I am glad it is the one I turned to on today’s episode. Men, have you made a covenant with your eyes not to stare upon women in a lustful manner? Women have you made a covenant with your bodies not to use them as objects to “get what you want” from men? So many times we are driven to do things for all of the wrong reasons. Why is that?...

Let’s talk about cheating on this episode too. I am someone who has had experiences with cheating. I have been in a situation or two myself, where I have cheated on someone as well. I have also been in situations several times before where I have been cheated on! But is this saying really true, “Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater”? Or can a Cheater be reformed? I believe that this depends on the Per...

Let’s talk about cheating on this episode. I am someone who has had experiences with cheating. I have been in a situation or two where I have cheated on someone and I have been in situations several times where I have been cheated on. But is the saying true, “Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater”? Or can a cheater be reformed? Listen in as I share my perspective on this subject. My apologies for the q...

One thing I have been saying for many years now is, “Take Care of Yourself because there is Only One You! However, what exactly does taking care of Yourself look like? Sometimes it is easier said than done, right? Well, tune in as I offer some practical ways for you to take care of yourself and a few of them I have tried in times past for myself as well. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be...

To count up the cost is to make sure that prior to your making a decision, you have weighed in on both the positive and the negative outcomes. However, how many of us truly ‘count up the cost’? Listen in as I delve into this a little. 🚨 If you are someone who is easily triggered by the discussion of death, please do not listen to this Episode🚨. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be Encourag...

🚨 If you are someone who is easily triggered when it comes to death or conversations around death, please do not listen to this Episode🚨Have you ever been at work and while you are working, you receive devastating news? You are working and although this news catches you off guard, you convince yourself that you are “okay”, so you wipe your tears away in the bathroom stall, put on your “game” fac...

The Conclusion to the “Is It Better To Marry?” Episode is now available. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

As Promised, here is Part II of the “Is It Better to Marry?” Episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

How many of you have heard the scripture, “It is better to marry than to burn with passion”. Well, I have a few questions about this scripture as I am one who once got married instead of opting to burn with passion. Listen in to see how that worked out for me! This is Part I because my episode was interrupted. My sincerest apologies for any inconvenience. Please be on the lookout for Part II. I ho...

As much as I have tried at times to avoid this like the plague…lol… the truth of the matter is, exercising is healthy for you when done correctly. Seek guidance from your physician if you begin a workout regimen which potentially cause you more harm than health! However, as time goes on and I begin to see that there are many things that are beyond my control. The one thing I can control is the amo...

🚨 If you are someone who is easily triggered, please avoid listening to this episode for the sake of your mental health🚨 Why are you Really in that situationship? This inquiring mind would like to know. Why do you believe that you will “never” get caught being unfaithful to your Spouse? This inquiring mind would like to know…Dear Future Hubby, I pray that you do not ever place me in a situations...

Do you know how many people on this planet truly believe that they can get away with deceiving other people? I don’t either…lol. But what I Do know is that whatever is done in the dark will eventually come to the light. However, I wanted to delve into the subject of Infidelity for a moment. My apologies for the interrupted program but this will be Part I. Be on the lookout for Part II. I hope this...

Sometimes you just have to be willing to address the matters of your heart and deal with those areas that are way less becoming. This is something that I am re-learning how to do and allowing Myself to be vulnerable when my defense is to remain guarded due to past trauma. How have you overcome a Tarnished Name? Well, listen in as I tell you about an experience I had that I believe only GOD was abl...

One thing I do not believe I have ever addressed is having a Tarnished Name. However, because I believe in being R.A.W.-Real and Wise, I wanted to take a moment to address My Tarnished Name. Take a moment to listen as I share an experience from my past. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

🚨 If you are someone who is easily triggered, please do not listen to this episode🚨 Have you ever been asked, “Are You Healing While You Are Hurting?” If yes, how does this look like for you? For me, it looks a little something like this… Tune in and listen to my perspective on Healing While Hurting. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be Encouraged.

I totally understand. Sometimes we can easily forget that we wrestle not against flesh and blood but instead we wrestle against principalities and demons in high places. That being said, it is Still the small foxes that can spoil the vine. So what would you do if the illusion of Infidelity manifested in Your relationship? Would you throw the entire relationship away based on F.E.A.R. -False Eviden...

Well, over the past year, I have spoken about my singleness journey and I have introduced this audience to four of my six children. However, what I have not done is spoken about Why I love GOD! Trust me, He has proven how much He loves me too over these years. However, this is that episode where I answer the question, Why GOD? I hope this Episode encourages Someone. Enjoy!

Do you know Yourself? That is my question in this hour. Oftentimes we are waiting on the “other person” to do the work! But what if the truest answer is that the work starts with You?! If I haven’t learned anything, I have learned this one thing… Sometimes We Gotta Be Still to Heal! Listen in as I share my take on this subject as I attempt to remain R.A.W.-Real and Wise! I hope this Episode encour...

After finding out how one of the Rappers broke up with his actress girlfriend publicly, I decided to throw my two cent in. In my honest opinion, there are much better ways to end a relationship and keep your dignity in tact while you are doing so than to publicly humiliate a person whom you once claimed to have “loved”. On here we are being R.A.W. -Real and Wise. Listen in as I share my take on ho...

I wanted to take a moment to let my audience know that due to extenuating circumstances I have been incognito. I caught COVID! Please keep my family and I lifted up in your righteous and fervent prayers as we attempt to heal from this illness. We are also praying for all of those who have become impacted by COVID 19. This thing is a beast! I hope this Episode encourages Someone!

I do believe that GOD hates divorce. However, In my Opinion, that’s when HE put that marriage Together!!! There are A Lot of people who claim that GOD put their marriage together but the fruit they bear says something completely different. Listen in as I speak on one of the most recent potential divorces currently unfolding in the public eye and hear what I have to say about it! I hope this Episod...

How many times do you keep repeating the same old things? Whether it’s unspoken expectations in your platonic or romantic relationships. Whether it’s with your children. Or the type of employment you choose? Are you ready for a New Experience? Are you willing to look within and choose a much wiser way to break the curse? To address your trauma and Heal? Tune in as I share my own personal experienc...

That moment when you hear, “Man, Can’t you be More like So-and-so?” Whether you are a child, hearing this from a parent, or an employee hearing this from your boss, remember HOW hearing this made you feel? Well, there are people who love to Compare one love experience to another. In my honest opinion, I truly believe that Comparison Robs You of your Now Love Experience! Listen in as I share my vie...

One thing that I love to do is when I meet a couple is ask them the following questions, “How did the two of you meet?” And “When did you Know that he/she was the One?” Listen in as I begin to unpack this. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

December 16th 2021 marked my Ten Year Brain Surgery Survival Anniversary. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that this is nothing shy of a Miracle. And by the Grace of GOD, I Still Believe In Miracles! This is part 2 of my journey when I discovered that I had a Tumor in my brain, the First Time. Listen in as I share my Truth! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!