Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

Glory holes have intention behind them--not just the people that use them. There's a lesson there if you allow it. #hookups #entanglements #anon #DatingAdvice #SingleAdvocate 📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast YT: https://bit.ly/3V8HjuW Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s 🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture:...

Why do we end up doing the "so what's up" tango when we hook-up? I got a huge aha about our interests and attractions on my last entanglement. #Hookups #SingleLife #DatingAdvice #SingleAdvocate 📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast YT: https://bit.ly/3V8HjuW 🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for...

Break ups suck, no matter who you are and who initiated. It takes time and work to get back to yourself “with full mobility”. These are 5 benchmarks along the journey. #BreakUps #DatingAdvice #SingleAdvocate 📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast YT: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s 🎶 Theme music by The Passion...

This video is your secret guidebook to understanding what kind of versatile you are, what kind of versatile he is, and how y’all can make magic together. #datingadvice #sexcoach Dating "John": https://youtu.be/KKTZk5GmJvQ 📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast YT: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s 🎶 Theme music...

I’ve pursued deeply unavailable men for the my whole life as an out, Black gay man. Giving too much, compensating for their disinterest and releasing all my agency. These are some critical life lessons I picked up along my journey to happiness. Thanks  @Case Kenny  #relationshipadvice #podcast #blackgaymen Case Kenny’s book: https://amzn.to/3L8A5CA Case Kenny’s YouTube video: https://youtu.be/pH5s...

Can we ever stop overthinking? Is that ever a good thing? Is there a such thing as Virgo seduction? This week, we ring in a new astrological season as I discuss what to your virgo won’t stop virgo-ing.  Links: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a pub...

If you’ve ever had boring online conversations with potentials, it’s probably because of one of these reasons Links: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus epis...

In this episode, I talk about how I protect my emotions when I'm engaging, and why it's holding some of us back from true connection. Purchase Ethical Slut on Amazon: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B01N0SA1YW&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_CBKKSD0KX4HG25MZP686&tag=iamfullyvers-20 Links: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen https://www.instagram.com/JaiTh...

In this episode, I talk about the epidemic of asking for things we're really not ready for and how I overcame my lack of emotional and sexual preparedness. But then I also talk about why bottoms are the cornerstone of our culture. Links: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by Th...

In this episode, I talk about why getting out of other folks' business is so much more than just gossiping and it actually will unlock your (and others') blessings. ha-ya-bo-ho-ko-shah... Links https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If...

Encanto had me in the full ugly cry because I realized I'm Bruno with a Mirabel twist. Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

I'm taking a break from my "Joe Chronicles" to talk about my last time going to the s*x house...and what I learned from it.  Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

My best friend Maquan (@TruthfullyLoyal on IG) gave me maybe the best relationship advice I've ever gotten as the dating saga with Joe continues.  Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

Jerrod Carmichael bravely talks about what it means to live with a lie and the hard journey someone close to him had to take to overcome it. Oh...and he came out as gay. Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.sub...

I was on a cabin trip...but not one of "those kind" of gay cabin trips and somebody asked me the best question about relationships. I didn't have an answer then, but I got one now. Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblac...

I hated on Durand Bernarr so bad. Yes, I'm a hating @ssed n*gga. But I'm overcoming and evolving. You know what I call that? Growth Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

I'm watching this White gay couple live off the grid, and I'm thinking, "Do we do stuff like that?" "Do we even want to?" I'm ready to argue, cuz I can feel it coming. http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

When Jhené Aiko said that, I felt that s**t. This episode is me realizing I aint' where I want to be, but I'm definitely not where I used to be. Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

We've traveled down the road and back again. Joe wants to be my friend. Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

"I was expressing a relationship" was probably the biggest epiphany I had. "When he walks away from me, I want that n*gga to feel that sh*t." Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

It's me. I'm n*ggas. I'm excited to be back to the podcast. Being on this side of this question makes sure I never have to give any answers. Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

I talked to Lamont White of Better Way to Meet for my YouTube channel and he told me it's okay to be single. So blame him when I say, "F*ck y'all's Valentines". #SorryNotSorry This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

I thought I was going to brunch, but I learned what my type is, how I want that nigga to treat me, and why my sister is not the be f*cked with. I need another mimosa... Shop: http://www.fullyvers.com/shop Follow me: http://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes,...

You ever wanted to holler at somebody, but his resting b***h face put you off? That was me until I got this big lesson http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk about the time someone slid in my DMs but didn't want nothing. This dating life is frustrating.  http://www.fullyvers.com Theme music by The Passion HIFI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com/subscribe